mrspeaker: There is no amount of word to justify evil. Any sensible babe who is complete could do better rather than resort to prostitution. Even if the whole of Nigeria is filled with poverty we will still have decent ones.most of them are doing it because of greed or they want to belong high class level. The end is what matters......#smh because many have gone

Prostitution is not evil. Hypergamy is evil.
But then, survival comes first before morality. You do what you have to do.

monex:

very true jare.

it is even comfortable decent guys that chase after the ex-runs girls. the breadth of this runs girls tin in schools is heavily understaimated.

more than 10% i dare say. and a lot of them end up doing well.

For every action there is reaction. Someone said it could be the reason for prevalent divorce and unhappy marriages right now. Sometimes I think we attract the kind of men or women we deserve. Why would a young man find a girl who lives above her means attractive. You cannot pin point what she is doing for a living. And then when u marry her u end up enduring and regretting why u didn't marry the good girls. Good girls to are not left out. Many of them end up wiv useless guys. Guys that don't no their worth. I still feel, before u get married the signs are there. They are always there. Nobody changes after marriage. People don't change. How do u change a behaviour someone has been exhibiting from birth. Nobody is perfect but don't manage what u cannot cope wiv..

@ Sandijey and selflessmaya, you speak the truth but dammit it stings.

No be today nah

selflessmaya:

This thread is stale, i've already unfollowed it. enough with the mentions, haba. And when did i state my intention to impress ppl? The only person i want to impress is myself and the ones i love. And I dont need anyone's respect or validation esp not yours, you cant even construct proper sentences, your respect wont sweeten my tea. Let naija men marry foreigners nah, how does it affect me who others marry, hian? So you know it's my life, then why are you so bitter and spewing insults? And no, my man will never have financial issues infact he can never be broke in this life, I am 500% sure. You can't marry someone like me? Well that's why you're you and my bf is him.. You know what you want and what you can afford and he knows same for himself. I love my bf very much and my bf ADORES me and treats me well and he's so loving and we're in a very committed relationship and we're getting married sooner than you know(what do u even know), i wont go into details about how much customary ground has been covered by him and his ppl. Oya take your bitterness to someone who's having it cos i'm not.

i realy admire your passion though.this is why i make sarcasm of things sometimes even try not take myself serious cause opinions or judgements usualy have holes them.not that anyones opinion of you matters.yea people will judge-the heck even hang you for doing the generally held moral wrong but these moral wrongs if not some can easily be picked apart without trying too hard just that few have that courage to. baring the poverty and hunger in the economy men countribute 50% to this industry-infact the sufeit of its supply is cause of an ever increasing demand.Everybody here knows but dont want to admit.see some here venting passionately like they put a gun to our head.if i arrange "ashie" for 100 guys here, 80% will buddy me for life.

Well, what can I say? Morality doesn't pay in today's Nigeria. sad. but true. Sugar daddy and sugar mummy is so prevalent on campus. As a student of Unilag, I can tell you that a lot of students, both male and female indulge in this practice, it's just that the sugar mummies are more discreet than the sugar daddies.
Nobody is contented anymore, nor want to work hard. Sad.

BoboYekini: @ Sandijey and selflessmaya, you speak the truth but dammit it stings.

Exactly

Revolva:
maheeda don talk am prostitution should be legalized..u dey here dey preach..omo a time will come it will ok ....brazil its legalized....na there u go fear....u ask ur daughter ..hey gloria wat do u wanna be when u graduate ...papa i wann dey hustle o ..i want to be a runs gal...ogini which one b runs gal again papa go hold head..anwalam mo!!!

To be honest

You said so much but you said nothing.

Can you at least be coherent enough and not use text language. I barely understand what you typed.

Horayce: Campus Immorality is not a growing concen. A growing concern is this childish preoccupation with what adults choose to do with themselves behind closed doors.

Corruption is not a growing concern. A growing concern is Nigerian's childish insistence on knowing the budgetary practices of eminently qualified persons who are elected to to manage resources under THEIR portfolio.

cr7lomo:


