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Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by hayorbaami: 10:39am On Aug 01, 2014 |
tosinhtml: A man made a comment I backed up but you eediotic weakling ignored that and decided to jump on my post. Why didn't you tag the guy a feminist? When will you retarrded men even learn to keep feminism out of your lips? Better watch it if you don't want your obituary to read "died of hatred for feminism". Olofo! 2 Likes |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by naijaboiy: 10:40am On Aug 01, 2014 |
Ghyft: marriage counsellor...Ghyft!!!! Is that you |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by Sagamite(m): 10:40am On Aug 01, 2014 |
Sweetlemon: What an insensitive husband! Of course you will refuse to believe. As real men like onegig will join you harmonically in saying: "Men are baaaaastaaaaards!" Obviously she deserves wonderful birthday complimentaries from him no matter what she did. 3 Likes |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by naijaboiy: 10:42am On Aug 01, 2014 |
hmmm...it's about to get hot *Runs awtta thread* |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by Effiwizzi: 10:43am On Aug 01, 2014 |
DIVORCE HIM!!!. Where are all the feminist in the house who cannot take shit from men. Where are our emancipated, liberated and learnered women in the hose please i need ur support on this . Czechrep: Hi Nairalanders, my hubby is emotionally mean |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by Ghyft(f): 10:43am On Aug 01, 2014 |
naijaboiy:yeah...What sup with the marriage talk? |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by akuchiemartin(m): 10:47am On Aug 01, 2014 |
ednut1: so wat shud we do. My broda ask am oooo.. What shud we do..? |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by WhyAWhy(m): 10:47am On Aug 01, 2014 |
Czechrep: Guys what could i possibly do that would warrant such meanness? Its so petty and i wouldnt ever bother to mention it, he visits nairaland and would probably see this and write back, Fyi i ddint cheat or steal or even commit any offense.thanks y'all for your comments, Whatever will be will be, i didnt ask for any gifts or money, i just felt " Happy Birthday " would have meant alot, cheers guys The offender always think what they did was "petty". The same way my ex thought that the fact that she kissed some guy was "petty" 3 Likes |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by Sagamite(m): 10:48am On Aug 01, 2014 |
Kc2swit: I utterly blame this poster for hanging her husband out here to dry. You cleverly mentioned his reaction without stating what propelled or elicited such from him. hence, whipping up the sentiments of some narrow-minded ,ill-experienced blokes to tag your husband various names. A wise woman builds her home, while the foolish one destroys it; and I cant see how these single ladies passing uninformed judgement against your husband will help you build your home. Yeye, fake man. Why wetin prophet or elisha am matter? You just dey use big big grammar for nothing. THIS IS THE 21ST CENTURY, my friend! You are backwards. You are a sexist PIG! Cave man! 2 Likes |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by xynerise: 10:49am On Aug 01, 2014 |
Sagamite:. I don't know if these women think men are perfectly designed not to feel emotionally hurt. Smh 3 Likes |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by Nobody: 10:51am On Aug 01, 2014 |
mstik: So sorry that you have such an insensitive husband. Maybe you should try talking to him. Do not repay evil with evil, keep talking to him as if nothing happened, that would definitely get him to break he icewhy concluding without getting the full gist? Nawao! How on earth will u conclude the gentleman is insensitive without even hearing his own part of d story. 1 Like |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by iamjane(f): 10:51am On Aug 01, 2014 |
[ Czechrep: Guys what could i possibly do that would warrant such meanness? Its so petty and i wouldnt ever bother to mention it, he visits nairaland and would probably see this and write back, I won't act like one who's happy about your issue by taking sides or by chastising your hubby and/you. I'm not sad either as this is one of those things in marriages. What's saddening I've highlighted above. Psychologically/emotionally you have presented your supposed Best friend here to be tongue lashed. It can have an adverse effect on you as regards the image you have about him. This can in turn adversely influence your decision or resolve... even though your initial intention was just to 'ease the pain' by pouring your heart... Let's look at marriage from this standpoint: "Love is not looking at one another, but looking together in the same direction. "- Saint-Exupery. If you trust him; if you are not suspicious of him, then go to him.-You know him better than any of us.. don't say you didn't do anything wrong, the important thing is that he-your best friend is not happy. My regards to your matrimony. 6 Likes |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by beehollah: 10:52am On Aug 01, 2014 |
Oh well! This is some case here ... |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by Sagamite(m): 10:54am On Aug 01, 2014 |
xynerise: Emotions? Does your emotion matter? You are not a real man then. Real men's emotion is only linked to how well their women say they eat their shyt. If you eat it well, then you should be happy. Fake man! When you grow up and become more "mature" like onegig, you will know that your job on Earth is to satisfy one woman's emotions while she does not give a shyt about yours and only looks out for her interest. Park your own emotions and satisfy hers. That is what REAL MEN do. You are a Cave Man! 7 Likes |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by buchibabe: 10:56am On Aug 01, 2014 |
Czechrep: Hi Nairalanders, my hubby is emotionally mean hmnn... I understand u wella. |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by iamjane(f): 10:56am On Aug 01, 2014 |
