Sunbellar:
Are you serious? How were you able to overcome the trauma and pain of having 5 men at that age?

iluvpomo: I just did and asked them if they could save me, the responded said that one na lost case, i have no hope ;(

Vivipop: Please this question should be directed to op's victim and not me. I just took a quote from the Op's write up.

Sunbellar:

Sorry I didn't take time to read op's epistle. I believe you are too classical to fall such a prey! Please pardon

lilmax: very funny and senseless comment,why dont you blame parents? Their job is to train a child and advice them not to indulge in things like this

RedBenson: There cant be "buyers" if there is no "sellers". Those old men with flashy cars and protruded tommies shld be taught how to keep thier DiCKs one place. These old men are so mean to destroy these girls for us who are supposed to be our future wives. Imagine say all these evil men been don use a girl before u finally come marry her ..na error be that naw. These men shld be get rid of thier manhoods.

RedBenson:

Rubbish! Women were known to hold themselves on high esteem irrespective of any amount of money flashed. They've no tangible excuse for indulging into prostitution other than "greed".

RedBenson:

Rubbish! Women were known to hold themselves on high esteem irrespective of any amount of money flashed. They've no tangible excuse for indulging into prostitution other than "greed".

Fourwinds:
I'm searching for broda Tosin..no. broda Jerry boy

abeg nor call my name around here

nor be me them go search for

Edusouls: University is the worst thing that ever happened to girls,it got them exposed and gave them the false sense that they re on there way to be the carrer woman, our girls re gone and lost, this is the trend they choose, they re consumed by love of money, and our parents contribute to this mess, u know u cant train ur child in the univasity, but encourage her to go there just like the other's, that God will see her through..this generation of women re devil inspired,myopic, wicked,conscienseless,vry greedy, has a lot of envy. they got out of hand, is this how ur mothers lived their lives and were happily married to ur dad's and gave birth to u, trained u till adulthood, what did they have b4 they married ur dad's, did they have bb, i pad, i pod, or i phone? it is so unfortunate that the people that will pay for all these atrocities is we young men that will eventualy marry them in the very near future, after gathering all these curses they now load it into one man's home and that's why marriages fail rapidly nowaday's..be vry careful wat ur marry into ur lives, cos these generation of women re vry heartbreaking, only God knows what went wrong, cos my mother was never near this way...

selflessmaya:
Lol, abi o. as if the runs girls are f*cking themselves, it's men that patronize them and call them back the next day and spoil them with things.. All the men spewing venom on this thread, how many of them can vouch they've never cheated in a relationship since that's what's ideal? How many of them are saving themselves for marriage? Self entitlement and delusion at it's peak.

selflessmaya:

You have the most making sense comment in this whole thread and i like blunt ppl like you who are in touch with reality. Most run girls, i mean the real ones make millions monthly. I dont want to brag but i'm good looking and very intelligent, i'm talking 256 in my first jamb ever at just 16 and no looking left or right then cos i was young and scared. No man has ever offered me a dime based on my brains, some dont even know if i know book and even if i were dumb they wouldnt care. I have had a worth of #810k given to me in less than 3 wks only by men who just wanted to date me and i was still doing gara gara sef so i can imagine how much i could ask for and get if i was giving them what they were after.

I have a bf now and he's very well-off and treats me well so i'm not looking but my mom is a graduate who came from poverty, i mean wretched poverty and struggled yet she ended up having an average life earning the peanuts civil servant money, she earns like 120k monthly but my bf at d moment gives me about 300k as pocket allowance and still i get dates and new phones when they drop and i'm still an undergraduate, how is it fair that i earn 2X more than my own mother who has qualifications i lack and i do nothing and she has a 9-5 job. My bf is the only man in my life but there are girls in my shoes as in i know them sef that have like 4 sugar daddies and make nothing less than 1.5 mill monthly and that doesnt include the random things they buy them or their weaves and shoes or their perfumes. These girls earn in one month what my hard-working mother can't earn in a year.

Gone are the days of patient dog eating fattest bone, the world is no longer just. A degree doesnt guarantee a job, a job doesnt guarantee regular pay with all this nonsense strike. The "good" girls will end up with average earners just like them except if they are very stunning which is unlikely cos if they were they would have had so much money thrown at them and they would break. Average is not something to aspire to be in 2014. Yobo and Kanu nwankwo married pretty girls who didnt have degrees at the time. Rich men want pretty girls and pretty girls want rich men. In terms of better jobs, run girls know every important person... i know a girl whose sugar daddy helped secure admission for her cousin, these girls know ppl. You want recommendation, admission, bank statement to travel abroad, these girls got it.

