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Re: Update On Clara Chime. by Lakayanah: 3:27pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Yet these are the rulers of our people. No wonder we have s crazy country. 3 Likes |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by dasparrow: 3:29pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Chigold101: it is really a good move but the point she made about taking costudy of her son to me is laughable. She is igbo i beleive & she knows that children belong their father in igboland once that man met all the traditional rites. I am sure she was traditionaly married before going for a church wedding. She should not complicate her issue by going to claim a man‘s baby boy. I wish her well. Chime looks so gentle but i never knew that something funny is lucking inside that look. It takes a man and a woman to make a baby, be that baby a boy or a girl. Spermatozoa alone does not make a baby so why should children belong to just the man? How about joint custody where both the father and mother of the child take care of him even though the parents are no longer together? Or is that too much to ask for? So what you are saying is that in Igbo land, women are just incubators? The day their marriages should fall apart, they loose their offspring to their estranged spouse all in the name of culture? I guess we learn everyday. 3 Likes |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by tandj: 3:29pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
I remembered vividly when this story made headlines. People were accusing and hauling insults on that lady. She survived a marital abuse and we should applaud her. Maybe some of us don't know what abuse is or we know but prefer suffering and smiling . And I noticed one thing from d posts here. Why d jealous comments? R we this idle and enviuos? When her story came out first, c jealous comments oozing out, now d same thing is happening. Hmm..........I reject poverty of d mind and body,amen. 2 Likes |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by tuffgongjo(m): 3:29pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
aisha2:all this doesn't stop a female from being one. 1 Like |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by maestroferddi: 3:32pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
aisha2: Learned the hard way that people tend to Judge others by their own low standards.Seems you are trying your hands on a sort of romance thriller abi na girl power series. You don't need to try too hard as any discernible mind can easily put two and two together in this saga. We all know the psychology of most ladies so it is pointless selling this eulogy of Clara Chime. We all sympathise with the foul treatment meted to her by the hubby but nonetheless it is very evident that she pushed her opportunist luck too far. When you elect to become your schoolmate's step-mother at the drop of a hat, you should be circumspect enough to figure out that you are on a tiger ride. I am sure she is wiser for it now. 3 Likes |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by Nobody: 3:35pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
aisha2: erm, we discussed this well on NL the story floating around that she was a runs girl and the guy na randy bagger who needed to present a wife [family man things] the guy continued chasing small girls after marrying her [apparently he's called chime 'picanto'. nack him and you get a kia picanto] anyway, madam clara got pissed and started using the agents of the state to monitor chimes moves apparently, clara was also some sort of former close friend to chime's daughter , and the family was not happy they also say chime got clara's sister pregnant a lot of messy stuff. the summary i guess is runs babe jam manwhore - equation balance. https://www.nairaland.com/1513362/case-clara-chime-enugu-first 5 Likes |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by Kalvan: 3:35pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Lol. Ibo people problems. Haha. |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by Nobody: 3:38pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
oyb: The nasty version people choose to believe as against the less glamourous truth 1 Like |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by adconline(m): 3:44pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
aisha2:You missed the part when she was Azonto/Runs Girls.. Not defending governor Chime. 1 Like |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by Unemadu: 3:44pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Sloan: You have a dark soul. 2 Likes |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by Nobody: 3:47pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
adconline: She was working with PTDF, how was she a runsgirl? Is it just better for you to believe that than to believe she was decent? Is our own standards so low that everyone has to be nasty and dirty when something happens to them? 2 Likes |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by tuffgongjo(m): 3:47pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
oyb:2 divide 4,equation balance. 1 Like |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by Nobody: 3:49pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
http://www.imostateblog.com/2012/03/18/what-you-may-not-know-about-some-governors-wives/ A graduate of Marketing from the Abia State University, Uturu, Clara, 32, was born in Isiochi, Abia State, but grew up in Katsina State. Apparently, her northern Nigeria background must have informed her rather reserved nature and dressing style. this is from before all the gragra with chime started going by this, she married him when she was 28 the guy is 55 now - which makes him 49 when he married her in 2008 note that the link was hyping her. it said nothing about a master's degree. didn't even say anything about ptdf more to the point http://therainbow.com.ng/tabloid/presidency-gives-nafdac-job-to-clara-chime-estranged-wife-of-gov-chime/ would you say she earned that job? so who is to say she earned the ptdf job? maybe its a smear job from chime, i don't really think so chime's reputation as a dog has been in the press for far too long for her not to have known exactly what she was walking into in this naija, imho, when you see some rich dude marrying a chick young enough to be his daughter, it simply means he's been erm totowhipped by his runschick just sayin' 3 Likes |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by myspnigeria: 3:52pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Happy for her |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by bigbumper(f): 3:52pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
aisha2: That was what happened. You are the one with the rose tinted goggles trying to turn the story to a "hear ye all women, you can an abusive man and still be successful" ish. That propaganda does not befit this story at all. 2 Likes |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by touchmeder: 3:52pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Its all good, she is lucky she got all this help @ d end of d day cos most women dont. Goodluck to her but another woman go soon enter that house. She must have heard things about the 1st wife but she either ignored it or pretended and dived inside husband house. 1 Like |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by englishmart(m): 3:53pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
I still find it pretty difficult to decipher the reason behind these repellent treatments Mr chime gave to my sister! Any help? 1 Like |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by Nobody: 3:53pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
