To save guys the trouble and girls, the nuisance,
here are seven tell-tale signs that help guys know
when to back off.
1. She ignores your calls: This is the number one
bummer. This was the first answer I was given by
most ladies. You think because she gave you her
number when you asked for it means she likes
you or would pick up your calls. Think again! If
all the time you call, she never picks up, maybe
you should consider looking for another babe.
2. She gives you the I’ll-call-you-back flip-off:
This is very common. If she tells you each time
you call her, “Tunde I’m so sorry, I am in the
middle of something. I would call you back in five
minutes” and then doesn’t, she probably never
will. So, don’t wait around for it.
3. She’s always busy/”posting” you: Okay, now
you have her number and she eventually picks up.
Then the moment you ask to see her, she tells
you a million and one things she has to do: “My
brother is sick, I have to stay home with him.” “I
already have plans to hang out with my
girlfriends. We’ll see tomorrow.” Trust me, she is
probably home watching a Vin Diesel movie and
eating popcorn. If this consistently happens, this
is a sign. Brother, move on!
4. She says she has a boyfriend: Sometimes, this
is false, guys. She may not actually be dating
anyone and would just tell you this, so you can
get off her back. Some even go as far as saying
they are gay. Although this doesn’t stop some
determined guys. For these guys, keep on
chasing, God is in control of the situation.
5. She is materialistic: I found this answer rather
hilarious. One of the ladies I interviewed said, “Its
very easy, just demand loads of things from him,
he would run away”. Today, it is her hair,
tomorrow, it’s a car. Guys, a little expo, she
might not actually be this kind of person. She just
does not care about you and wants to discard
you. So Romeo, look for your Juliet somewhere
else.
6. She prefers dates in public places: This is
another sign. Every time you keep asking her out
on dates or ask her to have dinner at your house,
she looks for ways to shy away. She does not
want to be trapped in an uncomfortable position
where it would only be the two of you. No matter
how hard you try, she would avoid intimate
lunches or dinners. She might even bring her
friend along. We all know guys hate this.
7. Friendzone: I had to save the best for last. This
is very common among the ladies. You like this
girl so much and next thing you know, she
introduces you as her friend, or even tells you
things like, “Tolu, I value our friendship and don’t
want to lose you as a good friend”. Mister, I’m
sorry to say, but you have been “friend zoned”.
This one dey pain!
Most guys like to ignore these signs because they
feel she is just playing hard to get. Sometimes
guys, this is not the case. She is just not that
into you. .

Nice post