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Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by latino2swt(m): 4:04pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
The question is HOW SURE ARE YOU THAT SHE IS A VIRGIN? she may turn out 2 b smthin else afta marriage. But if u r truly sure she is one and she is ready 2 remain dat way til after weddin and u knw both of u truly love each oda, WAIT! |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Nobody: 4:09pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MizMyColi: HmmmmphI didn't say that.. So, this young girl, due to misinformation and other societal woes causes her to lose her virginity.So the lying about her virginity is normal, and not manipulating? Whereas a guy that says "If you don't have sex with me you don't love me" is manipulating? Double standards much? Quote me anywhere.I totally agree... Not because you subtly threatened, coerced or manipulated her into it (Oh yeah, I'm that old fashioned).He didn't threaten, coerce or manipulate her-- she was the one deceiving him... Give everyone grace, especially those who are trying to make something good out of the remainder of their lives.Trying to "make something good" by lies and deception-- or as you call it "manipulation"? I guess it's OK for women to do but not men. |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by MizMyColi(f): 4:14pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Apatheist: I didn't say that.. Nooooo You got me wrong there. I didn't reply you based wholly on what you said about the girl. Okay, let's take the babe out of this situation, That's why I said, all things being equal, meaning no lies, no manipulation, just two flawed, yet amazing human beings, who are trying to make the most out of their lives |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by datguru: 4:26pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MabraO: |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Nobody: 4:35pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MizMyColi:OK... |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Ishilove: 4:37pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MadCow1:Why? |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by MizMyColi(f): 4:38pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Apatheist: |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Nobody: 4:40pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MizMyColi: |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by spanzed(m): 4:43pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Do the ryt thing bro...an adage in yoruba said what you would eat and tyre..u shouldn't do dat in a haste..Nkan ti eyan yo je pe ko yi kanju je.. |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by CallMeBIRA(f): 4:43pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
[quote author=MizMyColi]One way I'll know that a man loves me is if he respects my wishes, especially as it pertains my body. I won't rule out the fact that there are ladies out there who have sinister motives when they say "I don't wanna get down just yet" But there are also ladies who have very pure motives and only place an embargo on that area because of the values they've been raised with. For some people, doing anything that upsets their core values could bring about a negative shift in their mental sanity. It could cause undesirable effects to the relationship as a whole. OP, I have described two scenarios above, which do you think suits her best? From the tone of your post, I take it, it's the second one. I know it's not easy, but please respect her wish. Respect her wish because You love her. Respect her wish because You have her best interest at heart. I promise you this, you will not regret. I have this feeling that you think she's a great blessing to you and ordinarily you wouldn't mind, save for other people's experiences & opinion. If you still believe in honour and nobility, then you'll know that whether or not that is what she desires, The right thing to do, if and when we can, is to abstain from sex until marriage. I'm not saying this as an absolute, it's a case of different strokes for different folks. We ought to have power and control over our bodies and emotions, Not the other way round. Let's treat our bodies and that of our partners with the respect that is due them. No one has arrived or apprehended or has it all together on this matter, But then....... Where there is a will, there is a way. [/quote/]GBAM 1 Like |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by MadCow1: 4:44pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Ishilove: Why you dey vex? |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Eyop: 4:45pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
festusfeezy: For quite 8months now we ve been in love seriously, and I met her as a Virgin. she promised to do everything to prove her love for me, but never to loose her virginity till I do the necessary things. Pls nairalanders I need advice. OP how do you know she's a virgin? Have you confirmed this? Sincerely i don't have a problem with a lady claiming she's a virgin and requesting i do the needful before the real show provided you love her. But even if there's no way to confirm this before going ahead with the marital rites,i will believe her word but if after doing the needful,i discover at the end she wasn't a virgin after all,she should also be warming up to return back to her father's house. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Ishilove: 4:45pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MadCow1:Because you too like fhuck |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by MadCow1: 4:46pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Ishilove: But I am a virgin.. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Eyop: 4:48pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Or Ishilove,i talk lie? |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by MizMyColi(f): 4:48pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Eiishhhhh I was trying to remember this adage while writing my first post on this thread spanzed: Do the ryt thing bro...an adage in yoruba said what you would eat and tyre..u shouldn't do dat in a haste..Nkan ti eyan yo je pe ko yi kanju je.. |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by spanzed(m): 5:59pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MizMyColi:lol..mayb B'cos u aren't a yoruba girl |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by MizMyColi(f): 6:00pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Not far from the truth. spanzed: lol..mayb B'cos u aren't a yoruba girl |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by spanzed(m): 6:04pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MizMyColi: |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Ishilove: 6:25pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MadCow1:*chuckle* Yeah right. And I'm Naomi Campbell in disguise |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Ishilove: 6:26pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Eyop: Or Ishilove,i talk lie?Yesss. Big lie |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Eyop: 6:48pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Ishilove:Osaaaaa for you. U just dey deceive ya sef. Me i don talk my own finish. |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by MadCow1: 7:08pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MizMyColi: If he is questioning wether to respect her 'virginity' till marriage, it shows the Nigga is nursing a case of Acute Blue Balls.. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Ryabcool(m): 7:10pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Ishilove:na true he talk. Don't ask why. Just leave it like that. *drops mic and walks out* |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by MizMyColi(f): 7:21pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MadCow1: Should I or I'd go with From his post, seems to me they engage in pre-intimacy, now if that's the case, the "acuteness" isn't peculiar to the guy alone. Ladies have that too, or so I've read (Can't remember the term now) Besides, it's not dangerous to his(their) health. OP, please pay Madcow (eiisshh, that name again) no mind...... Just keep on okay. (No Sarcasm) |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by MadCow1: 8:56pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Did you say 'ABB' isn't detrimental to his health? It's bad for his mental health o! People have died from this you know. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by festusfeezy(m): 9:13pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MizMyColi: One way I'll know that a man loves me is if he respects my wishes, especially as it pertains my body. Nice response, tanks dear , I take to your advice, but my fear is her loosing it to someone else, n thereby diecieving me. Any tanks 1 Like |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by MizMyColi(f): 9:32pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MadCow1: Citing an authentic case would be in order, I think. Or did you mean, "mental death"? |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by MenGoingThereWay: 9:10am On Sep 16, 2014 |
Bro thread with caution, this could be a trap some men have been deceived by this "I am a virgin" epistle. I think if u like to have sex before marriage then fall in love or go for a girl that shares that same idea. -MenGoingThereWay 1 Like |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by TheMyth: 10:07am On Sep 16, 2014 |
Op how old are you and how long would you have to wait if you actually agreed to this If your not gonna get married within the next 5 years (too much self) I fear for your ball sac . |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by lasheez(m): 12:52pm On Sep 16, 2014 |
If you trully love and respect her,wait for her.You will cherish her more. |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by squaddy(m): 6:06pm On Sep 16, 2014 |
Utter CRAP!! Phuck her men!! I can bet a hundred grand that she is not a virgin cuz I've seen this way too many times Why on earth will you chose to listen a lady's advice on an issue as delicate as this?? Especially mizmycoli who is a famous NL feminist The day you discover the ugly truth,she is going to whip up tears as fake as nicki minaj's azz and tell you that she was raped when she was still a teenage girl!!! Don't do this to yourself man,listen to me!!!! 1 Like |
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