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Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by Junipero: 4:57pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
bro... I think you just brought about a new strategy. Visit Restaurants/Catering Joints, pair up with one of the workers with whom I compatibly share equal interests and views. Take her to my folks. Wife the f#*k outta her. And yeah, everyone is happy. shymexx: |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by dondo83(m): 4:57pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
nonsense! gender equality that is never adopted when paying bills... if you want to be fully "western" as it is claimed then nija gals should not "expect" from there men . All I see in this country is double standard , he clothes you, feeds your family, gives you pocket money and you expect him not to treat you like a slave? I rest my case quote author=Danhumprey] I give up! Feminism won't let some people reason sensibly. It's all about gender equality.[/quote] |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by WoodcrestMayor(m): 4:57pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
So wat do u gain from your husband since u seem so independent. I don't knw where u reside but here in Nigeria,men give their wives money even if it means going out of their way to do so.Doesn't mean d money is enuff to take care of dem but it has to be done. BananaBender: |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by Nobody: 4:58pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
WoodcrestMayor: If @ bolded can happen btw a bachelor and a restaurant,I can only imagine wat would happen btw a family man and a mistress Yes, bruddah. Once or twice a week. The urge to eat the food/taste you were raised with is always there. And most times, I can't be ar.sed to travel all the way down to my mum's house. So, what's better than checking-into the nearest place that I can get it? And overtime, I've developed a family-like connection with these women, and they treat me like their son. That just shows you the power of good food. White people don't even cook like that. They probably cook like black people do like a few times a year (xmas, easter, celebrations, and birthdays). More time it's about oven and microwave foods. And anyone can do that. Evidently, I honestly don't understand the feminist viewpoint in this, to be honest. It's not even an "us" vs. "them" thing - just basically chics who weren't raised right by their black mothers. Lazy and scandalous women. |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by Acidosis(m): 4:58pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Some women have also imposed the wifey & kitchen duty on their younger sisters, leaving only bedmatics from 3rd parties. I can only wish y'all good luck in ya respective polygamous nuclear families |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by Misogynist2014(m): 4:59pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
destante: keep your sweet hell sir, I'll passI'm just as young as you are. I just need a lady or two(I dream of having 5) to follow me to my paradise in hell, a place of no return!!! |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by butanep(m): 4:59pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
mamateniola1: Op, are you aware the chef that just got a national award in Abuja is a man like you? Am not sure you know otherwise this topic shouldn't comr from any man at this time!! Gosh some men still live in the wilderness-in the day's of old. Smhit's also a disappointment to the women folks, that a Man is a presidential chef where thousands of women are... that is to tell you women knows nothing about the kitchen... |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by yungmill(m): 5:01pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
BananaBender: I never said providing and protecting is solely a man's job neither did I say cooking is meant only 4 girls, if u read my first post u would see that. My mom raised us all to do the chores and cook or pls did u cook 4 me during my university years? If a woman can't cook how will she teach her kids, and pls don't use civilization as an excuse when or how does cooking makes a woman a slave? It is common knowledge that men work longer hours so its usually the woman that gets home earlier and cooks, pls change ur mentality we in africa only copy bad things in d name of civilization if ones daughter brings home a lady like her as a sole mate will she accep it? |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by Caracta(f): 5:02pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
I'm late...again. Just when I thought I've heard it all. Smh. |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by WoodcrestMayor(m): 5:04pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Smh... Itz sad dat many of dem just jumped on d feminism bandwagon...u knw d "do sometin crazy/outstanding if u want to be noticed" saying. Civilization and education doesn't preach non-application of common sense. shymexx: |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by Mintayo(m): 5:04pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
I pray my wife won't end up coming to NL,i hope she won't even be a NLder,some comments i read here from some ladies is so scary...smh again. This generation is producing "not so good youths." Gone are the days when our gmamas enjoying cooking for their husbands but today? Smh again. The Op is right,how will you call yourself a woman and you won't be able to cook? What kinda training do you want to give your kids? Leave it or take it,this is one of the stuffs that leads to divorce! |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by GlorifiedTunde(m): 5:07pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