I Wunt argue wit u cos it's certain that ur d reason y dey say girls hv fish brain. U might even b a teenager or may b 20 21 , I Sudnt b dragging wit u here . I can Neva marry or respect a woman dat loves me because of d material tins she gains from me because Money comes and goes , same way I can't marry a girl just cos she knows hw to 4k or dat she's very pretty because dat also fades . Happiness and contentment is within u , d moment u start lookin at others to impress , u will come crashing ( fact of life ) . Look at d diff between Genevieve and omotola , that alone Sud mk u wiser. If this is d way u reason , in no time ur bf will dump u or u will dump him if he has financial issues because u r materialistic . Now I don't blame y naija guys prefare foreigners to marry . Naija hoes like u r gone . Tufiakwa ur reasoning , well na ur life sha and I wonder d type of advice u will giv ur kids . People like u end up experiencing what dey dint expect , then u will change. Again , what else can u offer apart from 4k . Ur bf givs u dat money monthly not because he loves u but because he can afford it and he knows u r materialistic , bliv me , when his ready to marry , he will look for a wife , then u will go to romance section and open a topic " my bf dumped me after 4 yrs for anoda chic" . Girl, giv urself brain

u re on point bro.i cant marry a girl becox of beauty or in relate to her financial status that alone alot turns me off how can she make a good wife there cant be two masters at d same time one has to be submissive inorder to keep thngs moving.yeah we re in the 21st century and so what?? more over real beauty and handsome is frm the heart.they listen but they dont understand.they see but couldnt learn.looking at Genevieve and Omotola is enuf for evry wise person to learn.now tell me what the so-called 21st century women stand to gain??.most of them dont get married while some marry and divorce.bro she is jst a teenager.i no dy take panadol 4 anoda person.kudos to her.

I went to school not having much to cater for the expenses that was associated with school but I never any day engaged in armed robbery, kidnapping, Gigolo, any other crime or extortion as a means of survival, so poverty to me is not an excuse, it is greed.

We rightly know that there are many decent handsome guys and beautiful girls as well who are financially lacking (poverty stricken).
So anyone involved willingly threaded that part.

There is no excuse to engage in social vices.

Okay imagine : Someone is responsible for the hardship befalling your family (most times they owe your civil servant parents for months) and you know this so well, yet you go and open your legs for the person for a paltry-paltry sum.
And at the end he uses you for rituals or gives you an incurable, are you not a Compound fool ?

hod898: Mods, pls take this serious issue to fp.

already in FP

zboyd: If there were no 'Buyers"...there wouldn't be any 'Sellers'.

And if there are no 'Sellers' ...there wouldn't be any. 'Buyers'

ultraawesome: And if there are no 'Sellers' ...there wouldn't be any. 'Buyers'

It's a 50/50 transaction.

But on the real side...

How can a beautiful, vibrant young woman spread her legs for a man old enough to be her Daddy...or in some cases her Granddaddy...instead of a young stud, around her own age? Does she not realize the scores of up and coming young Naija/Other Young Men who are morally upright and will spoil her no end...and even marry her? There are even doggish young men of means who think nothing of bankrolling their 'booty calls' - no strings attached - no wahala! So why would they waste their womanly juices on an old geezer who has one foot in the grave? Maybe I'm missing something.

Morals aside, how do these young women do it?

How do they feel, lying under a granpa, hyped up on Viagra or Cialis - pounding their womanliness?

When I was their age, the older women in my family always cautioned young women to not associate themselves with old men - claimed old men gave young women worms and would drain their youth. lol

But seriously, how in the hell do these young women do it? Do they use drugs?

When I was that age, I hated old men approaching me - so did my friends. We considered them gross and nasty!

We had no urge to cast our eyes on old, grey balls, pot bellies, balding heads, rusty feet, yellow toenails and bad or missing teeth - no matter how much money they flashed - what kind of cars they drove or their standing in the community. And...on top of that, they had this old man, sour smell that cologne could not disguise.

Ewwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...the memories!!! Nasty! Nasty! Nasty!

And the way they look at you - like a beef roast in the butcher shop!

How...How...How do these young women do it? How do they look at themselves in the mirror the next morning?

My peers and I couldn't imagine giving our 'good' stuff' up to dirty old men.

Some of them were bold as hell too...always trying to cop a free feel.

I can't count the times I gave hot slaps to these old degenerates or kneed them in the family jewels.

They actually thought that money could buy my womanliness.

Old, decrepit, nasty horn dogs. Ewwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The nerve!

And don't even talk of the times these old geezers tried to kiss me and my friends. How the hell could I kiss an old man with rotten, missing teeth and grey whiskers?

We knew one girl that tried to do the old man thing - to improve her life. Didn't work. She said she almost became an alcoholic, because everytime she had to sleep with her 61-year old sugar daddy, she had to down at least 4 stiff shots of brandy. lol She evenually broke up with him but he stalked her until he keeled over from a massive heart a week after his 62nd birthday. She swears to never venture down the 'old man' path again.

At the time, I couldn't even imagine lying under some old man, let alone have him touch me.

Ewwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...just the thought of it makes me want to throw up. Ain't that much money in the world!

Young women who do this deserve an Oscar.

