SAMBARRY:


so how come prosteetutes haven't gotten married then

Because they are not ready to do so.


Ladies decide to get married to men yet refuse to listen to what men want. Its not only ladies that can walk away you know.

Bro... how far with zombie tales na

Are u also a naruto fan

5minsmadness:
Because they are not ready to do so.


Ladies decide to get married to men yet refuse to listen to what men want. Its not only ladies that can walk away you know.

Will blame the husband when you find the wife cheating?

Straight answer pls.

HarrveySpecter:
But here you are blaming men.
A lady never admits to being fat even if they are. Don't get me wrong, I am not saying you are. Of course it's a choice, choice which is mostly influenced by the lady. There are loads of men who want to cheat but can't because of their wife. Their wife knows how to handle them well. The main thing is knowing the kind of man you have and how to give him what he wants. You stated you are quite, care to look into that, maybe you don't communicate well with him.

Besides, you have not mentioned in where you commented with him on this issue. Perhaps, thata where the problem is?

I am not in support of men cheating on their partners but these are the things that married women does that actually make the man cheat.

Dressing :when you were single you dressed very well to impress him and others just because you were in the single market. as soon as the ring get to your finger, you became a nun. you find it unnecessary to dress to impress him.
I for example hated the act in which a lady tie wrapper over their chest and walk around the house. why not wear short or some thing that will impress your man. something nice that will make him look inside instead of out side.

watching what you eat. When you were single, you select what you eat because you do not want to gain weight.you even run from Jerusalem to Jericho just to keep fit. as soon as the ring gets to your finger, you feel,you can now finish a whole cow, you eat as if you were in competition. instead of strolling to the next street, you use taxi. no shoes or dress fits any more.

Your tongue: some ladies tongues are sharper than two edge sword. when you are using those weapon that God gave you, you forgot inter-ally that it pierces to the heart

Sex: when you were single you did all the position that Kama sutra prescribed even more.maybe you used to do some lovely BJ on him now that you were married, you feel oh! I 'm too old for that. forgetting that that guy married you because of all that and many more.

On a social gathering as a single lady, you can dance each time he asked you. by him just looking at you, you knew what he meant. but now that you are married, you became an important dignitary, a thick madam. you no longer move an inch except that chair you were supper glued on. even when he looked at you, you acted as if you do not know what he was asking for.

hey I'm not married yet but I got lots of married friend and they voice their frustration some times and these are the major issue.

pickabeau1:

That is the womans choice
I believe when more women put their foot down and collect spousal seetlements due to adultery led divorce.. infidelity will reduce... (of course marriage rates will also reduce as no one wants to lose his assets for something like a fling)

The women have their choice to divorce

Hmmm

And if people advice them to do so they suddenly become feminists, home breakers or bitter divorcees that want others to join them?

Hmmm again

bukatyne:

Hmmm

And if people advice them to do so they suddenly become feminists, home breakers or bitter divorcees that want others to join them?

Hmmm again

You miss it...

Unrestrained calls for divorce by its champions is the issue
There is a process...counselling... Seperation....then divorce


If this lady feels infidelity is a no no...then she should make her feelings known with desire to protect herself

Some men will stop...others will not

The unrepentant cheats are a different kettle of tea

Double post.

Concerning today's sermon; it pays to be humble. Humility opens up your heart to God and paves way for blessings and miracles.

Also note that prayer goes with works. Nigerians love to pray but hate to work, then they cry when they don't see results. After praying to be faithful work by keeping away from those things that will lead you astray e.g porn, checking out women's asses while driving, losing your temper easily at the slightest provocation from your partner. There is peace is patience and resilience.


Hey its Sunday. Go figure.

pickabeau1: Bro... how far with zombie tales na

Are u also a naruto fan

Went through some emotional stuff this week, still in the recovery phase
Will see if I can update today.

As for naruto, I stopped where sakura confronted naruto about going after sauske following the defeat of pain. Am far behind shey? Haven't been able to get any updates since then. I love that manga. Apart from the action it has some really deep life lessons.

Ok o,

I hear you

I agree that divorce is only for extreme cases (I don't even dig divorce. If you can't cope after all odds, just pack your bags and leave, If it is too hot, just run)

pickabeau1:

You miss it...

Unrestrained calls for divorce by its champions is the issue
There is a process...counselling... Seperation....then divorce


If this lady feels infidelity is a no no...then she should make her feelings known with desire to protect herself

Some men will stop...others will not

The unrepentant cheats are a different kettle of tea

bukatyne: Ok o,

I hear you

I agree that divorce is only for extreme cases (I don't even dig divorce. If you can't cope after all odds, just pack your bags and leave, If it is too hot, just run)

I hear you too oooo

cococandy:
Will blame the husband when you find the wife cheating?

Straight answer pls.

In all honesty, yes.

pickabeau1:

You are not far from the truth
I just stated the facts...