[ Czechrep: Guys what could i possibly do that would warrant such meanness? Its so petty and i wouldnt ever bother to mention it, he visits nairaland and would probably see this and write back, I won't act like one who's happy about your issue by taking sides or by chastising your hubby and/you. I'm not sad either as this is one of those things in marriages. What's saddening I've highlighted above. Psychologically/emotionally you have presented your supposed Best friend here to be tongue lashed. It can have an adverse effect on you as regards the image you have about him. This can in turn adversely influence your decision or resolve... even though your initial intention was just to 'ease the pain' by pouring your heart... Let's look at marriage from this standpoint: "Love is not looking at one another, but looking together in the same direction. "- Saint-Exupery. If you trust him; if you are not suspicious of him, then go to him.-You know him better than any of us.. don't say you didn't do anything wrong, the important thing is that he-your best friend is not happy. My regards to your matrimony. 2 Likes |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by Odika1: 10:57am On Aug 01, 2014 |
If na me be the guy,two months go pass before i give u face again,u women are always getting on our nerves until u drag us to the limit.if u feel like say ur own don too much i go leave the house for u sef. |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by XTIANmaha(m): 10:58am On Aug 01, 2014 |
Tallesty1: Issues get level madam so what really happened? U said my mind. Some ladies think men are robbot, sorry n it should be over. Even fan takes seconds after switching off to stop. 1 Like |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by lorRhyMeZ: 10:58am On Aug 01, 2014 |
Na wa o...una no get work? See as una carry Op matter for head like load.. D Op no even too show face sef o |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by alexlee50: 10:59am On Aug 01, 2014 |
ednut1: so wat shud we doif u don't have anything to say keep quiet. |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by Nobody: 11:02am On Aug 01, 2014 |
Nawa 4 d turn of events in dis thread oo, am sure d OP is wishing she had neva brought dis here hmmmmm make God helep u solve ur marital problems. IJN. God no go let me bring me nd my husband mata for public forum |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by Nobody: 11:02am On Aug 01, 2014 |
The rate at which our ladies and women folk are going about this feminism of a thing, make Una take am easy oooo! When you keep holding ur dogma of being equal to ur husband without playing the womanly role. When the going eventually goes tough that ur marriage is crashing pls go to ur co-feminist to find a solution to ur problem and stop disturbing nairaland. A woman should be submissive to her husband. No man will ever like a woman who claims equality with him. |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by xynerise: 11:03am On Aug 01, 2014 |
Sagamite:hehehehehehe |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by LaRoyalHighness(f): 11:05am On Aug 01, 2014 |
And you came to nairaland to open a thread... Instead of sorting your self out... Ok... sorry to burst your bubbles... On this wonderful platform.... The males here are (for lack of appropriate words)MORE than emotionally mean. *Trust me. 2 Likes |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by buchibabe: 11:08am On Aug 01, 2014 |
Czechrep: Hi Nairalanders, my hubby is emotionally mean i feel u . But Nairaland is NOT d best plqce to qsk for advise on mqtas like dis. because dia are Meaner pple who would tongue lash u and put all d blame on u irrespective of weda ur at fault or how u feel. Marriage no easy sha. may God giv u d grace to endure |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by rickt: 11:09am On Aug 01, 2014 |
rattlesnake: Some ladies are so silly to use their ex as dpCould you be the Husband? Was this the cause of the fight/rift,or what're you saying? 4 Likes |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by QuiverBox(f): 11:12am On Aug 01, 2014 |
Czechrep: Hi Nairalanders, my hubby is emotionally mean I just find it absurd, how people come to Nairaland, register new Monikers just to post a Problem about their Lifes. I am sure the OP is an existing Registered Nairalander Before 31st of July. But she decided to Register a New Moniker for the sole purpose of Posting about what her Husband did. If you can't post your problem with your existing Moniker don't register a new moniker to post it. Registering a new Moniker means that you doubt your INTERGRITY and YOUR ATTITUTE. As if that is not enough, you know are telly Us that the issue is petty, we are only hearing from your own side, your hubby is not her to tell us what really transpired. Obviously deep within you, you know the issue is not petty, if it were you would have stated the issue explitcily. Nairaland is not a Congregation of Witches , Wizards and Spirits, if you can't tell us honestly what you did to your Husband, keep your problem to yourself. #OVER AND OUT 12 Likes |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by ogmask: 11:14am On Aug 01, 2014 |
naijaboiy: What would you do if your wife had sex witt ur bestfriend 2days to her bday? Are u married? You shuld have encouraged her to tell us the coco b4 drawing that line.... |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by sunquiyahki(m): 11:17am On Aug 01, 2014 |
Czechrep: Hi Nairalanders, my hubby is emotionally mean 1 Like
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Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by DOWHILE: 11:22am On Aug 01, 2014 |
ednut1: so wat shud we doLWKMD.......Bros, u mean pass the husband sef 1 Like |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by mencade5(m): 11:22am On Aug 01, 2014 |
adecharly: Birthday........ Hmmmmmmm.chaiii...bros marriage na wa ooo |
Re: My Hubby Is Emotionally Mean by akatekpe(m): 11:23am On Aug 01, 2014 |
Teespice:Wetin happen madam? |
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