They're doing what me and my peers could NEVER EVER do...and a few of them were as poor as church mice.

How can a young woman...

Kiss an old man...allow him to touch her...allow him to s*x her.

Damn!!!

Its been decades but I still shudder at the thought!

Oh well...to each her own!

But DAMN!

How do they do it?

This inquiring mind wants to know!

God wl hlp us

Remember, se* x is a natural thing. Haven't you observed it in other animals too?

It's just that human beings have been made to see it as an immoral act; partly because of the mental slavery that many of us are suffering from. Remember that other animals don't see it as that (they fu*k at all times )




Remember:
It's natural; it's human nature!

hensben: just see your logic, you ladies contradict yourselves unknowingly, just to suit your argument at that particular topic. i thought you guys said feminism have come to stay in nigeria, so tell why you follow a man who didnt use charm on you neither did he force you to follow him. You ladies always blame men for your action yet, why cant they say no to the men if they are really serious. For example, you went to buy something from a particular shop on getting there, the seller tells you she doesnt have what you came for, wouldnt you turn back.

yeah!!!, excuse! excuse!!! excuse!!!

Mr man there would be no need to say NO if there was nothing being asked for. moreover are you defending men who solicit for commercial sex? maybe you might extend your defense to men who seek the services of professional assassins. afterall in your logic the assassin should hide his negative skills. will that prevent a deranged psychopath from looking for other means to carry out his task. think!

zboyd:

It's a 50/50 transaction.

But on the real side...

How can a beautiful, vibrant young woman spread her legs for a man old enough to be her Daddy...or in some cases her Granddaddy...instead of a young stud, around her own age? Does she not realize the scores of up and coming young Naija/Other Young Men who are morally upright and will spoil her no end...and even marry her? There are even doggish young men of means who think nothing of bankrolling their 'booty calls' - no strings attached - no wahala! So why would they waste their womanly juices on an old geezer who has one foot in the grave? Maybe I'm missing something.

Morals aside, how do these young women do it?

How do they feel, lying under a granpa, hyped up on Viagra or Cialis - pounding their womanliness?

When I was their age, the older women in my family always cautioned young women to not associate themselves with old men - claimed old men gave young women worms and would drain their youth. lol

But seriously, how in the hell do these young women do it? Do they use drugs?

When I was that age, I hated old men approaching me - so did my friends. We considered them gross and nasty!

We had no urge to cast our eyes on old, grey balls, pot bellies, balding heads, rusty feet, yellow toenails and bad or missing teeth - no matter how much money they flashed - what kind of cars they drove or their standing in the community. And...on top of that, they had this old man, sour smell that cologne could not disguise.

Ewwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...the memories!!! Nasty! Nasty! Nasty!

And the way they look at you - like a beef roast in the butcher shop!

How...How...How do these young women do it? How do they look at themselves in the mirror the next morning?

My peers and I couldn't imagine giving our 'good' stuff' up to dirty old men.

Some of them were bold as hell too...always trying to cop a free feel.

I can't count the times I gave hot slaps to these old degenerates or kneed them in the family jewels.

They actually thought that money could buy my womanliness.

Old, decrepit, nasty horn dogs. Ewwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The nerve!

And don't even talk of the times these old geezers tried to kiss me and my friends. How the hell could I kiss an old man with rotten, missing teeth and grey whiskers?

We knew one girl that tried to do the old man thing - to improve her life. Didn't work. She said she almost became an alcoholic, because everytime she had to sleep with her 61-year old sugar daddy, she had to down at least 4 stiff shots of brandy. lol She evenually broke up with him but he stalked her until he keeled over from a massive heart a week after his 62nd birthday. She swears to never venture down the 'old man' path again.

At the time, I couldn't even imagine lying under some old man, let alone have him touch me.

Ewwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...just the thought of it makes me want to throw up. Ain't that much money in the world!

Young women who do this deserve an Oscar.

They're doing what me and my peers could NEVER EVER do...and a few of them were as poor as church mice.

How can a young woman...

Kiss an old man...allow him to touch her...allow him to s*x her.

Damn!!!

Its been decades but I still shudder at the thought!

Oh well...to each her own!

But DAMN!

How do they do it?

This inquiring mind wants to know!

yeeeh....young woman,calm down,calm down!!

pickabeau1: While your moral crusade is commendable, selfless Maya is being realistic

men are the ones that fuel this trade.
Men use their ill gotten money to pamper these girls

For those going abroad to marry, you need to see what girls are doing abroad.

Google escort agencies

Go to Asia...united States.. Dubai .same thing


I'm male but we are also responsible for this

Sandijey wish you all the best
Don't worry we have kids here with no experience in life.. just spouting posts.. .some of them are the future aristos...

