SAMBARRY: you better respect yasef around me and talk to me like a gentleman and not like a tout .thank you.
meanwhile I was never in abakaliki poly or whatever you call it . Having said that you and Shirley need to stop your misdeameanour.you people should behave yourselves like reasonable
adults and if you're married tell her you're married abi ewolode gan

coogar:

maybe polygamous homes where crazy people are shackled together. i have seen plenty of polygamous homes way better than monogamous ones.

stinggy: Sambarry bro, see poly background makes you emotionally stable and independent so early in life. I would rather train my children this way.
Again, being almost the last,i had (still have) so many people to look up to for inspirations and looking to break their records.

Shirley07:
Wetin I do na?
And what does his married situation have to do with me? As long as it doesn't stop the spherical nature of the earth, it ain't my business.

SAMBARRY: children breeded in polygamous homes are always very aggressive and defensive because they are used to an environment where they think everyone is up to something mischievous and so they are always at the defensive. The males don't know how to love or respect women, the females don't know how to respect themselves because they don't know.



No normal right thinking person wants that for their children. Personally I haven't seen a product of polygamy who turned out well. The ones that managed to escape sane and sound know what their mother and even themselves went through so they won't move close to polygamy with a 10 inch pole

SAMBARRY: what will you say before. Anyway I don't have much to say other than if your children's welfare and emotional stability is important to you than srx with numerous women then you will raise them in an environment of less acrimony, chaos and everyday curses but if proving your manhood is more important to you go and ask people like fela anikulapo kuti what killed him or hastened his death and tore his family to pieces

SAMBARRY: children breeded in polygamous homes are always very aggressive and defensive because they are used to an environment where they think everyone is up to something mischievous and so they are always at the defensive. The males don't know how to love or respect women, the females don't know how to respect themselves because they don't know.



No normal right thinking person wants that for their children. Personally I haven't seen a product of polygamy who turned out well. The ones that managed to escape sane and sound know what their mother and even themselves went through so they won't move close to polygamy with a 10 inch pole

SAMBARRY: children breeded in polygamous homes are always very aggressive and defensive because they are used to an environment where they think everyone is up to something mischievous and so they are always at the defensive. The males don't know how to love or respect women, the females don't know how to respect themselves because they don't know.



No normal right thinking person wants that for their children. Personally I haven't seen a product of polygamy who turned out well. The ones that managed to escape sane and sound know what their mother and even themselves went through so they won't move close to polygamy with a 10 inch pole

logicboy01: Top lies used to promote polygamy;


1) It stops cheating
FALSE! If a man can cheat on one wife, what stops him from cheating on 2 or 3 or 4??


2) Allows for more children and also better in case of infertility
FALSE
-a man with four wives will have no children if the man is infertile
-just as a man can marry another wife to get children in polygamy one too can divorce his barren wife and marry a fertile one. Unfair but true
-Sensible societies have 2-3 or 2-4 children on average. Very easy for a fertile woman to have at least 2 children


3) More resources/income if all the wives plus husband earn money
HALF TRUE
There are more mouths to feed, so there is little difference.


4) More people get married if polygamy is allowed in the society
HALF TRUE
More women can potentially be married but it means less women for men to marry.
If every man married 4 wives, there needs to be a ratio of 4-1 in women to men.




Polygamy has no single advantage over monogamy. Not even one.
Cheaters will cheat!!!

SAMBARRY: children breeded in polygamous homes are always very aggressive and defensive because they are used to an environment where they think everyone is up to something mischievous and so they are always at the defensive. The males don't know how to love or respect women, the females don't know how to respect themselves because they don't know.



