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Shes Moved On! by Jasi7(m): 8:17pm On Aug 01, 2014
So you're mad when you found out she started dating again?
But the funny thing is, you're the one who left her.
You're the one who acted like you didn't want to be with her anymore.
You're the one who made her feel like you're bored of her.
You're the one who made her feel like you didn't want to be around her.
You're the one who made her feel like she was annoying you everytime you guys talked.
You're the one who made her feel like she isn't good enough & doesn't excite you like before.
So what do you expect her to do?
Mope around & feel sorry for herself?
Cry herself to sleep & wake up the next day feeling like shit all over again?
Stop living her life while you get to enjoy your new single life?
No, she wasn't going to put her life on pause while you get to keep moving forward with yours.
Don't be mad while she's doing exactly what you enabled her to do.
Re: Shes Moved On! by dollydolly(f): 8:33pm On Aug 01, 2014
Exactly.
Re: Shes Moved On! by Nobody: 8:38pm On Aug 01, 2014
She Moved On?

Re: Shes Moved On! by Jasi7(m): 8:49pm On Aug 01, 2014
Ceasar1: She Moved On?

Yea she did...she had to anyway!
Re: Shes Moved On! by Jasi7(m): 8:50pm On Aug 01, 2014
dollydolly: Exactly.


smiley
Re: Shes Moved On! by MizMyColi(f): 9:11pm On Aug 01, 2014
Coming from an (m) - Hmmmmm cool
Re: Shes Moved On! by wheesin(m): 9:12pm On Aug 01, 2014
i dnt understand.. who died undecided
Re: Shes Moved On! by Jasi7(m): 9:14pm On Aug 01, 2014
MizMyColi: Coming from an (m) - Hmmmmm cool

Miz...is anytin wrng wit it comin frm an (m) huh?...i jst laid in my bed and tot abt it and started typin
Re: Shes Moved On! by Jasi7(m): 9:15pm On Aug 01, 2014
wheesin: i dnt understand.. who died undecided

Nobody did...e b lyk say u like funeral attendance wela shey!
Re: Shes Moved On! by MizMyColi(f): 10:03pm On Aug 01, 2014
Jasi7:

Miz...is anytin wrng wit it comin frm an (m) huh?...i jst laid in my bed and tot abt it and started typin
Nothing o o, nothing at all. If anything, I appreciate your post.

It resonated so well with me, reminds me of a post I made before the tsunami:

"I take my commitments seriously, and I put forth a lot of effort into making it work once I've committed myself to it.

In the event that it fails, I tend to feel a lot of guilt, and take on blame for the failure, but I will move on with my life with relative ease, without looking backwards. "


Back then, He made it seem like I was cheating on Him before I left him, for the same reasons you mentioned in your post and I be like wha??!!! shocked shocked

Re: Shes Moved On! by Jasi7(m): 7:50am On Aug 02, 2014
MizMyColi:
Nothing o o, nothing at all. If anything, I appreciate your post




Back then, He made it seem like I was cheating on Him before I left him, for the same reasons you mentioned in your post and I be like wha??!!! shocked shocked



Oh my...so sowie abt that!...sh*t hapens!...i hv cousins who went tru dis same messand told me abt it,i felt rough so i wantd to let oda dudes knw dat hrt breaks dat dey cause for ladies wont last and God help dem(guys)if d lady eventually lives better dan dey were after d dude fvcked things up....

Try listenin to adele *someone like u*..its soothing in cases like dis.
Re: Shes Moved On! by Jasi7(m): 8:04am On Aug 02, 2014
MizMyColi:
Nothing o o, nothing at all. If anything, I appreciate your post.

It resonated so well with me, reminds me of a post I made before the tsunami:




Back then, He made it seem like I was cheating on Him before I left him, for the same reasons you mentioned in your post and I be like wha??!!! shocked shocked


Oh my...dat must have broken u into pieces...bt am hapi u moved on!
Re: Shes Moved On! by Nobody: 8:05am On Aug 02, 2014
Abi o. sad
Re: Shes Moved On! by Nobody: 8:36am On Aug 02, 2014
hmmmmm...thumps up
Re: Shes Moved On! by MizMyColi(f): 9:15am On Aug 02, 2014
Jasi7:

Oh my...dat must have broken u into pieces...bt am hapi u moved on!

