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Mistakes Most Singles Make by igbokwesampson(m): 5:44pm On Aug 25, 2014
MISTAKES MOST SINGLES MAKE.

Bonding Quickly
Women often make mistakes when dating by encouraging a bond to form quickly. This need pushes them to get serious too quickly. Hold off on wedding bells and spend time getting to know each other first.

Dropping Friends
Women tend to drop their friends to be with the new man in their life. This closes a woman off from her social network and gives the man a lot of control and responsibility over a woman's happiness.

Neglecting Goals
Career goals and personal goals should be priority. A woman often put these things at risk to make things easier on the man. Women will choose to focus energy into a man's life and career instead of furthering personal goals.

Trying to Change the Other Party
The most common mistake women make is believing they can change a man. People don't change, so be okay with the guy as he is.

Too Eager
Men are often eager to please a woman who is physically attractive to them. They come across as being too eager by sending a lot of text messages asking about what the woman would like to do. Avoid sending unnecessary text messages before a date. Make a plan and stick to it.

Forgetting Manners
Men sometimes forget their manners. Use manners during dinner and otherwise. Eat slowly, be a good listener and talk about things that interest you both.

Providing Way Too Much Information
Men, who haven't been on a date in awhile, sometimes over share. Don't describe all of your life issues on the first date. It seems desperate and scary.

Pushing for Sex
Talking about sex on the first date is also a big mistake. Take the time to get to know someone. If there are subsequent dates, then sex may be on the menu.

Wandering Eyes
The fastest way to turn a woman off is to flirt or stare at other women in the restaurant or bar. Women want the attention of the man they are with.

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