No normal right thinking person wants that for their children. Personally I haven't seen a product of polygamy who turned out well. The ones that managed to escape sane and sound know what their mother and even themselves went through so they won't move close to polygamy with a 10 inch pole

sexybash:
I can't believe that some people click like to make you feel better
This is what I call stereotypes at it peak
Polygamous children never turn out well?
Your statement left me gobsmacked -

sexybash:
I can't believe that some people click like to make you feel better
This is what I call stereotypes at it peak
Polygamous children never turn out well?
Your statement left me gobsmacked -

logicboy01:


Honestly, he was stereotyping. Good children come out of polygamous homes at times.


However, I detest polygamy with a passion. It is barbaric and anti-woman. A man is worth 2 or more women?


Polygamy has no single advantage over monogamy. Not even one.

maclatunji:

In Yoruba we say "O n jabo". Note, I am from a monogamous home.

But Sambarry is still #Jaboing

tintingz: anti-woman you said?

what will you say about women that chose/prefer to be in a polygamy marriage.

logicboy01:


Note that freedom comes with a paradox.

Slavery is wrong. Freedom is a human right.
Unfortunately, this means that a free man can use his freedom of choice to voluntarily be a slave.

A woman can chose to be in an abusive relationship.

tintingz: Since you said it is a "choice".

How is polygamy anti-woman?

You still haven't answer the question...

What will you say to the women that prefer polygamy?

why do we see women marrying an already married man, I'm talking about the second, third, forth wives.

lets use logic as you claim to be.

logicboy01:


You have shown how you dont understand simple English and reasoning


If a woman chooses to do something "anti-feminine" does it stop being anti-feminine?

tintingz: Lol, please stop going by that moniker.

Because you don't like polygamy marriage settings makes it anti-feminine?

There are women marrying multiple husbands, is it also anti-men?

These men chose to be in polyandry marriage setting, it is there choice.

what other people like it is not a must you like it.

because they benefit from it.

tintingz: Since you said it is a "choice".

How is polygamy anti-woman?

You still haven't answer the question...

What will you say to the women that prefer polygamy?

why do we see women marrying an already married man, I'm talking about the second, third, forth wives.

lets use logic as you claim to be.

ayinba1:
Take his name to mean "illogical". Trust me.. you'll find out shortly.

ayinba1:
Take his name to mean "illogical". Trust me.. you'll find out shortly.

coogar:

never read anything more stüpid in my life. on which planet is polygamy anti-women? the irony is the username like you quickly observed. logicboy? he should be called doofus-boy.

logicboy01:
Why not ask why I said it is anti-woman
You people just abuse without looking at the logic behind someone's statements.

It is anti-woman because it inherently posits that a man is equal to two or more women.

I wonder, are you guys not the same people that complain about islamic courts making the testimony of one man equal to that of two women?? Yet, you find it okay to put the union in equality (marriage is 50/50 the woman gets half and the man gets half) in polygamy as one man to two women or more?

Jesus christ!! some people and hypocrisy

coogar:

that's because you are chatting nonsense....



you are the one that contrived to pull the above out of your rectum. so all the women that willingly spread their legs for 2face & had his babies were forced to do so? didn't they know about the other women in his life?

you must be joking......



life is about choices & that's exactly what feminism has been fighting for. if a woman wants monogamy, it's her choice. if she prefers polygamy, it's her prerogative. she's not forced into it. if it's uncomfortable for her, why marry a man with 3 wives & then turn around and claim to be a victim?



my $5 says you don't know the meaning of the word hypocrisy. you are just letting out hot air. if a woman walks freely into a polygamous setting then it's none of your business.

logicboy01:
Note that freedom comes with a paradox.
Slavery is wrong. Freedom is a human right.
Unfortunately, this means that a free man can use his freedom of choice to voluntarily be a slave.
A woman can chose to be in an abusive relationship.

logicboy01:



You see your foolishness?

No one is arguing that a woman cant choose to be in a polygamous marriage!!


The argument here is that polygamy is a wrong and anti-woman choice. Here is my argument again (please, read before you criticise)




Feminism is not fighting for polygamy or illogical choices. It is fighting for gender equality and women's rights or freedom. What an individual woman chooses to do with her freedom is her own choice. If she chooses to be in a polygamous marriage in an advanced society, she will face the legal consequences.



