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Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by freecocoa(f): 12:05pm On Sep 11, 2014
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Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by Phut(f): 12:07pm On Sep 11, 2014
cococandy: Like I said before in the other thread,I think they both got served.
She tasted near death
And he's tasting near career loss.
Seems sort of fair to me.

If she'd passed out for some days longer,it would have been fairest.
So that she can learn to keep her hands to herself in future when having a misunderstanding.

Why spit on him? To me that's unforgivable.
I'll never live with someone who's ever spat at me. That's what you do to disgusting shiit n scum.
I find it weird she's living with someone who disgusts her.

Now she's forming repentance.
Well I'm sure it'll be a while before she hits someone again.
Him too.

Coco candy o, she did not spit on him. He spit on her. Please watch the video again. He is standing by the pillar and she walks by him. That is when he leaned forward, pursed his lips and spit on her. She then pushed him

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Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by freecocoa(f): 12:09pm On Sep 11, 2014
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Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by freecocoa(f): 12:10pm On Sep 11, 2014
Phut:

Coco candy o, she did not spit on him. He spit on her. Please watch the video again. He is standing by the pillar and she walks by him. That is when he leaned forward, pursed his lips and spit on her. She then pushed him
For reals? Link to vidoe please if you have.
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by Phut(f): 12:15pm On Sep 11, 2014
freecocoa: For reals? Link to vidoe please if you have.

Free cocoa, I am new to the forum. Don't know how to post videos. But you can find video in the trend entitled: NFL player knocks out his fiancée. Video is in the original post. Or you can go to Tmz.com. The NFL player is Ray Rice
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by Phut(f): 12:16pm On Sep 11, 2014
Phut:

Free cocoa, I am new to the forum. Don't know how to post videos. But you can find video in the trend entitled: NFL player knocks out his fiancée. Video is in the original post. The trend is in the Family section (created by Shymexx) Or you can go to Tmz.com. The NFL player is Ray Rice
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by freecocoa(f): 12:17pm On Sep 11, 2014
Phut:

Free cocoa, I am new to the forum. Don't know how to post videos. But you can find video in the trend entitled: NFL player knocks out his fiancée. Video is in the original post. Or you can go to Tmz.com. The NFL player is Ray Rice
okay thanks.
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by freecocoa(f): 12:22pm On Sep 11, 2014
Wtf? That nigga's a beast, see the way he dragged her, he didn't even care.

He's the one that even spat on her, omg!
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by Nobody: 12:22pm On Sep 11, 2014
Chillisauce:

Maybe when my cat Gaya scratches me, I will give her a big kick that will make her hit herself on the wall, convulse and gets up again. If there was a video coverage to that, even the animal rights people will throw me in jail. That is how the law works.
If you don't like it, get back to the jungle .
hahaha i cant wait to see the video. It must be a classic example of the triple standard talk in town.
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by Nobody: 12:31pm On Sep 11, 2014
So apparently, he was the aggressor and started it outside the elevator.

ATLANTIC CITY, N.J. -- Ray Rice spat in the face of Janay Palmer the night he punched her in a hotel elevator, one current and one former security staffer at the Revel hotel told "Outside the Lines."

Three current or former security staffers, who spoke with "Outside the Lines" this week on the condition of anonymity, described additional details of the ugly scene captured on video. Two of the men were on duty the night of the assault, while a third had full access to the security video, which he said he has watched dozens of times. TMZSports.com released a video this week that showed Rice punching Palmer in the face, appearing to knock her unconscious. Revel security workers watched the incident from the operations room through a security camera of the elevator.

One former staffer said Rice, the former Baltimore Ravens running back, spat in his then-fiancée's face twice, "once outside the elevator and once inside," prompting her to retaliate with movements that were ultimately countered with a knockout punch. According to the men, as Rice punched Palmer, the elevator the couple rode was rapidly approaching the hotel lobby just two floors above the casino floor. A security staffer, dispatched from his lobby post, saw Rice starting to drag his fiancée, who appeared to still be unconscious, out of the elevator.
http://espn.go.com/espn/otl/story/_/id/11503496/ray-rice-spat-face-fiancee-twice-punch-lines-reports

The video in this link shows it more clearly than the previous video posted in this section. It shows her just walking by and he spits on her which makes her try to smack his face, they go in the elevator and apparently he spits on her again which she responded by holding out her elbow to his face. Then he smacks her face…..