However this measures act as deterrents as you know if you r caught, you r on a long thing.. you could lose the home or kids etc





But most of our ladies believe that the white men dont cheat and they are angelic people so dont burst their fantasies

Hahahahahha.... No wayo.

5minsmadness:
Went through some emotional stuff this week, still in the recovery phase
Will see if I can update today.

As for naruto, I stopped where sakura confronted naruto about going after sauske following the defeat of pain. Am far behind shey? Haven't been able to get any updates since then. I love that manga. Apart from the action it has some really deep life lessons.

Ehya..sorry bro..keep your head up..when you r ready to post..we your loyal fans are behind

On naruto...Damn.....you a long way behind

Its so far gone...the leader of akatsuki declared war

There's a fan thread if you r interested

Farouksenior:
Hahahahahha.... No wayo.

LOL

HarrveySpecter:
In all honesty, yes.

Good for you then.

But I think people should take responsibility for their actions and not try to excuse themselves by what the other person did to make them do it.
Agreed that one's spouse can treat them in a way that makes them begin to fall for someone else outside,still one has to be a responsible adult and take the fall for their sins.

Instead of saying 'you made me do it'

Richy4: I am not in support of men cheating on their partners but these are the things that married women does that actually make the man cheat.

Dressing :when you were single you dressed very well to impress him and others just because you were in the single market. as soon as the ring get to your finger, you became a nun. you find it unnecessary to dress to impress him.
I for example hated the act in which a lady tie wrapper over their chest and walk around the house. why not wear short or some thing that will i[b]mpress your man.[/b] something nice that will make him look inside instead of out side.

watching what you eat. When you were single, you select what you eat because you do not want to gain weight.you even run from Jerusalem to Jericho just to keep fit. as soon as the ring gets to your finger, you feel,you can now finish a whole cow, you eat as if you were in competition. instead of strolling to the next street, you use taxi. no shoes or dress fits any more.

Your tongue: some ladies tongues are sharper than[b] two edge sword[/b]. when you are using those weapon that God gave you, you forgot inter-ally that it pierces to the heart

Sex: when you were single you did all the position that Kama sutra prescribed even more.maybe you used to do some lovely BJ on him now that you were married, you feel oh! I 'm too old for that. forgetting that that guy married you because of all that and many more.

On a social gathering as a single lady, you can dance each time he asked you. by him just looking at you, you knew what he meant. but now that you are married, you became an important dignitary, a thick madam. you no longer move an inch except that chair you were supper glued on. even when he looked at you, you acted as if you do not know what he was asking for.

hey I'm not married yet but I got lots of married friend and they voice their frustration some times and these are the major issue.

jah bless yhu. I owe u 2 wRaps of igbo. I go personali tap m 4u. [/b]Half carton of [b]beer,nd 1 seamans aromatic original. [do not offend d ancestors] hahahaha. U'v said it gbaM.

pickabeau1:

Ehya..sorry bro..keep your head up..when you r ready to post..we your loyal fans are behind

On naruto...Damn.....you a long way behind

Its so far gone...the leader of akatsuki declared war

There's a fan thread if you r interested

Seen it. Tried following it and got lost.
Do you happen to know where I can download English episodes from?

5minsmadness:

Seen it. Tried following it and got lost.
Do you happen to know where I can download English episodes from?

None off my head
Come to the thread.people will give u d links

pickabeau1:

Ehya..sorry bro..keep your head up..when you r ready to post..we your loyal fans are behind

On naruto...Damn.....you a long way behind

Its so far gone...the leader of akatsuki declared war

There's a fan thread if you r interested




LOL

...

U watch naruto?? Cos jst saw u askin a guy

I still insist, if the hubby has unfettered access to your love garden, he won't look elsewhere.

U dated a girl for 9yrs without marrying her den u complain about a governor dat did nothing after 8yrs..Abeg how u take better pass am ?"

Farouksenior: ...

U watch naruto?? Cos jst saw u askin a guy

Yep..

cococandy: There are faithful atheists.
They don't even acknowledge the existence of God but stay true to their marriage vows.

Good thing you're doing painting men as people with no brains and thinking faculty. Who require divine assistance before they know the right thing to do.

Who says cheating is not good? You can only find that in the Holy Book Telling an atheist to abstain from adultery is like telling him to pay tithes and offering. Atheism is not against adultery. Adultery is a SIN and nothing is SINful to a non-believer.

and to whom exactly are you presenting your marital vows? To the same God you never accepted?

Even the customary court where most atheists run to for marital vows have nothing against a cheat. Unlike a thief who gets punished for stealing in the law court; a cheating husband has no case/business in court (except divorce).

Cece23:

Am thinking seriously,maybe I will go for separation for now.

Don't, please.

I think you should involve his parents.

Driven:

You are a sage! I was going to ask her if he was a godly man during courtship. It is not a matter of 'he was a nice guy', cos 'nice' is not a fruit of the Spirit.