Thank you for being REAL. It seems posters here are not happy because she's talking about it. Even though they all know it's a very prevalent thing. From what I have observed, girls who are notoriously coy/defensive about this issue are the worst.
Where are the angels? More than 80% of our girls do this; especially, undergrads. They would gladly say YES if you appear and smell riches. Try it. Go into any campus with a very good car and be surprised. Start even with those studying medicine. Try it.
In fact, I prefer girls like her.

Let's be REAL guys.

.

hod898: I always tell girls, when you enter the university, join a good fellowship gathering, be prayerful and God will provide. Face the hard part now. The more devastating the storm, the sooner it will be over. I once knew a lady who came from a poor family. Very intelligent, diligent and God-fearing, she trusted God and never participated in all these 'I didn't have a choice' immoralities. She graduated with good grades and by God's grace, was employed in a company. She told me her starting salary was about N6000 per day (180,000) per month. During her school years she survived by using her brain. She tutored high school students, she had a choice. Today, she has a marriage proposal from a decent but wealthy man. It's not about the government but the way you govern your life.

Yea ryt!! & is dat ALL she turned out to b? I actually thot u were describing "Dora akuyili, ngozi okonje-iweala, diezani-madueke Omo, campus olosho 4life, joorr!! Ow skool wan take sweet

BoboYekini: Prostitution is not evil. Hypergamy is evil.
But then, survival comes first before morality. You do what you have to do.

I weep for you. "DO WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO" No be their mates de fry akara and work for saloon or restaurants? Tell guys to go rob na cos "they have to do what they have to do. This your statement reach make they put you behind bars for two weeks. "Do what you have to do".

Legendoscar2:

Yeah preach Blackman!!

Black Woman here n very PROUD!

sandijey:


I have also seen descent guys marry these runs girls. Guys who work for a living. Honest job. How they fall prey to this girls, I earlier stated it
Most men are moved by what they see. Through runs these girls are able to take care of themselves so much so that they are easily visible to both good and bad guys. I am highly in support of what u are saying. Its all mediocrity. But whether we like it or not, only very few people are still morally upright.

See?
And yet we still think the Ebola Virus is the deadliest thing in our midst.

Truth tho is, appearance will mostly fool someone who's already shallow.
Just like someone marrying a man cos of his money.
There are usually tell tale signs to everyone's true personality. But most of the time we let our own vanity turn our focus to the wrong things instead.

selflessmaya:

You have the most making sense comment in this whole thread and i like blunt ppl like you who are in touch with reality. Most run girls, i mean the real ones make millions monthly. I dont want to brag but i'm good looking and very intelligent, i'm talking 256 in my first jamb ever at just 16 and no looking left or right then cos i was young and scared. No man has ever offered me a dime based on my brains, some dont even know if i know book and even if i were dumb they wouldnt care. I have had a worth of #810k given to me in less than 3 wks only by men who just wanted to date me and i was still doing gara gara sef so i can imagine how much i could ask for and get if i was giving them what they were after.

I have a bf now and he's very well-off and treats me well so i'm not looking but my mom is a graduate who came from poverty, i mean wretched poverty and struggled yet she ended up having an average life earning the peanuts civil servant money, she earns like 120k monthly but my bf at d moment gives me about 300k as pocket allowance and still i get dates and new phones when they drop and i'm still an undergraduate, how is it fair that i earn 2X more than my own mother who has qualifications i lack and i do nothing and she has a 9-5 job. My bf is the only man in my life but there are girls in my shoes as in i know them sef that have like 4 sugar daddies and make nothing less than 1.5 mill monthly and that doesnt include the random things they buy them or their weaves and shoes or their perfumes. These girls earn in one month what my hard-working mother can't earn in a year.

Gone are the days of patient dog eating fattest bone, the world is no longer just. A degree doesnt guarantee a job, a job doesnt guarantee regular pay with all this nonsense strike. The "good" girls will end up with average earners just like them except if they are very stunning which is unlikely cos if they were they would have had so much money thrown at them and they would break. Average is not something to aspire to be in 2014. Yobo and Kanu nwankwo married pretty girls who didnt have degrees at the time. Rich men want pretty girls and pretty girls want rich men. In terms of better jobs, run girls know every important person... i know a girl whose sugar daddy helped secure admission for her cousin, these girls know ppl. You want recommendation, admission, bank statement to travel abroad, these girls got it.

