SAMBARRY: I wonder myself where thus so called bush meats spring out from.so bathing is now a privilege?






tufiiiiaaaaakwa





now I understand when kanwulia calls some nigerian men smelling bliko.ses.i thought she was just clowning I didn't know there were elements of truths in her post





I wish she was here to see mr obun in action

My sister, call me crazy buh i take some of her comments veeeeeeerrrry seriously.

3cycle:
Sorry I said your head is little.
Large head, are you happy now?

Yes, thanks.

5minsmadness:
Sorry for the delay. Went to have my bath
Sambarry/kulyie abeg free me You know say this Na d first time I dey quote you for nairaland biko nu

go and eat your idoti (isiewu) no body cage you before but quit dirtiness its a big turn off



ahen don't forget to shave your pewbik hair and the one under your arm pit and use roll on in your armpit





eyin obun United wonyi

Sophyrocks:

My sister, call me crazy buh i take some of her comments veeeeeeerrrry seriously.

me too o



as if she's a prophet. Everything she says keep revealing itself on nl every day





no wonder many men on nl don't like her. They think she's crazy

5 minutes you're unbelievable. In fact I had to edit my posts because if I send it the way it's in my mind. This thread will be locked . meanwhile

5minsmadness:

So because I didn't join the chorus in insulting the man without listening to both sides of the story I must be a slave dealer and worse than your neighbor. Lol.

Nope. I simply like to be analytical about things and I try not to let my emotions becloud my judgement on Saturdays.

Also I don't subscribe to joining the crowd so as to receive accolades and 'likes'. I try to tell it as it is.


I saw your picture on your profile and felt it would be preferable to you to address you as girl instead of woman. But if you prefer lady, fine, its no skin off my bones.
Note:
You are only addressed as a lady if you behave like one: a lady has finesse, class, is calm and collected, not rude, polite, truthful etc.

SAMBARRY: So she had to beg or be patronized before she baths?

are you reading your posts at all


must you justify stoopeedeety.so he wants to prove he's a man.like you dared me . Are you for real? Of course when a woman's source of livelihood is from all knowing oga she has to beg.if them check it now them go see say she no get job or good education hence beg oga before poverty finish am.an empowered woman for don eaka tey tey but illiteracy and poverty fuels foolishness, subserviency and over dependence

who suppose carry her pikin and take necessary documents before leaving him to wallow in filthiness

She is free to 'waka' oh, nobody is stopping her. Na op talk say she dey beg to come back.

Meanwhile you are free to go and eat your road side isi ewu but no forget say ebola dey town


today I went to my tailors shop to collect my dress and a woman was complaining of maggots she saw inside the roadside isi ewu she was eating unfortunately she saw it to late when she has put some morsels in her mouth.

Bottom line continue dey eat doti dey call am food. Them go soon cook rat intestine for you you go call am round about

On the contrary , Madam zubairu owns one of poshiest, air-conditioned restaurants in town All the big bankers go there
And Ebola is gotten from poorly cooked monkey or rat meat. As far as I know, madam serves her monkey well cooked

Chillisauce:




You said it all. She who has ears,hear .

Very sick individuals.

Chilli, i mean no disrespect to people from poor backgrounds because everybody cannot be the same BUT i have noticed a trend amongst some men from extremely poor backgrounds before they make it big. most of them usually develop deep sadistic tendencies due to prolonged hard knock life. This is why they explode when they make it big and we hear storiesthat touch from women who stood by them. their definition of life is suffering so they tend to make their wives suffer. They are usually very arrogant, stingy and have a twisted way of thinking. No jokes.

How do some women become so helpless? So docile and downright worthless? Very pathetic tale. Let her keep begging, mtcheeewww!!!

Then let her keep begging then since she's enjoying her slavery. She will soon beg before she wears bra sef

5minsmadness:
She is free to 'waka' oh, nobody is stopping her. Na op talk say she dey beg to come back.


