coolheed: The case of Pastor Chris and Rev. Anita needs deep analysis so as to prescribe pragmatic solutions and learn from their situations.
KEY CONCERNS
1. They have been living far apart for 16 years or thereabout and therefore they do not spend quality time as a family.
2. Rev. Anita has advised Pastor Chris to pursue single ladies who flock around in their white house, but he declined.
3. Since Rev. Anita does not reside in Nigeria, her loyalists might have informed her that Pastor Chris is not faithful. This may or may not be true.
4. How does Pastor Chris satisfy his sexual needs? I am sure someone will say that the Holy Spirit will take care of that. In practical terms, it is almost impossible for a man to be with flock of beautiful exotic ladies for years and not backslide. That is why it is advisable that what one will not eat, one should not move near nor smell it.

Even though Pastor Chris and Rev Anita may equally have their blames, more blames should be channelled at those single ladies who are hell-bent on spoiling a happy home. They seduce, entice, cajole and put themselves in a position of pity all in the name of coming for counselling and church-working. I thought the service of a church-worker should be restricted to the church, what are they doing in the pastor's house.
Is there anyone on this forum that can resist these evil ladies? We are talking about georgious, spot-less, exotic, rich and beautiful ladies running after a handsome, eloquent, charismatic, rich, influential and powerful "man of God". It takes the grace of God to swim across the Atlantic ocean.

It may sound weird and strange to Christians but I must say this as a Muslim. If Pastor Chris has legally married other wives, there will be no allegation of adultery. There is nothing that says a Christian cannot marry more than one wife if he choses to, it is western orientation that led us into monogamy. Abraham, the father of faith - married three wives and most of the Prophets mentioned in the Bible practice polygamy.
Jesus never married, so there is no practical example of marriage to learn from him.

Until we are reasonable and practical in our judgements, there will always be problem in the society. If there is any section of the bible that forbids polygamy, i will be happy to learn it.

sirjohnson: Latest update is that Oyakhilome replaces wife with Sinach on his personal website. Read it Here

jcmaiah: Where members dress seductively what do you expect? If the man messed up now it came late! I am not surprised of such aligations. How can a church allow woman dress like whores in their so called temple of (God)?

Iamsynord: This is the Edge Islam is having..Hw many Muslim clerics have we seen divorcing ?? The two Chris ( the Chris okotie) and now Chris oyalkilome who supposedly has A PhD in Theology.
hmn ??

sokera: How can we identify true man of God? Matthew 7:20 Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.

Jerryolumide: plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz go study English............

Acidosis:


Yes oo.. The media needs to call Sinach for questionning..!

Besides, I nor trust all these Jerry curl dudes.. Frank Edward et al..

This same Frank that ought be in a state of sober reflection is still running around Lagos attending dem so called Christian shows.

tbaba1234:

....Wives have [rights] similar to their [obligations], according to what is recognized to be fair, and husbands have a degree [of right] over them: [both should remember that] God is almighty and wise. [Surah 2:228]

“The best of you are those who are the best to their wives, and I am the best of you to my wives.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 3895;

Iamsynord: This is the Edge Islam is having..Hw many Muslim clerics have we seen divorcing ?? The two Chris ( the Chris okotie) and now Chris oyalkilome who supposedly has A PhD in Theology.
hmn ??

Iamsynord: This is the Edge Islam is having..Hw many Muslim clerics have we seen divorcing ?? The two Chris ( the Chris okotie) and now Chris oyalkilome who supposedly has A PhD in Theology.
hmn ??

Tallesty1: *dies*

kennygee:

*Pours you cold water**Pours you cold water*

Tallesty1:
*jumps up n runs outta da thread*

Khalessi: All of them want a taste of the HOLY dičk.

Iamsynord: This is the Edge Islam is having..Hw many Muslim clerics have we seen divorcing ?? The two Chris ( the Chris okotie) and now Chris oyalkilome who supposedly has A PhD in Theology.
hmn ??

Crixina: Pls I saw smthing abt white house and girls who are being asked to move out...immorality and stuff,pls can someone explain all that to me?

Truckpusher: That's not an edge.
In Islam your women are like your cattle and I 'd call it systemic slavery.

Truckpusher: That's not an edge.
In Islam your women are like your cattle and I 'd call it systemic slavery.

SweetyZinta: Allahu akbar. When truth comes Falsehood must vanish dats a promise of Allah! So, O U who believe fear Allah because he sees what u do in secret and in open. #Islam

leo1234:
What of forced early marriage