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wsd8LtTTnAI

Based on this new information, I'm glad he got what he deserved. He is even sicker than I thought, I thought he was pretty sick already from the way he treated her unconscious body but this shows she was the one retaliating/defending herself.
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by cococandy(f): 12:32pm On Sep 11, 2014
shocked shocked
Coogar come and verify this.

Phut I'm not going to watch it,my device doesn't open you tube videos.
Phut:

Coco candy o, she did not spit on him. He spit on her. Please watch the video again. He is standing by the pillar and she walks by him. That is when he leaned forward, pursed his lips and spit on her. She then pushed him
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by cococandy(f): 12:35pm On Sep 11, 2014
freecocoa: Wtf? That nigga's a beast, see the way he dragged her, he didn't even care.

He's the one that even spat on her, omg!
seriously?
That means I've to log in with my other tablet let me see for myself before getting decieved with fake tales.
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by freecocoa(f): 12:35pm On Sep 11, 2014
cococandy: shocked shocked
Coogar come and verify this.

Phut I'm not going to watch it,my device doesn't open you tube videos.
Just watched it and it's clearer, the dude's a monster.

She was trying to defend herself and got knocked out.

Coogar and his cohorts make ina come o.
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by freecocoa(f): 12:37pm On Sep 11, 2014
cococandy: seriously?
That means I've to log in with my other tablet let me see for myself before getting decieved with fake tales.
You should watch it.

Just like Kanwulia would say, women learn violence from men walai.

I don't think I can ignore being slapped and pushed let alone being spat on.
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by cococandy(f): 12:38pm On Sep 11, 2014
Seems like there are quite a few different videos for this issues.

Which is why I'm wondering why she's apologizing to him and asking folks to stay away from their 'marriage' according to coogar.

How can one spit on someone they claim to love?
ileobatojo: So apparently, he was the aggressor and started it outside the elevator.



The video in this link shows it more clearly than the previous video posted in this section. It shows her just walking by and he spits on her which makes her try to smack his face, they go in the elevator and apparently he spits on her again which she responded by holding out her elbow to his face. Then he smacks her face…..


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wsd8LtTTnAI

Based on this new information, I'm glad he got what he deserved. He is even sicker than I thought, I thought he was pretty sick already from the way he treated her unconscious body but this shows she was the one retaliating/defending herself.
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by cococandy(f): 12:41pm On Sep 11, 2014
Sure thing. Make I go find my tablet.

My earlier post was on the premise that she hit him first and spat on him.
freecocoa: You should watch it.

Just like Kanwulia would say, women learn violence from men walai.

I don't think I can ignore being slapped and pushed let alone being spat on.
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by freecocoa(f): 12:43pm On Sep 11, 2014
cococandy: Seems like there are quite a few different videos for this issues.

Which is why I'm wondering why she's apologizing to him and asking folks to stay away from their 'marriage' according to coogar.

How can one spit on someone they claim to love?
c'mon you can't be saying this, you think say na for only naija stupid women dey?

Many people don't know what love is walai.
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by Kanwulia: 12:44pm On Sep 11, 2014
freecocoa: You should watch it.

Just like Kanwulia would say, women learn violence from men walai.

I don't think I can ignore being slapped and pushed let alone being spat on.

That is how it starts.
You push me, I push you.
Guess who is watching? THE CHILDREN! kiss
I make a celestial effort to REMOVE MYSELF FROM VIOLENT PEOPLE. kiss

But it it the truth na!
All abusive women learned from MEN.
They only transfer the learned aggression to their victims!
Women and men are no different from children.

They learn by example! From DYSFUNCTIONAL ADULTS!
The reason I FORBID spanking in my house.
Bottled-up anger in children manifests later in their adult lives.

Very scary! Life is hard enough! kiss

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Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by freecocoa(f): 12:46pm On Sep 11, 2014
Kanwulia:

But it it the truth na!
All abusive women learned from MEN.
They only transfer the learned aggression to their victims!
Women and men are no different from children.

