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8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by needeeg(m): 9:26pm On Jul 27, 2006 |
1- YOU WILL PROBABLY NOT KNOW YOUR SOUL MATE RIGHT AWAY: - When you do meet you soul mate, you will not know him or her by the fanfare and the rush of hormones, you will only know him or her by a very gentle tug on your heart. Instead of looking for the fanfare, look for that gentle tug and build a friendship without expectation of something more. In time, as the relationship blossoms, when both of you reveal your true selves, you will know. 2- RELATIONSHIP RARELY LOOKS LIKE ROMANTIC MOVIES OR BOOKS: - imaginary people fall in love quickly and live happily ever after. Real people fall into real love slowly and live fully ever after. 3- IT TAKES YEARS TO REALLY GET TO KNOW SOMEONE: - the gift of being human is our complexity. Is it possible to know someone in a week, a mouth, a few dates? Can you reveal all of your complexity in that short amount of time? How long does it take someone to truly know you? 4- GREAT RELATIONSHIP IS COMPLETELY WORTH THE EFFORT: - there is nothing like being in a great relationship. There is nothing like being seen and known by the one you love, and seeing and loving back. What ever you need to go get there, do it. 5- IN SPITE OF LOTS OF BAD RELATIONSHIPS, A GREAT RELATIONSHIP IS POSSIBLE: - it doesn’t matter if you have been “unlucky in love”. All that matters is that you take the steps necessary to build a great relationship. It us essential these be different steps then the ones you have taken in the past. 6- A RELATIONSHIP IS LIKE A LIVING BEING – IT NEEDS LOVE CARING, SPACE, ETC: - people tend to either ignore or smother relationship. In the first case they ignore their partner, thinking that a relationship, once established, will always be there. In the second case they spend every moment with their partner, give and expect undivided attention. If you had a pet, how would it survive under such conditions? 7- YOU DON”T HAVE TO DO YOUR RELATIONSHIPS THE WAY YOUR PARENTS DID THEIRS: - regardless of the models and world view of the previous generations, your life still belongs to you. Choose how you do your relationships, instead of blindly doing or thinking something just because it comes naturally. 8- YOU CAN ONLY HAVE A GRAET RELATIONSHIP WHEN YOU DON”T NEED ONE: - when your life is so wonderful that having a relationship looses is focus is when you will attract the right mate. This is not the same as forcing yourself not to think about relationship or shutting down out of disappointment |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by eveseh(f): 9:28pm On Jul 27, 2006 |
woooow,' coooooooool nice ones |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by luvlymoi(f): 12:47am On Jul 28, 2006 |
niice!!! u dey try o!!! how did u kn all that? |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by kellorah: 12:57am On Jul 28, 2006 |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by Busta(f): 2:43am On Jul 28, 2006 |
right on top! kool |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by Damest09(f): 2:45am On Jul 28, 2006 |
nice and |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by needeeg(m): 3:04pm On Jul 28, 2006 |
luvlymoi:hmmm, well u thing been happening around the globe!! |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by memyself2(f): 3:32pm On Jul 28, 2006 |
needeeg:- i understand all that apart from this, so what if im havin a really wonderful life and attractin a great mate wont make it lose its focus but add to its richness, then i wont attract the great mate, because my life wont lose focus? please explain. |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by kellorah: 4:40pm On Jul 28, 2006 |
lol copy and paste |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by diddy4(m): 5:11pm On Jul 28, 2006 |
nawa for this one ooo. i disagree with some of them but its a nice work though. |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by smartsoft(m): 5:27pm On Jul 28, 2006 |
now this what have been looking for, |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by needeeg(m): 5:35pm On Jul 28, 2006 |
me,myself:i dont think so!! |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by dammy0405(f): 5:44pm On Jul 30, 2006 |
this is really very nice |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by macalurs(m): 3:27am On Dec 29, 2006 |
The reason you can't explain anything like me'myself asked you to is because you're probably not the author. PS your own posts are incoherent. |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by iice(f): 2:25pm On Dec 29, 2006 |
macalurs: LOL, yeah its copied, read that somewhere. But nways its mostly true |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by Nobody: 6:00pm On Dec 29, 2006 |
I dont care If its copied or not all i do care about is the views of the "f 's" not the "m's" in the house(as far as this piece is concerned).They are all very right about the piece.It's cool |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by jerrymania(m): 6:05pm On Dec 29, 2006 |
wetin be all these sef? na novice full here? |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by Busta(f): 6:05pm On Dec 29, 2006 |
jerrymania:lol |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by jerrymania(m): 6:11pm On Dec 29, 2006 |
@ busta U look like a friend of mine! |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by Busta(f): 6:16pm On Dec 29, 2006 |
more like, ur friend looks like me |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by jerrymania(m): 6:21pm On Dec 29, 2006 |
@ busta busta bossy! |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by Busta(f): 6:27pm On Dec 29, 2006 |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by jerrymania(m): 6:32pm On Dec 29, 2006 |
@ busta DO u mind chatting private? i'm on yahoo! |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by Busta(f): 6:36pm On Dec 29, 2006 |
nahh. . .just got msn for now |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by jerrymania(m): 6:41pm On Dec 29, 2006 |
Ok that will do later, anyway i like ur pic. got attracted! |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by edmondo(m): 11:22pm On Dec 29, 2006 |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by macalurs(m): 12:35am On Dec 30, 2006 |
jerrymania: Sounds like someone's ready to get shot @. She's married to a white gangsta mind you. You better learn to put y'lil mam where it fits. yeah. . . white boys do drive-byes too |
Re: 8 Things You Never Know About Relationship by agnesoseka: 8:59am On Mar 22, 2007 |
hmn. |
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