I am not a runs girl but i have grown to understand why these girls do what they do and even come to respect them, with how hard life is when you're poor and how easy these girls have it and how stupid one would be to act slow. I believe the reason this thread is dominated by men is cos they really do not know how much these girls lay hands on and the girls who do dont wanna cast themselves. The average runs girl, i dont mean hungry ones who ride in cabs, i mean the ones banged by diplomats and oil money men earn so much it's just not fair. And these girls when they stop dating, they go out with a bang, they marry so rich they never have to work a day in their lives and their kids are made by virtue of birth and they age so slowly cos they can afford botox and use expensive cream and always have AC blowing at them. While your kid is at home for ASUU strike, theirs will be studying in UK or US.
There is no justice in this world, let everyone do what they have to do. Our father's time has passed and this new age is unfair to hard working ppl and I am glad to see someone telling the truth instead of bashing girls who dont want to end up earning peanuts like most nigerians.

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selflessmaya:
Lol, abi o. as if the runs girls are f*cking themselves, it's men that patronize them and call them back the next day and spoil them with things.. All the men spewing venom on this thread, how many of them can vouch they've never cheated in a relationship since that's what's ideal? How many of them are saving themselves for marriage? Self entitlement and delusion at it's peak.

zboyd:

Again...

Will you also rain down fire and brimstone on the men, single and married, who come sniffing around the campuses flashing money and looking for easy lays with gullible female students?

No Buyers - No Sellers...it's a 50/50 situation.

selflessmaya:
Lol, abi o. as if the runs girls are f*cking themselves, it's men that patronize them and call them back the next day and spoil them with things.. All the men spewing venom on this thread, how many of them can vouch they've never cheated in a relationship since that's what's ideal? How many of them are saving themselves for marriage? Self entitlement and delusion at it's peak.

E be like say u be olosho from the way you talk

booket: u re vry silly for posting dz rubbish.

hensben: so cos men does it women should do it too right..
remember this; A key that opens every padlocks is called master key but when padlock is open by every keys, its referred as spoilt padlock.

MarieSucre: No. it means we understand what you don't. the principle of SUPPLY AND DEMAND. these girls are not sleeping with themselves. show me one man who will zip up his trouser for any of these girls and I'll show you one less customer.

selflessmaya:
Why can't adults converse without getting rude SMH?... You made your choice, good to see it turned well for you. Let others make their own choice and let it turn out for them like it will. Insulting ppl cos of contrasting opinion is just dumb.

You are stuck in the stone ages lmao your mentality, this is 2014 and no one is entertaining your patriarchy at least not ppl who have meaningful lives and have seen the world for what it is. Nowadays, padlocks are outdated even and so is this laughable reference... Alarm beeping systems are in, times have changed. So that's your pain cos women are playing men at their own game, haha.. kpele

sandijey:


Most of the ones I new in school then we're from abject poverty. In fact many of them sef, their parents dey village but u will never know. Today their in dubai, tomorrow London. The good ones among them rent a flat and put their family in the flat. Buy their father a car. Open small businesses for their mothers and other family members. So if a novice sees the girls family. He would think the family are average because to him the parents are doing business whereas the girl brought them to that level.

Not saying middle class people don't do it buy if u check their background. They got to middle class through this same runs.

youngalex: @SelflessMaya
This mentality of yours will do you no good,HARDWORK PAYS AND WILL CONTINUE TO PAY just that it takes time to make it thru hardwork, living an average life is momentary for the focused,intelligent and hardworking bear that in mind

selflessmaya:
Tell that to all the graduates who roam around jobless, Tell that to the ppl who worked and dont have pension for retirement and die miserable and piss poor, Tell that to my mother who has worked for over 20something yrs but barely has any savings but a girl i know who will turn 23 in novemeber, someone who might not have been born when my mom got her 1st job has over 140mill, in her personal account yes you heard right "OVER(in emphasis)" 140mill and she never worked a day in her life for any of it and is yet to graduate next yr and just had a wedding so fancy it will make your head spin and no her family is poor so dont think she's an heiress. even thinking of it makes me pissed and my mom is on strike sef, i wan madt, no one should tell me like i dont know what i'm saying, the world is wrong and time is fleeting. I'm not saying hard work wont pay o, i just know it doesnt pay as much as it used to. In 2014 times have changed, this is a new millennium and things are different and a new breed of humans exist. My mentality is doing me good already and i love it and i have absolutely no problems.

There are ppl who give their all and get nothing in return and there are ppl who lay back, do nothing and get everything hard workers grind for and i am proud to be the latter. I grew up wanting to be hard working and blah blah blah. but after seeing what happened to my mom, after seeing how looked down on women are in Nigerian society I had to grow up, after seeing how men marry a pretty girl and keep her poor and they multiply like pigs, she loses her figure cos they're too poor for an in-house gym and the same man she gave her life to will still hurt her and cheat on her and emotionally abuse her and she has to put up with it cos she's a woman, like it's a disease. Do u know where good girls end up? in one man's kitchen, she will do the laundry and go to work then go to school run, then come back and cook and all that for a man who thinks she's beneath him and under appreciated, what kind of life is that? And at just 32, they look wrinkly cos of sun damage and seem 2wice their age. Some girls are stupid enough to sign up for that i'm not. So i found myself someone that suits me. My mentality is doing me good already and i wont have it any other way