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Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by Kingsleyinfo(m): 2:28am On Oct 31, 2008
So often we here that men are worst than women or vice versa in terms of cheating or being unfaithful so i want to make it an open question who is worse than the other. Pls feel free to air ur opinion and experience.
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by Morenike3(f): 2:30am On Oct 31, 2008
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by CodeRED(f): 2:40am On Oct 31, 2008
Men are, They lie so much that it has become second nature. And what gives me a good laugh is how they go about doing it. I mean, acting all smart, yet they leave so many clues,

I have long learnt to "nod and smile" when a guy promised you he wont ever cheat. Afterall, ONLY a foolish woman believes such vile, And getting jealous is a waste of energy, when You can gladly get even,
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by JJYOU: 2:46am On Oct 31, 2008
these men cheat with women. am i right?
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by Kingsleyinfo(m): 2:41pm On Oct 31, 2008
I think women are worse considering they are called the weaker vessels you will be amazed how deceitful they can be. Moreover a woman can amass as many boyfriends as she likes unlike a man who is liable to be rejected by half of the ladies he chases after. Therefore women are more prone to cheating than men.
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by sistajay(f): 3:16pm On Oct 31, 2008
@ Codered

You are so right o!
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by Kingsleyinfo(m): 6:30pm On Oct 31, 2008
@sista-jay wat do u mean by she is so right, Everyone knows dat its the duty of the woman to accept a proposal so why do you keep blaming guys for something you permit. If all ladies learn to stick to tiger and be content then guys will have no option than to rest their case
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by arramyjay: 7:01pm On Oct 31, 2008
Men are better cheats than women.
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by Akinagirl(f): 1:20am On Nov 01, 2008
I say its 50/50. Both sexes are phenomenal cheaters.
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by namun(f): 1:26am On Nov 01, 2008
men are the best when it comes to cheating and they would alwys retain their title. apart from that most women stop playing around once they are married while most men continue
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by Kingsleyinfo(m): 6:47am On Nov 01, 2008
@akinagirl thanks for your comment girl both are cheaters and since we don't have gay men in nigeria it's fair to say we are all cheats. As for me making passes or flirting with the opposite sex wether wit intention to cheat or not constitute to the act itself. After all na from clap dem dey enter dance.
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by Gabry(f): 7:20am On Nov 01, 2008
@Poster,

I think it all depends on different individual. Am not sure which sexes cheat more but I can tell you that in my house I have 6 guys living with me and 4 out of 6 cheats. Each almost have like 3 - 7 gf's.
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by sistajay(f): 8:11am On Nov 01, 2008
Kingsleyinfo:

@sista-jay what do u mean by she is so right, Everyone knows that its the duty of the woman to accept a proposal so why do you keep blaming guys for something you permit. If all ladies learn to stick to tiger and be content then guys will have no option than to rest their case


Abeg, why you dey ask me o, I don talk my own finish naw. I gree with the lovely babe  Codered.
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by Kingsleyinfo(m): 11:20am On Nov 01, 2008
@sista-jay no offence intended but i'm just trying to be objective here i've seen virgins tell their guys to wait for marriage before anything only to get pregnant for someone else. What do you call that it not only cheating but also an abomination after all this is africa and every man is entitled to more than one wife (just joking) but the truth is that women are more deceptive in nature. They are like cameleons sleep with three guys and none of them will understand anything like the saying it's when a girl is with you thats when she is your own. guys abi i talk lie?
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by olamex: 11:26am On Nov 01, 2008
otito lo so, that is to say u have good reason in your own way lipsrsealed
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by Nobody: 11:30am On Nov 01, 2008
Goes both ways, you can't just put most of the blame on one sex smiley
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by Kingsleyinfo(m): 8:31pm On Nov 02, 2008
@Ibkaye thats true sorry for lashing out on the ladies but sometimes their sheer indiscretion amazes me. They just play around wit men's heart and hope to get away wit it. And if u even find out their reason u will be amazed at their logic. Personally i don't think cheating is an option for me. It's not economically viable. lots of hide and seek involved. It drains your energy so i think girls cheat more cos they've got more gain materially except them they lose their most valuable possession which is their dignity.
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by GoodGirl2(f): 2:57pm On Nov 03, 2008
CodeRED:

Men are, They lie so much that it has become second nature. And what gives me a good laugh is how they go about doing it.  I mean, acting all smart, yet they leave so many clues, 