On the contrary , Madam zubairu owns one of poshiest, air-conditioned restaurants in town All the big bankers go there
And Ebola is gotten from poorly cooked monkey or rat meat. As far as I know, madam serves her monkey well cooked

beeevan: How do some women become so helpless? So docile and downright worthless? Very pathetic tale. Let her keep begging, mtcheeewww!!!

You don't know they are the real 'wife material' ni? Don't knock their hustle.

beeevan: How do some women become so helpless? So docile and downright worthless? Very pathetic tale. Let her keep begging, mtcheeewww!!!

as in ehen.i just taya. When for goodness sake are we going to read something positive about many nigerian men on nl. something edifying not barbarism shockers.when you think you have heard the worst another worse one will surface from nowhere

ileobatojo:

You don't know they are the real 'wife material' ni? Don't knock their hustle.

lobatan

beeevan: How do some women become so helpless? So docile and downright worthless? Very pathetic tale. Let her keep begging, mtcheeewww!!!

Blame it on the sh1t and faeces the useless society we live in feed women. Being docile and downright worthless is the definition of a good african virtuous wife. Having self esteem means you are a feminist. No sane man would treat a woman with a full dose of self esteem with such disdain. if she also was independent with a good source of income, she wouldnt be treated this way.

3cycle:
sitdown there, I am way finer than that lady.
Btw I'm taken

Na true, do you also have them shiny white feathery & soft angel wings attached to your back?

ileobatojo:

You don't know they are the real 'wife material' ni? Don't knock their hustle.

Exactly what i said. the virtuous wife is one who goes through sh1t for the sake of her kids and for the sake of keeping the Mrs title. The more she suffers in the marriage, the better for the society and the less number of divorces we will have. In other words, marriage depends only on women while men are puppets.

ileobatojo:

You don't know they are the real 'wife material' ni? Don't knock their hustle.

The gist gave me instant headache, i wonder how someone can let a mere mortal, flesh and blood, something that dies to treat her like a worthless rag.

shebi na advice u de find, tell her to carry her brother/male relatives go discuss wt d husband.if truely thats d only issue shame go catch am.she ma sef she for just avoid the man wahala go buy water, abi where the other compd pple dey get water when d man do him craze? she should also see how feasible she can add the fact that she will like her small business durin d family meeting

3cycle: Well welcome to Nigeria where some husband's have every right to be irrational while wife just sitdon dey look

Sorry ma',am but what do you expect when in Nigeria we pay through the nose to acquire women like property? Not trying to justify the man's action though. I think he is being too extreme in this case.

Sophyrocks:

Blame it on the sh1t and faeces the useless society we live in feed women. Being docile and downright worthless is the definition of a good african virtuous wife. Having self esteem means you are a feminist. No sane man would treat a woman with a full dose of self esteem with such disdain. if she also was independent with a good source of income, she wouldnt be treated this way.

Seriously I find it hard blaming the society, where is the human in them, Their survival instincts? Where is their self esteem, their love for life, who they are or want to be? I can't understand what can make a human so worthless, i tried but can't. It's like roasting your fingers over the burner because the society said so.

beeevan:



The gist gave me instant headache, i wonder how someone can let a mere mortal, flesh and blood, something that dies to treat her like a worthless rag.

You have just expressed my exact thoughts on the bolded!



I have always wondered the same. I crack my head to try to understand it. As in, how can you allow somebody made of dust, born of a woman for that matter, that will die one day, to treat you this way? i dnt even get it when some women claim to be afraid of been free with their husbands or can't just have decent conversation with them. How?

SAMBARRY: as in ehen.i just taya. When for goodness sake are we going to read something positive about many nigerian men on nl. something edifying not barbarism shockers.when you think you have heard the worst another worse one will surface from nowhere

Nah only God go fit save some women from the stupidity embedded in them, all these nonsense to answer married woman?

Sophyrocks:

You have just expressed my exact thoughts on the bolded!