Guy, thanks for exposing how you have been the illogical one.



Again- polygamy is a wrong choice. A man is not equal to two or more women. It is not surprising that the societies that allow polygamy are usually backwards and patriarchal socieities.

Take the top ten advanced countries or the top ten woman-friendly countries; none of them allow polygamy. CASE CLOSED!

papiforreal:

That is when you are arguing but not coogar.

logicboy01:
You see your foolishness?
No one is arguing that a woman cant choose to be in a polygamous marriage!!

The argument here is that polygamy is a wrong and anti-woman choice. Here is my argument again (please, read before you criticise)

Feminism is not fighting for polygamy or illogical choices. It is fighting for gender equality and women's rights or freedom. What an individual woman chooses to do with her freedom is her own choice. If she chooses to be in a polygamous marriage in an advanced society, she will face the legal consequences.

Guy, thanks for exposing how you have been the illogical one.

Again- polygamy is a wrong choice. A man is not equal to two or more women. It is not surprising that the societies that allow polygamy are usually backwards and patriarchal socieities.

Take the top ten advanced countries or the top ten woman-friendly countries; none of them allow polygamy. CASE CLOSED!

coogar:

there are polygamous families in britain!
and the only thing you should close is your stupid mouth that has shytë falling from it. if you cannot grasp the concept of polygamy, you should excuse yourself & scram out of here.

coogar:

so what's your argument?



you are a consummate rëtard!
who determines what's right from what's wrong? wrong in whose eyes? even the jewish tradition allowed polygamy until the romans occupied israel.



which legal consequences? aren't there polygamous wives in america? aren't there polygamous wives married to one man in britain? your lack of exposure is your biggest challenge, not polygamy!



you are a rank idïot!
being someone's 2nd wife is equivalent to being a slave? you are a disgrace to formal education. if you pull up slither daft analogy in the middle of an intelligent discourse like this again, i will tear you apart.



UAE, kuwait, saudi arabia, etc allow polygamy and are better than any country you can pull out in the west. what has polygamy gotta do with the backwardness of a society?



there are polygamous families in britain!
and the only thing you should close is your stupid mouth that has shytë falling from it. if you cannot grasp the concept of polygamy, you should excuse yourself & scram out of here.

BABE3:
In this day and age where more women are getting comfortable with being "side chics" and baby mamas, I wonder why polygamy is causing this much debate. Aren't those concepts similar to polygamy?


Polygamy is all about choices; a choice for the man to acquire more wives; a choice for the first wife to get a divorce if she's not pleased, and a choice for the other wives to embrace polygamy.

logicboy01:
Logic, reasoning and effectiveness determines whether something is right or wrong. Biblical Jewish tradition was barbaric, so no need to reference them

Bigamy is the act or condition of a person marrying another person while still being lawfully married to another spouse. It is illegal in the United States. The crime is punishable by a fine, imprisonment, or both, according to the law of the individual state and the circumstances of the offense.[4]
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polygamy_in_North_America#Legality_of_polygamy_in_North_America

It was an analogy as you rightly noted. Being in a polygamous marriage as a woman doenst make the woman a slave. I was only showing you how someone can choose something bad for themselves (a freeman choosing to be a slave). Furthermore, any woman in a polygamy has a slave-like mentality (not that this is different from being an actual slave). Any woman with dignity would not choose to be shared like a toy at the whims of a man. However, some are forced into such marriage and feel chained in bondage to their situation. (eg poor women who need the financial security).

Saudi Arabia, UAE and Kuwait are better than western countries? Wow, you are indeed very very very local and ignorant. Please google the human development index and see how advanced countries rank. Saudi doesnt allow women to drive. grin grin

FALSE. Polygamy is illegal in the UK. The law does not recognize such marriage. Try filling "married" in your tax forms as a second wife and see what happens