This is the same reason why I'd only settle with a godly 'brother', who has been tested and tried. 'Nice', 'caring' are all fluid adjectives, they just dont cut it.

Indeed, almost always, only a godly man will be constrained in the face of sexual temptations.

Exactly...

babygirlfl:

Please next time be more polite with your reply please. I will ignore you harsh choice of words and reply you as nicely as possible.

Let me explain myself better.

Nigerian men have that mentality that they can get away with cheating. How many women walk away from their marriage BECAUSE their husband cheated on them. Most of them work things out with their husband and stay married to the same man. Some even keep a blind eye. That to me is getting away with it. My dear, until I actually see women who divorce their cheating husband, I will take it that they are getting away with it.

According to the bolded, I think you assumed that my post meant since they get away with it, that means we should do nothing about it and accept it or that I am trying to say all men are the same. I am sorry for not explaining myself BETTER but actually I meant the contrary. If women stopped accepting cheating and men realise that one of the consequences of cheating will be divorce, maybe they will think twice before cheating.

I am married and I have not tolerated neither will I tolerate cheating. I broke up at least two relationships before I got married because of cheating and I have never regretted it.

and please o, where did i insult you o, you yourself agreed that you didn't explain yourself better, so when you didn't explain yourself better, how would you expect me to know what you meant.
Now that you have explained yourself better now, can you now see that we are on the same page on the issue.
You said you broke up with a guy before marriage because of cheating, i broke up with a guy because he told me a lie, if i couldn't tolerate lying, can i tolerate cheating then?
Before we got married, we already know what we couldn't tolerate for each other, and we agreed on Cheating and any form of abuse.
So, can you see that we are on the same page now, next time, endeavour to explain yourself better in order to avoid being misunderstood.

Elantracey:



some born again men are just wolves in sheep's clothing , it only takes the grace and direction of God to get married to a faithful man.

you've not met a truly born again, you only described a born 'wuruwuru' brother .
A faithful man is truly born again....

queenlabisi: my dear na dere way

This statement always irks me soo much...I can see your future.. old fat and haggard with the Lord in your mouth praying for hubby to stop following those smallies but e don late. You already accepted your fate years ago.

Richy4: I am not in support of men cheating on their partners but these are the things that married women does that actually make the man cheat.

Dressing :when you were single you dressed very well to impress him and others just because you were in the single market. as soon as the ring get to your finger, you became a nun. you find it unnecessary to dress to impress him.
I for example hated the act in which a lady tie wrapper over their chest and walk around the house. why not wear short or some thing that will impress your man. something nice that will make him look inside instead of out side.

watching what you eat. When you were single, you select what you eat because you do not want to gain weight.you even run from Jerusalem to Jericho just to keep fit. as soon as the ring gets to your finger, you feel,you can now finish a whole cow, you eat as if you were in competition. instead of strolling to the next street, you use taxi. no shoes or dress fits any more.

Your tongue: some ladies tongues are sharper than two edge sword. when you are using those weapon that God gave you, you forgot inter-ally that it pierces to the heart

Sex: when you were single you did all the position that Kama sutra prescribed even more.maybe you used to do some lovely BJ on him now that you were married, you feel oh! I 'm too old for that. forgetting that that guy married you because of all that and many more.

On a social gathering as a single lady, you can dance each time he asked you. by him just looking at you, you knew what he meant. but now that you are married, you became an important dignitary, a thick madam. you no longer move an inch except that chair you were supper glued on. even when he looked at you, you acted as if you do not know what he was asking for.

hey I'm not married yet but I got lots of married friend and they voice their frustration some times and these are the major issue.

i was writing the same points,but i decided to check nd i saw these points. you nailed it bro.
it's so difficult for me here to blame d man because it'd amount to taking side having not heard his own side of the story. I WILL NEVER support infidelity, but we need to ask d woman if she's changed from wat she used to be before marriage, does she now give more attention nd affection to d children than her husband? how about s3xual compatibility? .
Do you have a family alter? don't forget d ONE who instituted d marriage institution, if he's sidelined, peace will be far from such home if not now then in the future.
Seriously some people prefer building a relaxation place/bar in their sitting room rather than having a place to worship God.
A river that forgets its source surely shall dry off

@OP,the truth is dat MOST men cheat even wen they r married.My advice is dat if u can't cope,then leave.

bjtinz: I still insist, if the hubby has unfettered access to your love garden, he won't look elsewhere.

Is not all about love garden.Is about being principled

Acidosis:

Who says cheating is not good? You can only find that in the Holy Book Telling an atheist to abstain from adultery is like telling him to pay tithes and offering. Atheism is not against adultery. Adultery is a SIN and nothing is SINful to a non-believer.

and to whom exactly are you presenting your marital vows? To the same God you never accepted?

Even the customary court where most atheists run to for marital vows have nothing against a cheat. Unlike a thief who gets punished for stealing in the law court; a cheating husband has no case/business in court (except divorce).

You typed and posted this?