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Your boys.......your husband and your son. I initially said regards to your kids. Lol. Enjoy the rest of your week.

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your post is directing we readers toward accepting that the husband's mum is most suitable for the task...however,the wife's mum is the better choice for the task because it could involve cleansing of the private parts of the new mother(ie the mum's daughhter).

Wife's mum, until deceased. Its always the mother of the wife

liliana: @ poster

Does anyone really need either? Things are changing fast and most mothers or mothers-in-law are quite busy these days by the time they become grandparents for the first time.

Besides, I have my husband with me. He will take care of me with support from both mothers!

My thoughts and opinion!

ur thought and opinion? Lazy one.

bdcool: your post is directing we readers toward accepting that the husband's mum is most suitable for the task...however,the wife's mum is the better choice for the task because it could involve cleansing of the private parts of the new mother(ie the mum's daughhter).

What's this cleansing of the private part. Why do you need another human bring to wash your as5

egopersonified:


Seconded, thirded and infinity-ed.
Most husband's mothers expects the woman to even take care of her even from the first day of getting home from the hospital and expects the wife to treat her as a visitor who has come to enjoy the fruits of her son's labour.

that's excertly how my MIL does her things, she's too lazy and complains a lot. When I delivered my first baby, she came after my mum had gone. During my mum's stay, she does the cooking, washing, bathing and the rest, I had that quality time to rest. But when my MIL came, oh my good f*cking a*se, I exsursted those rest in just a day! All she does is to take her bath and wait for food and then complain that I cooked with more meat and fish. She wouldn't even wake up at night to carry baby when he cries, she's always sleeping and anorring like a big fat cow . Thanks to my hubby, he is one in a million. He does the things which his mum couldn't do for me. He always give me a helping hand. Each time my MIL does her things and got me irritated, my hubby does his own things and before I knw it, we would be laughing like hyena. You don't espect me to allow her type to visit when am newly delivered, my mum is always there for me. Even this one I delivered thru cs, my mum is still here with us. because of my hubby sometimes I do missed his mum, but when she comes, I would wish she goes in two days lol. Nawaa for some MILs o!

Bump!

Omugwo is for the woman's mother to do, the only time the man's mother does omugwo is if the woman's mother is late or she's unable to attend for reasons that are beyond control. However the man's parents come and visit but it's not really considered omugwo

Omugo
simply means someone is Foolish

(in yoruba)

It is not Omugo? But Omugwo.
The wife's mum comes first for the Omugwo. It is her duty and non negotiable except she's not available.
In this case, the mother in- law can be invited later. It is not her duty originally

Both of them will come and stay for as long as they want. I don't do rules and regulations to manage my home.