BananaBender: Now your argument is getting more logical. No one says you can't do some of those things a.man can do, all in saying is let me be the husband and you be the wife. If you say there are no roles, you decieve yourself, even a white womanknows tthere are roles. Many of them are now turning things upside down, it doesn't mean the roles don't exist. It didn't start just now, its been from ages. I know there are rooms for cross-roles, definitely. I will love to cook for my wife as many times as I can, but that doesn't mean its not primarily her role to play. In the same vein a lady may be good with many manly duties, like my chic - she'll drive you if you turn to a truck, she jumpstarts a car and changes the spare all by herself until I met her. Had to tell her to act the lady. But I'm so happy she can do these things. But I'm still the man, and I'm responsible for those roles except I'm not around to do them. You must know marriage is an institution and it begins with proper structuring such as role assignment. And as for my female kids, they'll get the best of education and support as the male kids, they all know they can be anything they want to be and No man should oppress them. However, when they get married they must know the husband is the head of the home (not a ruler). So they learn to make great choices of a man who will.lead rather than dominate. But I'll make them know they have roles as wives. When I talked about hardship, I didn't mean suffering. I have 3 lovely sisters but my dad wasn't easy on me at all. I now know why he did that. I had to man up. Understand there are roles by default and then agreement. Stop jumbo Mumbo-Jumbo - ing everything 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by needful: 5:08pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Any woman who does not know how to cook is irresponsible abi?. This is the reason why I hate most of this Nigerian men. What about men who does not have money?, those men who can't feed their families. If u can't marry a woman who doesn't know how to cook, it's as good as advising ladies not to Marry a man who does not have money. Going by responsibilities at homes, is it a woman's right to feed and provide for the home financially. If a woman can do all this knowing fully well that it's a man's responsibility, then a man should know how to cook for the family. 5 Likes |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by MhisIjay(f): 5:09pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
moca: I cant even date a man that dont know how to cook not to talk of marriage.Seconded Thirded Fourthed Fifthed |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by drnoel: 5:09pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
butanep: Any woman that can't cook is highly irresponsible and not also fit to be called a woman. It is part of the responsibility of a woman to learn how to cook as she is growing up either from her mother or foster-mother. Who made u the judge and jury? 1 Like |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by destante(f): 5:10pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Misogynist2014: I'm just as young as you are. I just need a lady or two(I dream of having 5) to follow me to my paradise in hell, a place of no return!!!go get the ladies then, or is anyone stopping your "dreams"? |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by WoodcrestMayor(m): 5:12pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Mscheewwww...let her be forming miss independent. The generation of guys we av now are very unlikely to run the home d way our their fathers did-authoritarian manner. There's likely not going to be d old skool kneeling b4 puTting food on d table.A man is most likely gonna reason wit his wife if she says she can't cook due to fatigue and I can go on wit d list of compromise we are ready to reach but still....Doesn't mean respect wuld be thrown to d dogs.U don't av to act like a soldier to gain d respect of your wife and your wife doesn't need to act like a slave to show respect. What dey(feminists) want,I will neva understand. Misogynist2014: Don't mind that bonehead called BananaBender, she seems deluded and compares herself with white women, which factory was your great grand father working in, in 1800's. Women are so deluded and stupïd that it is only a baby that can understand their tiny heads. |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by Acidosis(m): 5:13pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
needful: Any woman who does not know how to cook is irresponsible abi?. This is the reason why I hate most of this Nigerian men. What about men who does not have money?, those men who can't feed their families. If u can't marry a woman who doesn't know how to cook, it's as good as advising ladies not to Marry a man who does not have money. Going by responsibilities at homes, is it a woman's right to feed and provide for the home financially. If a woman can do all this knowing fully well that it's a man's responsibility, then a man should know how to cook for the family.slowly madam Good food does not require millions. Prudence is another topic for another day. |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by AdeniyiA(m): 5:15pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Any lady who can't cook clearly shows she wasn't 'cooked' and so not fit being a wife material. You don't just start learning how to shoot at the battleground ... |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by Nobody: 5:15pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
shymexx: BananaBender the sholly Lol. I'm not saying the man should do ALL the cooking. Of course not. I'm just stating that it can be a shared responsibility, just like a wife could, sometimes, take the car to the mechanic workshop. 1 Like |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by yungmill(m): 5:15pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