I have long learnt to "nod and smile" when a guy promised you he wont ever cheat. Afterall, ONLY a foolish woman believes such vile,  And getting jealous is a waste of energy, when You can gladly get even,

Quite true. Men lie a lot but are so lousy at it. Women have instincts and can detect a cheating man. Men on the other hand always imagine that a woman would never cheat on them. They under-estimate women, and boy, don't women make use of this weakness. I have seen men who think that they were the only men in the lives of their women at the time they are with her. I have met men who never seem to think that a woman can lie to them. How foolish of them! Women  cheat but leave no clue, afterall, a lot of men are so dump, they cannot even pick up any clue.
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by Kingsleyinfo(m): 3:25pm On Nov 03, 2008
@good girl i think that answers my question so ladies cheat more than guys. The next time i see any lady complaining i'd tell her exactly what you've said. Any way as for being dumb let me let u in on guys secret. I'd rather keep enjoying the booty rather than tell a lady that i know she is cheating on my after all and when i'm through wit her i'll just move on after letting her know that i'm aware of her games. That will make her feel guilty in case i wanna hit on her Bottom again it's gonna be a piece of cake. That's just plain psychology. When a lady cheats on me i'm very happy cos that simply means booty for life. Ciao
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by GoodGirl2(f): 3:55pm On Nov 03, 2008
Kingsleyinfo:

@good girl i think that answers my question so ladies cheat more than guys. The next time i see any lady complaining i'd tell her exactly what you've said. Any way as for being dumb let me let u in on guys secret. I'd rather keep enjoying the booty rather than tell a lady that i know she is cheating on my after all and when i'm through wit her i'll just move on after letting her know that i'm aware of her games. That will make her feel guilty in case i want to hit on her Bottom again it's going to be a piece of cake. That's just plain psychology. When a lady cheats on me i'm very happy because that simply means booty for life. Ciao
@Kingsleyinfo, psychology you say? You think letting a woman know that you are aware of her games will make her feel guilty, and that it will be easy to tap her Bottom again? Ha ha! Let me also let you in on a secret. Women have no guilt these days. They learnt a long time ago that being the soft, feminine, good, faithful girl will take them nowhere. They have learnt the art of hardening their hearts and letting you have your way while she has hers. They feel nothing when you dog them because they stopped the "Oh! Am-in-love" kind of bull-poo. They know what they want from a man go for it. They have learnt that life is too short to always be crying over a man who will always think that dogging is his biological birth-right. And please don't wine, they learnt this art from the men. They have only perfected it.
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by Exstar(f): 4:10pm On Nov 03, 2008
@ Post,
i think men are better cheaters. Dont get me wrong,
Females cheat too cool. The proportion is: 80% men shocked, 20% female. cry

@ good girl, Weldone! You've spoken real well. kiss
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by Nobody: 6:03pm On Nov 03, 2008
The happening of today shows that female cheat more that male. though no statistics to back it up i believe we should try to stop this unholy act çus it will totally crumble relationships and will lead to high number of homosexuality.

May God help us
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by Kingsleyinfo(m): 9:50pm On Nov 03, 2008
@talknafree pls tell this ladies o, @good girl thanks for being open minded about all this let me ask you a question has any guy ever cheated on you? Well from time past men have always have the biological right to have more than one woman as long as he can take care of them. The coming of christianity changed it to one man one woman. Since then women have taken it upon themselves to become our watch dog. It's still a fact that no matter how many ladies i sleep with society will never look down no me but if you try to equal my record that becomes your ruin. I laugh at girls who think they can also cheat like the men after all what a man can do a woman can also do better with better consequences for them. So i challenge any lady in the house to beat my record of three different babes in a week. And then come out and boast of it you see you can't because then guys will just call you a LovePeddler and that destroys your dignity. Candy thoughts and good night.
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by namun(f): 10:04pm On Nov 03, 2008
@kingsleyinfo, u must thing that poeple still recognise what they call dignity these day
well, whether it is from time immemorial or not that men have been dogs, is not the point. a man that is a he-goat would always behave like one. apart from that these days married women also cheat, so u think u are smart because ure cheating on ur wife, don't worry u would catch her in bed with ur brest friend giving it to her hot and whose going to feel worse off. at least she did it 2 ur face and if u ask her to lke leave ur house, be very sure she would move 2 a more expensive place u ever lived and continues banging ur friend, ur brother, maybe even ur dad.
later goes ahead and marries in another country!!!!!
she would not even notice u are not around
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by namun(f): 10:07pm On Nov 03, 2008
@goodgirl
u were brilllinat. u hit the nail right where it sticks
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by GoodGirl2(f): 12:38pm On Nov 04, 2008
Kingsleyinfo:

