Nashville: I have my wife as my next of kin. I married her because I trust her and in case of any unexpected events, I know she is best able to take decisions in the interest of my children. And besides, my wife does not need my money to survive. She earns a living and can survive on her salary.

But if you think your wife wants to kill you, it's better you get a separation than live in fear. Why are people sooo scared of their spouses?

Blockus:


Why?!



So you trust your fortunes with your kids more than with your wife who hussled with you?!

Scyllapatron:

no bro, wives killing hubbys for inheritance isn't just African, it happens everywhere in the world. watch those telemundo movies.

kibo: This thread is gender biased. The same women who clamour for gender equality are the ones who complain about the man not making them next of kin.

Why should you depend on someone who you claim to be EQUAL with??

THE WOMEN SHOULD WORK HARD AND MAKE THE MEN THEIR NEXT OF KIN.

lofty900: men prefer to use their sons as next of kin, except a situation whereby the son is too young then the wife becomes the next liable candidate.

disloman: U twisting this issue.No matter ao perfect ur marriage is,Woman will remain being a woman.If u were married,u will understand what I said.

Lol..

This is the most astonishing thing I have ever heard.

Please explain what you mean; A WOMAN WOULD ALWAYS BE A WOMAN.

And what makes you think I am not married?!

babygirlfl: Most Nigerians do not value the work women put into marriage. With respect to housewives (I never look down on full time housewives) I personally can not be one because most of our people don't value women's hardwork.

You can imagine a woman gives up her career to look after the kids only to find out that the kids are her husbands beneficiary which means she will have to live off the kids.

Women work for your money and if you ever have to stay at home to look after the kids, please make sure your name is in the documents of all properties and businesses your husband acquires while you are both married.

disloman: What a touching story but if all these properties r passed to d children,can't his wife does all u mentioned above in d interest of ha children?Must ha name b d next in kin 4 ha to perform ha duties?gat anorda story 4 ya where d wife of d uncle waste all d wealth on ha nu found love?what will u do abt that?I n my work towards our children's future.

francleanflexy: most ppl feel that their wife will kill them n make away with their properties

Nashville: I have my wife as my next of kin. I married her because I trust her and in case of any unexpected events, I know she is best able to take decisions in the interest of my children. And besides, my wife does not need my money to survive. She earns a living and can survive on her salary.

But if you think your wife wants to kill you, it's better you get a separation than live in fear. Why are people sooo scared of their spouses?

bukatyne:

I thought the marriage vow was till death do us part?

Or does marriage continue in death?

Did the woman not work together with the man while he was alive?

Dcmg: Paul walker {an american}died and left all his $25m estate to his 15 year old daughter and appionted her grandmother has the guardian when actually the girls mother is still alive.
Mbok dnt make it look like Nigerian men are bad

Fresia01: he can use whoever he likes,, buh me,, i use ma mum!!! love her more than anything else!!

galantjoe: but for me, am married. still my brothers are my next of kin. until my children come of age, i will change it. reason for my action; i have seen ; even watched in movies where wife kill husband in ordered to get her benefit or that of her children because she said the man is too stingy. so i prefer my brothers to my wife.
Wife is a necessary evil one must live with, so one must be very careful, don't expose ur source of income. be secretive in that area.

Blockus:


Why?!



So you trust your fortunes with your kids more than with your wife who hussled with you?!

PassingShot: The wife should be the natural NOK followed by the children. Any other arrangement is stoopid.

legendsilver:
How are you sure the wife hustled with him? Most ladies this days only want to reap what they did not sow by marrying already made men just to envelop the man's wealth after his departure to the afterlife. Only few ladies can boost of hustling with a man from the start, majority of them only wants to eat and milk the man dry. A typical example is a family I know very well.