This is an issue that I'd wanna us to talk about.
Some people would say " Don't change yourself at all,
find a girl who likes you for who you are".while Some people would
. say " If who you are, is unattractive to girls, then you
have to change your personality".
To me,I think though that the only personality trait worth
striving for is confidence. For e.g if you were a shy
nerdy type of guy, which includes you improving your self-esteem,
You don't have to change who you are at all. Just be yourself . What if you act like someone your not, and attracts someone that
you truly love and want to spend the rest of your life
with? Then what? Do you really think you can live the
rest of your life as the person they first fell in love with?
Probably not..

So guys, can change your personality in order to get a girl?.

Spactacle: This is an issue that I'd wanna us to talk about.
Some people would say " Don't change yourself at all,
find a girl who likes you for who you are".while Some people would
. say " If who you are, is unattractive to girls, then you
have to change your personality".
To me,I think though that the only personality trait worth
striving for is confidence. For e.g if you were a shy
nerdy type of guy, which includes you improving your self-esteem,
You don't have to change who you are at all. Just be yourself . What if you act like someone your not, and attracts someone that
you truly love and want to spend the rest of your life
with? Then what? Do you really think you can live the
rest of your life as the person they first fell in love with?
Probably not..

So guys, can change your personality in order to get a girl?.

nevaaa

They won't tell you the truth @op

farano: They won't tell you the truth @op

, lol. Some I guess

Only if I just want to shag her

farano: They won't tell you the truth @op

Ladies can't handle the truth na. Besides, isn't it general knowledge that ladies love guys who are too good to be true?

Na! Neva. Not worth it.

The only constant thing in life is change! Situations make people to change from bad to good or vice versa. Nobody is wholly good or bad, so it takes constant change for the world to be a better place. So, if a guy sees that his attitude is repulsive to the opposite s,ex, it'll be in his best interest if he changes. I've seen it happen before, so i know it works.

Why? If she no go take me as i'am, she can go and die! No faking!

farano: They won't tell you the truth @op

we do tell d truth, but u gals dont jst like d truth. Na una make guys de fake things.

donpeey22: The only constant thing in life is change! Situations make people to change from bad to good or vice versa. Nobody is wholly good or bad, so it takes constant change for the world to be a better place. So, if a guy sees that his attitude is repulsive to the opposite s,ex, it'll be in his best interest if he changes. I've seen it happen before, so i know it works.

u misunderstanding d op. Is there that situation that wil make u change ur personality b4 a gal?

You are trying to ask whether we can impress a girl through pretense.

My answer is NO.

If there is anything she doesn't like in me, let her accept me first and then work to change it... If her dislikes of you are more than the likes, then she is not your's. Let her like me 70 -80 %, then she can work on the rest..

That is called Love.

caseless: u misunderstanding d op. Is there that situation that wil make u change ur personality b4 a gal?

ok! Guys do that alot nau. You see them acting all good to get a gal. But personally i can't do that sha.

I think this the last i'll do to attract a girl...