@talknafree please tell this ladies o, @good girl thanks for being open minded about all this let me ask you a question has any guy ever cheated on you? Well from time past men have always have the biological right to have more than one woman as long as he can take care of them. The coming of christianity changed it to one man one woman. Since then women have taken it upon themselves to become our watch dog. It's still a fact that no matter how many ladies i sleep with society will never look down no me but if you try to equal my record that becomes your ruin. I laugh at girls who think they can also cheat like the men after all what a man can do a woman can also do better with better consequences for them. So i challenge any lady in the house to beat my record of three different babes in a week. And then come out and boast of it you see you can't because then guys will just call you a LovePeddler and that destroys your dignity. Candy thoughts and good night.
- If you are a dog, just be it but don't justify it by saying that people in the past had many women. God created Eve to be a helper to Adam. He did not create Suzie, Lucy and Mary to assist Eve in being Adam's woman.
- It's not about competing to see who cheats more. If your record is three different babes in a week, don't boast about it, I don't see a champion, I see an HIV/AIDS-infected man who is on Anti-Retroviral drugs and has become so hopeless because his immunity has gone so low.
- No life of any woman has come to a standstill because guys have called her a LovePeddler. I know of women with very loose morals that are now in their matrimonial homes with their husbands. Some were even pub dancers and some ex-prostitutes. They have their lives; education, jobs, families, children, homes and are OK. If you call her a "LovePeddler", please do so. Her life will go on.
- Kingsleyinfo, don't get me wrong, I am not an advocate of cheating, there is a reason why I call myself "Good Girl". I am one. I just wished I had the guts to be like the women who cheat because they are so strong-minded and most of them know what they want from life.
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by whitelexi(m): 12:55pm On Nov 04, 2008
All these topics just give people like uju the opportunity to come out with their totally sexist opinions about the opposite sex, i just think both men and women cheat and its as simple as that. If u then come into the naija setting, i will agree with u if u said women cheat more because they do tongue
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by Patrick25(m): 1:05pm On Nov 04, 2008
Women are better cheaters than men they lie more often than the men and more so in this present age u have a situation where a woman has so many male friends, from the sugar daddy to the lover boy on compus and they put on different faces making you believe that you are the only person in there life, due to there needs and wants they have different men who satisfy them.
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by soulamanne: 1:23pm On Nov 04, 2008
guys do it to show off thier manhood+girls do it ti get even with guys=EQUAL EQUAL.evrybody na same.GBAM!
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by Ujujoan(f): 4:35pm On Nov 04, 2008
whitelexi:

All these topics just give people like uju the opportunity to come out with their totally sexist opinions about the opposite sex, i just think both men and women cheat and its as simple as that. If u then come into the naija setting, i will agree with u if u said women cheat more because they do tongue

And I'm supposed to be the sexist here
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by Kingsleyinfo(m): 5:26pm On Nov 04, 2008
@good girl the question here is who is more deceptive and it's certainly the ladies. Personally if i choose to cheat that's because i'd love to do it not because ladies are generally bad. But i find ladies lash out on guys especially after suffering from their deceit. But what annoys me is how they go about generalizing the equation. And then they say it's because of my past experience. My point is that ladies who cheat should stop blaming the men as the cause. Everyone has either been lied to deceived or abused by someone they loved. So if you are a lady that cheats carry on if it favours you after all Hiv is not meant for men alone. a lady who is a cheat will always have more to loose than a guy period. Take it or leave it. And whine all you like women are better cheat than men and because they think they can always get away with it they will never change. My dear don't deceive yourself remain the good girl you are or you'll realise that those that cheat wished they never did. Try it and see. Ciao
Re: Cheating: ! Who Is The Better Cheater Or Most Deceitful: ? Male Or Female ? by dhammy(m): 10:58pm On Nov 04, 2008
i can bet ma life dat girls are d most decietful and d best cheats dat hav walked dis beautiful planet.plus,they know and take credit. shocked

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