They learn by example!
The reason I FORBID spanking in my house.
Bottled-up anger in children manifests later in their adult lives.

Very scary! Life is hard enough! kiss
You couldn't have said it better my sister.
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by Kanwulia: 12:48pm On Sep 11, 2014
freecocoa: You couldn't have said it better my sister.

Amen! kiss
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by coogar: 12:58pm On Sep 11, 2014
freecocoa: Just watched it and it's clearer, the dude's a monster.

She was trying to defend herself and got knocked out.

Coogar and his cohorts make ina come o.

you are watching the wrong video. the TMZ video is blurred, shorter & inconclusive. according to AP(association press), they were handed another version that was longer, clearer(high definition) and she was the one that spat at him before he punched her.

she's the primary aggressor.....

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Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by freecocoa(f): 1:01pm On Sep 11, 2014
coogar:

you are watching the wrong video. the TMZ video is blurred, shorter & inconclusive. according to AP(association press), they were handed another version that was longer, clearer(high definition) and she was the one that spat at him before he punched her.

she's the primary aggressor.....
Doesn't seem that way from what I saw, are you saying the version I watched was doctored or what? the one I saw is very clear biko.
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by cococandy(f): 1:01pm On Sep 11, 2014
Ok so they both spat at each other? Must be a house of cobras
pickabeau1: These are two different scenarios

Have u watched the video yourself or just winging it based on versions of people

She slapped at him, a version of the video shows her spitting on him

He raised his hand.. she fell and hit the elevator railing... that knocked her out


or do you have a differing version of events


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Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by coogar: 1:07pm On Sep 11, 2014
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Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by pickabeau1: 1:07pm On Sep 11, 2014
cococandy: Ok so they both spat at each other? Must be a house of cobras

Na wa... which video person go believe...

cobras grin grin
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by coogar: 1:08pm On Sep 11, 2014
freecocoa: Doesn't seem that way from what I saw, are you saying the version I watched was doctored or what? the one I saw is very clear biko.

the version you saw wasn't clear enough to show who was spitting at who. the media have seen a different version that is high-definition with audio & it was the woman doing the spitting.

anyone who says there was a man spitting in the TMZ video is a pathological liar.

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Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by Nobody: 1:08pm On Sep 11, 2014
Floodgater: hahaha i cant wait to see the video. It must be a classic example of the triple standard talk in town.

Ha! Pls o. I didn't do it. It was just an assumption to illustrate my point. cheesy
Make dem no come lock me up
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by cococandy(f): 1:10pm On Sep 11, 2014
Seen. I think apart from the knocks and spits and all what not,it seemed particularly cold the way he handled her unconscious body.
Wasn't he even scared that she might die?

One can react in anger,but when your opponent slumps,there's supposed to be that human fear for the life of that other person seeing as you didn't plan to really kill the person. I think he should have been frantic about her passing out.
That would have shown some humanity on his part.
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by cococandy(f): 1:12pm On Sep 11, 2014
This one isn't that clear.

But I saw clearly the way he dragged her body.
That was awful.
pickabeau1:

Na wa... which video person go believe...

cobras grin grin
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by pickabeau1: 1:17pm On Sep 11, 2014
cococandy: This one isn't that clear.

But I saw clearly the way he dragged her body.
That was awful.

Seems its d dragging when she was out cold that really ruined his case
However a deadweight body is not easy to manoeuvre

Shes also a tall well built woman
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by cococandy(f): 1:21pm On Sep 11, 2014
Yea it really ruined his case.
A lawyer could plead that he didn't intend to knock her out cold but him not showing any concern(that's how it seems from the way held her) when she passed out will rub a jury the wrong way if it were to go to court.
pickabeau1:

Seems its d dragging when she was out cold that really ruined his case
However a deadweight body is not easy to manoeuvre

Shes also a tall well built woman
Re: Violence: Again The Double Standards by edwife(f): 1:27pm On Sep 11, 2014
I really don't know what to believe anymore,why are there more videos out there? undecidedIt is confusing undecided undecided

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