Pieces ke?! No o o undecided I was amazed at how I took the whole thing, especially considering that He let go first, his reasons being that "he didn't have what it takes, emotionally and otherwise"...... cheesy cheesy now he wants me back - pfffttt

No matter how soft hearted and vulnerable a lady thinks she is, she's actually stronger than she gives herself credit for.

Anyways undecided that was in the past.

grin I came out stronger, better and........

Re: Shes Moved On! by Nobody: 9:23am On Aug 02, 2014
[quote author=Jasi7]

Nobody did...e b lyk say u like funeral attendance wela shey![/quote grin
Re: Shes Moved On! by Jasi7(m): 9:42am On Aug 02, 2014
MizMyColi:

Pieces ke?! No o o undecided I was amazed at how I took the whole thing, especially considering that He let go first, his reasons being that "he didn't have what it takes, emotionally and otherwise"...... cheesy cheesy now he wants me back - pfffttt

No matter how soft hearted and vulnerable a lady thinks she is, she's actually stronger than she gives herself credit for.

Anyways undecided that was in the past.

grin I came out stronger, better and........



Happy for ya....grin
Re: Shes Moved On! by Nobody: 10:00am On Aug 02, 2014
MizMyColi:
grin I came out stronger, better and........

.... Cautious - With a big hard shell wrapped protectively around my heart. cry
Re: Shes Moved On! by MizMyColi(f): 10:04am On Aug 02, 2014
Ceasar1:

.... Cautious - With a big hard shell wrapped protectively around my heart. cry
cheesy cheesy Naaah....on the contrary, on-the-contrary. Albeit, I got wiser, I searched myself to know the areas in which I erred and I purposed in my heart to make things right @the next shot I get @lovin' wink.....
Re: Shes Moved On! by Jasi7(m): 10:11am On Aug 02, 2014
MzMariah: Abi o. sad

Yes o....grin

Hw u dey na
Re: Shes Moved On! by Jasi7(m): 10:12am On Aug 02, 2014
Xtarxhyne: hmmmmm...thumps up

Thank u sweery...
Re: Shes Moved On! by Jasi7(m): 10:13am On Aug 02, 2014
MizMyColi: cheesy cheesy Naaah....on the contrary, on-the-contrary. Albeit, I got wiser, I searched myself to know the areas in which I erred and I purposed in my heart to make things right @the next shot I get @lovin' wink.....

Nice talk uve got there!

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Re: Shes Moved On! by Nobody: 10:14am On Aug 02, 2014
MizMyColi: I purposed in my heart to make things right @the next shot I get @lovin' wink.....
Aww, Cute. smiley

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Re: Shes Moved On! by mencade5(m): 10:42am On Aug 02, 2014
Jasi7: So you're mad when you found out she started dating again?
But the funny thing is, you're the one who left her.
You're the one who acted like you didn't want to be with her anymore.
You're the one who made her feel like you're bored of her.
You're the one who made her feel like you didn't want to be around her.
You're the one who made her feel like she was annoying you everytime you guys talked.
You're the one who made her feel like she isn't good enough & doesn't excite you like before.
So what do you expect her to do?
Mope around & feel sorry for herself?
Cry herself to sleep & wake up the next day feeling like shit all over again?
Stop living her life while you get to enjoy your new single life?
No, she wasn't going to put her life on pause while you get to keep moving forward with yours.
Don't be mad while she's doing exactly what you enabled her to do.

no need for long sermon.

Why wont i leave her? tongue

when i was with her she was dating many guys apart from me.
She fvcked around with any guy that showed her small money.
I tried to help her to make her life better but she felt she needed to enjoy life more. tongue

why i no go leave her?
Re: Shes Moved On! by Jasi7(m): 12:09pm On Aug 02, 2014
mencade5:

no need for long sermon.

Why wont i leave her? tongue

when i was with her she was dating many guys apart from me.
She fvcked around with any guy that showed her small money.
I tried to help her to make her life better but she felt she needed to enjoy life more. tongue

why i no go leave her?


Mayb it wasnt actually wat u heard,saw and felt was wat hapend....let us b truthful(from a guy to anoda guy)...we get tired wen we ve our fill of s*x wit a lady...dats y its not good to run ur relationship on jst emotions...try and b frnds..no b say everytym una go dey form giv each other makin it feel like ''my guy/gurl is here,i nid to behave myself...b playful wit each other

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