oyb: http://www.imostateblog.com/2012/03/18/what-you-may-not-know-about-some-governors-wives/ My friend married a widower, she is 30 he is 50 does that make her a runs girl? Women marry older men, he wasnt married when they met and married. When did his reputation come out? Wasnt it after he married her and she started shouting out? The first wife simply and quietly disappeared without noise. Please trace 1 of Claras friends or classmates who will tell you something negative about her. People have been going round concocting stories over someone they dont know, not one person who have known her right from secondary school have come out to colloborate the rumours yet to make yourself feel better you will add and add up stories to justify something that doesnt exist 1 Like |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by Nobody: 3:55pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
bigbumper: Am sure you have evidence apart from "them say" to back your claims. 1 Like |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by lucianohase(m): 3:58pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
cococandy: That's great news for her.since the person still see all that glitter as gold. |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by tuffgongjo(m): 4:00pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
aisha2:working with Obama doesn't mean a gal won't be a runs gal,I think you either benefiting from her,not living in naija or living in denials,but I A̶̲̥̅♏ not supporting Picanto chime also. 1 Like |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by Nobody: 4:02pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
aisha2: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sullivan_Chime the man has been big in enugu since 2001. you think he started manwhoring in 2011? My friend married a widower, she is 30 he is 50 does that make her a runs girl? in this naija, imho, when you see some rich womaniser marrying a chick young enough to be his daughter, it simply means he's been erm totowhipped by his runs chick just sayin' Please trace 1 of Claras friends or classmates who will tell you something negative about her. where were all these friends when the 'smear campaign' was on? even her family kept quiet. there are enough blogs that would have published open letters 'in defence of my friend clara chime' i admire and respect your dedication to protection of threatened women and children , but i don't think this is a case of that nature. 4 Likes |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by Uchwilliam(m): 4:02pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Any time i see dis enugu governor i remember my ex evil boss..there is sth i see in dis governor dat is makes me shiver he is lik a time bomb..i think he has a super bad temper. 1 Like |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by bigbumper(f): 4:04pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
aisha2: Learned the hard way that people tend to Judge others by their own low standards. What is it with the vitrioilic comment What are you getting salty for Like someone opined earlier, she is no role model for your girl power campaign. End of. freshdude2: E maa binu na. It's just I don't believe in things like that. If he said so, he needs his head examined. Perhaps, she infected him with mental illness, or is it vice versa?! Lack of believe in a thing does not make it unreal. 1 Like |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by Nobody: 4:10pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
oyb: Those friends were busy engaging a lawyer, writing petitions to SSS and the National Human Rights commission to secure her release. Those friends got it on blogs, when rumour mongers decide to take and twist it is beyond anyones control. I dont even bother anymore because when it comes to your end you will understand. 1 Like |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by Nobody: 4:12pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
oyb: Thats how YOUR own mind works and you are entitled to it. Calling some one a runs girl simply because of your sterotype with no evidence that she is one is your choice. The day rumour mongers get on your case make God raise defenders for you. Amen. 2 Likes |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by bigbumper(f): 4:13pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
maestroferddi: I am surprised people seem to be absolving this Chime of a bloke. A state governor that could not observe basic continence. So his mandate in Enugu was to be a serial philanderer/orgy-maker. Never knew that this dude that looks so urbane and cultured is this irresponsible. *Tufiakwa!* Gosh, so with all the big big grammar you are throwing around, your brain cannot connect the dot that my solely focusing on Clara does not mean I support Governor Chime's philandering ways and the way he spent money meant for the people in Enugu on prostitutes, smh agitator: Don't mind them acting like ostriches with their heads in the sand, pretending as if they don't know whats up 2 Likes |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by cococandy(f): 4:14pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
I know a 27 year old girl married to 55 year old man(widower) and they didn't meet through wh0ring. He expressed his desire to marry.set out on a search and married this girl based on recommendation from one of his relatives who knew her to be a good girl. I'm not saying the age gap is appropriate Neither can I say I'm certain why she agreed to marry him. I just find it ridiculous that many folks believe this clara lady was a wh0re. If you don't know her personally,as in if she's not your sister or friend,then don't say such negative things based on heresay. Most guys condemning her are butt hurt because they feel the old guys with money get the young girls While the ladies are plain jealous she had the life they desired and now can't hide their glee that she's fallen. I didn't know her,so I can't make any comment about her wh0rish life or lack of it. The important thing is that she survived and abandonded an abusive marriage.which is what the topic is about. oyb: http://www.imostateblog.com/2012/03/18/what-you-may-not-know-about-some-governors-wives/ 2 Likes |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by Nobody: 4:16pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
tuffgongjo: working with Obama doesn't mean a gal won't be a runs gal,I think you either benefiting from her,not living in naija or living in denials,but I A̶̲̥̅♏ not supporting Picanto chime also. On the contrary, I know her from a distance for a LOnnnnngggg time. However I have had someone so close to me dragged through the mud and so maligned even when the criminals confessed people ignored their confessions and stuck with the "Runs Girl" story not minding evidence to the contrary. Its just sad how we just choose to believe the worst about others without bothering to dig deeper, someone starts a rumour we all jump in and spread it, how is it different from those who shout "Theif" and we all gather to burn the person with tyre without even finding out if its true. |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by KingAdeOluomo1(m): 4:18pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
aisha2: It seems Governor Clara Chimes Wife has moved on and Judging from his recent fight with his deputy he likes to be a bit of a bully. I just saw the issue with his deputy and googled his now ex wife :EzeobiWhat |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by tuffgongjo(m): 4:18pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
aisha2:my point is don't think working with pdtf$having a masters degree is enough to make someone a no runs gal. 1 Like |
Re: Update On Clara Chime. by cococandy(f): 4:21pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
I think calling someone you didn't personally know a prost.itute is more vitriolic. And even if that were true,how does it subtract from the subject of the thread which is that abused women should find strength to leave such marriages. bigbumper: |
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