GlorifiedTunde: God bless u bro exactly what they don't get, no one is saying a girl must be this and a guy must be that, but everyone has a role to play and needs to learn the necessary skills to carry them out boys though they (boys and girls) have to acquire skills regarding both roles that doesn't mean a man will continually play both his role and dat of his partner Is common sense this uncommon? 2 Likes |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by butanep(m): 5:15pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
drnoel:I guess you are one of those that can't even boil water let alone cook food... |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by GlorifiedTunde(m): 5:16pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
needful: Any woman who does not know how to cook is irresponsible abi?. This is the reason why I hate most of this Nigerian men. What about men who does not have money?, those men who can't feed their families. If u can't marry a woman who doesn't know how to cook, it's as good as advising ladies not to Marry a man who does not have money. Going by responsibilities at homes, is it a woman's right to feed and provide for the home financially. If a woman can do all this knowing fully well that it's a man's responsibility, then a man should know how to cook for the family. He is also irresponsible if he sits down doing nothing about it. If he had no money before you married him and he's not hustling, then you made the mistake of marrying a lazy man. Its a different thing if he lost his job or business after marriage but all the same he should not sit at home waiting for his wife to bring money home. 1 Like |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by Nobody: 5:17pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
CFCfan: Nah, you agreed with the scandalous women like sholly. Don't twist it now. And what happens if the guy never had the opportunity to learn like all his female siblings? He has to suffer for what the society created, due to the new disorderly box these noisemakers are trying to create? |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by Nobody: 5:18pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
BananaBender: So, how are you going to change it, and to fit into which box? The western world? Well, white folks don't cook - and they most live on oven and microwave food. I guess itmight be applicable to them And I can make all those with ease. Most people can also do that. Then what? - create a fictitious new world that only exist in your own head, and that of your lazy and scandalous ilk? Oh, let's change "patriarchy" - how about change women's body anatomy as well? Certain things are just meant to be the way they're, and it's more or less like a natural way of assigning roles. Somewhat like division of labour, and team sport - where people do things based on their skills set. This isn't about inequality - it's about dividing roles. And no one is trying to make you slaves, it's about using your skills set to complement others, thus creating something unique and blissful. Let me just buttress my point by throwing the race thing in there. For example: black males always grow up to be more gifted physically (athleticism) than other races. So, can we say because this makes them dominate certain contact sports - we've to look for ways to change that? - hell no! Some things are just meant to be the way they're. Changing it will just mess up the value/quality that comes with it. Go learn how to cook and stop spouting tripe everywhere, man! Anyway, everywhere I've been all my life - the overwhelming majority of the cooks there are always women. Black, white, Asian, Latino etc.. So, that's telling, and women are most likely more inclined to be better cooks than men. LEARN HOW TO COOK, SHOLLY!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by drnoel: 5:19pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
butanep: I guess you are one of those that can't even boil water let alone cook food... U would know won't u. U empty vessel making the most noise. |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by samplegirl(f): 5:21pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
butanep: Any woman that can't cook is highly irresponsible and not also fit to be called a woman. It is part of the responsibility of a woman to learn how to cook as she is growing up either from her mother or foster-mother. Science has proved that sick head always produce sick reasoning so I am not taken aback in any way. |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by Nobody: 5:21pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
WoodcrestMayor: Don't twist dis...nobody said women shld be tied to d kitchen.man n woman. :-/ |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by GlorifiedTunde(m): 5:22pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
What puzzles me is how many times do u see threads talking about manly roles and you'll see many guys trying to push these roles to the ladies 3 Likes |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by WoodcrestMayor(m): 5:23pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
If dat u were sincere wit dat answer,all I can wish u is a happy family. #Bye xoxogirl: man n woman. :-/ |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by Misogynist2014(m): 5:23pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
WoodcrestMayor: Mscheewwww...let her be forming miss independent.You have really disappointed me by saying you don't know what they want, or maybe you are scared of saying it.you. All they want is AUTHORITY!!! |
Re: Any Woman That Can't Cook Is Highly Irresponsible. by homesteady(m): 5:25pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
I've watched many American movies where girls use to be ashamed to say they can't cook! and I guess America is the 'peak of civilisation' [size=55] SO WHERE THE HELL IS THIS NONSENSE OF 'GIRLS MUST NOT KNOW HOW TO COOK' COMING FROM?? [/size] sorry for the large fonts, I was just screaming |
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