slimjones:
how do you mean I don't have what I seek?

iHustle:

OP, you will do well to ignore the above comment.

Go for what will guarantee your happiness. Love can fade, but the feeling of having what you don't want, the feeling that you are not her first may haunt you for a very long time. And the more you try to suppress that feeling, the more it haunts you.

jmoore:
You are not a virgin. Why bother about her virginity status?

3cycle:
Ok op do well to heed his advice.

Since virginity matters most to you, just end it all with her for your sanity.
Case closed

3cycle:
Congratulation for being smart
Thank God for the girl's life, God just saved her from ending up with a miserable person who might frustrate her in the long run.

Btw I don't think any guy on planet earth deserves any girls virginity, because the guy you are saving it for is somewhere encouraging another girl to go for abortion.

slimjones:
hmmm
abit over the top your comment. But its a free country afteral

3cycle:
Yeah the only time I will be proud to have kept my virginity is if I marry a virgin, if not I will live with regrets...
Was yr husband a virgin or he also persuaded some girls to do series of abortions only to dump them and go for you?
Check you might be suffering from what you don't know.

Lumpyy:
d way u keep goin about abortions ehn......how many times av u done it?please ask God for forgivness and let it go,u shld not v let d man convince u to do it!

kilokeys: slimjones.. concentrate on her good sides... it seems besides nt being a virgin there is nothing more to her.. virginity is overrated. there are many virgins messed up in thier minds.. and many experienced ladies that have defined a course in their lives and world make great wives.

i have a feeling u don't really love this girl

abdulkayus:



And who lied to u that virginity is overrated? Virginity is NEVER overrated.
Virginity is a virtue.
Just cos many ppl seem to be sleeping around doesn’t mean u guys shld disparage dos who tend to keep theirs.
Tear rubber can never to compare to tokumbo.

kilokeys:


i can say so, cos i am a v. and that doesn't make me better than a regular guy or girl.
actions r products of thoughts.. i can assure u my thoughts havent been so pure.

when u say something is overrated it simply means u r overestimating the merits.

its a good thing.. but not strictly required

3cycle:
I'm still a virgin...
Btw I'm Catholic we don't do abortions nor take contraceptives.

Nigerian women have been brainwashed and told that the best gift you can give a man is becoming a virgin while he sleeps with different whores and girls.
That is why men see them as slaves instead of wives tufia
Good for you then+keep it up and goodluck finding d virgin Mr too

jennylove7575: Am a virgin am still looking for someone to open me gently...so is a lot of babes out there Anyway, op
I no grab this ur post at all...but well done for the typing.

Dayhorla: Op,you know the saying"what goes around comes around"so...

mishooo: @Slimjones, the feelings will pass with time. If she's the best you've had, stick with her!!

i was a Vee when i married my wife and she wasn't a Vee. i knew few months into courtship and i still went ahead to marry her. i saw the guy that disvee her and i told him i knew all that happened (cos he was a married man at that time but couldn't marry my wife cos of religious and family issues). He was surprised. My wife is sweet and i couldn't ask for any better person and after 7 yrs of marriage, we are still going strong.

I have a bosom friend that married as a Vee and married another Vee. Their marriage is no more after 3yrs as it was on troubled water from day 1. they are no longer married now.

Ask yourself this question: if she had been a Vee and after wedding turns bad and you discovers she goes after a single neighbour of yours, what will you do??

The most important thing is not the Vee state but the state of mind of the persons involved. If she is sweet as you say, go for her and make sure she cuts ALL contacts with the Ex. If you are sure she will be faithful to you and give you a happy home, that is ALL that matters. In 30yrs time, all those Vee state will no longer make sense at all.

3cycle: !

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