I am not a runs girl but i have grown to understand why these girls do what they do and even come to respect them, with how hard life is when you're poor and how easy these girls have it and how stupid one would be to act slow. I believe the reason this thread is dominated by men is cos they really do not know how much these girls lay hands on and the girls who do dont wanna cast themselves. The average runs girl, i dont mean hungry ones who ride in cabs, i mean the ones banged by diplomats and oil money men earn so much it's just not fair. And these girls when they stop dating, they go out with a bang, they marry so rich they never have to work a day in their lives and their kids are made by virtue of birth and they age so slowly cos they can afford botox and use expensive cream and always have AC blowing at them. While your kid is at home for ASUU strike, theirs will be studying in UK or US.
There is no justice in this world, let everyone do what they have to do. Our father's time has passed and this new age is unfair to hard working ppl and I am glad to see someone telling the truth instead of bashing girls who dont want to end up earning peanuts like most nigerians.

Now I see what the problem is with the nigerian youth.
It's no longer about value, but a life of luxury and easy money? I can't even believe one would be bold enough to type these and call it "truth"

From your tone, it's easy to see what ur primary motivation is and where your values truly lie.
PS: I mean no insults.

Please do me a favour and give ur mom a call this weekend. and when she picks, ask her if she would trade her present life for that of a prostitute-turned-millionaire's wife.

If truly u strongly feel a person's worth/value is measured only in naira/dollar. Then I have indeed wasted precious time typing all these, as u wouldn't comprehend any of what I just said above.

Speaking the truth isn't about "bashing"..it's about calling a spade what it is. If we justify evil just because it's d easier way out then we have no business birthing another generation of morally decadent children.

PSS: no one said honest money comes easy. The bad man/woman always makes more money than the good. It's d fact of life. But that doesn't mean we should laud corruption.

sandijey:



You really don't no how am feeling. I graduated 2012. Still no job. Sometimes I feel like I didn't make good use of the opportunity I had to date this married men. Its too late now. I am a bit lucky that my dad still gives me pocket money. But I am so ashamed cus I feel by now I should be earning my own money. All this girls end up wiv rich men. I am seeing it happen right in my eyes. From university days my course mates be counting millions. They still are. The oppression is furrking real. I am sane today because I apply my course of study to my everyday life. It hurts me to see guys talk like this. Meanwhile they will choose those girls over and over the good girls.

Almost all my post, I kept saying life is not fair. I no what I have seen. I no where the shoe is pinching me. Its not gonna change. Its only gonna get worse. I got a job a month ago. The m.d told me he'd love to date me and then give me girlfriend allowance. Very old man wiv rotten teeth. Just after spending 2 days in the office. I even did thanksgiving in church. I stopped because I have a dad who feeds me and give me pocket money. Who knows maybe if things were different I would have accepted. I am no saint but Compared to this girls I am good But goodness has not gotten me anywhere and that's the simple truth. Life is not fair. This country is not just.

I have news for u girl.

DOING THE RIGHT THING IS HAARD! IT'L DRIVE YOU INSANE, IT'LL TEST UR RESOLVE, IT'LL MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE A FOOL.. but after all said and done IT'S STILL THE RIGHT THING

It is ur choice as a human to decide whether to do right or wrong.

I just attended an executive party in one of the Government Houses in the South East, courtesy of ma friend wey be special adviser; Haba!!
Girls no get dignity or shame again. Come see how dem dey manhandle babes like say dem just be dogs/animals.
All these IMSU, ABSU, ESUT babes, just dey get forked like animals.
Dressing code na 'nude'. Boobs, pu**sys everywhere.
One person go just collect 4 babes, enter room, dey get entertainment from them.
Lesbianism just dey rain like say na food for these parties...haba.
Appearance and participation fee na from 25k for each babe.
Naija university babes...I hail una.

Macuberry: I weep for you. "DO WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO" No be their mates de fry akara and work for saloon or restaurants? Tell guys to go rob na cos "they have to do what they have to do. This your statement reach make they put you behind bars for two weeks. "Do what you have to do".

Na small pikin dey worry you

This is what happens when a country lacks proper economic infastructure,these girls find themselves doing these things to survive,
to meet the basic things of life food,school fees etc and while some do it just to get by others become trapped in a world of deceit,falsa glamour and greed which eventually becomes a habit n way of life.

tracybee: This is what happens when a country lacks proper economic infastructure,these girls find themselves doing these things to survive,
to meet the basic things of life food,school fees etc and while some do it just to get by others become trapped in a world of deceit,falsa glamour and greed which eventually becomes a habit n way of life.

preach on sista...the stubborn heGaots and the stubborn sheGoatesses will pretend to reason with you and not listen cause of their in born greed. in reality naija is an am moral economically inept pretentiously clothed in a moral garb!