I have always wondered the same. I crack my head to try to understand it. As in, how can you allow somebody made of dust, born of a woman for that matter, that will die one day, to treat you this way? i dnt even get it when some women claim to be afraid of been free with their husbands or can't just have decent conversation with them. How?

It's a sad situation,a hopeless case.

I hate seeing wives being maltreated by their husbands ...
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beeevan:



Seriously I find it hard blaming the society, where is the human in them, Their survival instincts? Where is their self esteem, their love for life, who they are or want to be? I can't understand what can make a human so worthless, i tried but can't. It's like roasting your fingers over the burner because the society said so.

Its very sad but also true. The Nigerian society has a very strong hold on women being the most gullible people on earth. can't you see how people are so quick to judge women? go through the comments and pick one particular one that tried to rope the blame on this woman in the Op. Women are judged for every single problem on earth! dnt you hear men make statements denoting that Women are responsible for all the problems of men? Go and read that thread about the divorce between chris oyakhilome and his wife. I purposely avoided that thread because i have decided to avoid certain arguments and i was too pissed to read it.

The typical Nigerian mentality degrades the self esteem of women and attaches the 'wife material/virtuous woman' ish to make it look palatable to women with naturally no self esteem. Only stubborn, strong willed women like moi prevent that from happening to them.

I smell "juju" things. The woman don spoil show for the man niyen. What a wicked world!

ileobatojo:

You don't know they are the real 'wife material' ni? Don't knock their hustle.

My dear, even with the school degree . Then I ask, of what use is the degree

Chillisauce:

My dear, even with the school degree . Then I ask, of what use is the degree

Chilli, just imagine? Shouldn't this woman have gotten herself a job a long time ago whether the husband likes it or not? Very silly individual.

some people r mad here!
Abeg make una come take chilled pepsi to cool body

A very simple proverb comes to mind" as u make ur bed u lie on it"

Story for the gods.
Say that and your fellow women will be the first to turn on you.
My own be say any adult woman who doesn't know what to do to maintain her dignity is not worth the sweating over.

Mynd44:
It is time the women in this country left retrogressive cultures and start making new ones.

It is time to change the rules and demand for more else the male folk will ride on them

cococandy: Story for the gods.
Say that and your fellow women will be the first to turn on you.
My own be say any adult woman who doesn't know what to do to maintain her dignity is not worth the sweating over.

I am not a woman

Haha. I know. I was saying from a woman's POV.

Mynd44:
I am not a woman

Shitty thread that was. Some called her the devil's agent for trying to break free from an adulterous union because she should have considered his ministry and name before her happiness.

One example. A mild example it is. There were Some I couldn't read without wincing

KunAviero: Women can silly and senseless at times. Even if the man is at fault, could she not have turned a blind eye just for the sake of her children, the name "Oyakhilome", the christ embassy church and what the bible says about divorce? I thought she took a vow in front of the alter of God to love her husband for better and for worst? Even if others divorce easily, I don't expect such from a high profile pastor like Anita. Pastor Indeed

I guess God doesn't mind when a man sins.
He hates divorce if the man misbehaves but condones it and infact endorses it when the woman misbehaves.
"The god of men."
It was irritating

Sophyrocks:

Its very sad but also true. The Nigerian society has a very strong hold on women being the most gullible people on earth. can't you see how people are so quick to judge women? go through the comments and pick one particular one that tried to rope the blame on this woman in the Op. Women are judged for every single problem on earth! dnt you hear men make statements denoting that Women are responsible for all the problems of men? Go and read that thread about the divorce between chris oyakhilome and his wife. I purposely avoided that thread because i have decided to avoid certain arguments and i was too pissed to read it.

The typical Nigerian mentality degrades the self esteem of women and attaches the 'wife material/virtuous woman' ish to make it look palatable to women with naturally no self esteem. Only stubborn, strong willed women like moi prevent that from happening to them.