GlorifiedTunde:

Well that's OK. I'm assuming you'll bring in the most income, drive his car to the mechanics for repair, wash all the cars in the house, be responsible for where he and the kids will live, security, bring out money every now and then, buy gifts for him as often as you can even though your shirts are torn, walk through the entire city trying to make things better for the family, stand to take insults and external threats at the family, lead the entire family without making foolish mistakes, drive him every time you both have to go out, be the one to get, negotiate and monitor all physically stressful tasks done by artisans, stand on the watch at night when there's robbery in the neighborhood, stand in the way of anyone trying to harm him or the kids, open all tight locks in the house because no one else could , worry about work, worry about money caring for both in laws, worry about the income coming in to better the lives in the family, worry about getting the best schools and paying the fees, worry about satisfying a naggy partner and be the one to satisfy him in bed...

Have you ever heard to be a man is not a day job? Well good news for you, if you want to be equated as me....

Fly back to the time you were born and experience my hard and thorough upbringing till date, and make sure u come out of the challenges alive. Please bring a d*ck along else...

SHUT THE HELL UP AND GET YOUR BUTT IN THE KITCHEN

destante: benromeo39 you should stop picking on that lady

Misogynist2014: God bless you! I wish to marry someone like carefreewannabe, I really wish .

destante: Ops post jes reeks of nauseating hypocrisy.

WoodcrestMayor: Well worded...

D picture of equality most of them av in their heads will neva happen.

I don't blame some of these girls.I blame the guys lying to dem(I don't blame dem too).The guys make it seem as tho dey don't care abt culinary skills.Wen itz time to settle down,dey look for a proper girl(400yrds wife material).By den,d girls woulda been approaching 27,28 and desperation sets in.

Itz d same tin dat happens to d so called fine girls.We see our older cousins wit fine chics in those days and wen itz time for marriage,dey walk down d aisle wit sum1 not as fine and we wonder-why nau

Guys would remain guys.They can play around and catch fun but be not decieved;wen itz time to settle down,we pick based on qualities.

BananaBender:

You are the one that needs to get out of that cave you live in? Is this the 1800s??

Women were already working in the corporate world in the early 1900s. In fact, I'm sure we were working as factory workers in the late 1800s.

Where do you live that your women don't work? After all the slaving in school, I will sit at home to do what??

I am not a baby, I have been paying my bills before I got married, I would not allow marriage change that.

BananaBender: @op: I agree with you.

Any man that cannot cook is also very irresponsible and not fit to be a man.

It is part of the responsibility of a man to learn how to cook as he is growing up either from his mother or his father. So when a man fails to acquire the cooking skills as he is growing up, he has failed in his responsibility and therefore not responsible because he might end up producing children that are also irresponsible.

I get angry when with the statement " Women should teach their husbands that don't know how to cook". That is ridiculous! If a man don't know how to prepare a particular food the woman likes very much, that's a different case but to say he don't know how to cook... he is worth nothing, because he has wasted over 10 to 15 years to learn part of his responsibility...

A man that can't cook clearly shows, he never assisted his father in the kitchen or his father don't know how to cook. That man shouldn't be taken seriously because he will bring up children that are irresponsible as well.

geophyscist: opkonu!!!

GlorifiedTunde:

Well that's OK. I'm assuming you'll bring in the most income, drive his car to the mechanics for repair, wash all the cars in the house, be responsible for where he and the kids will live, security, bring out money every now and then, buy gifts for him as often as you can even though your shirts are torn, walk through the entire city trying to make things better for the family, stand to take insults and external threats at the family, lead the entire family without making foolish mistakes, drive him every time you both have to go out, be the one to get, negotiate and monitor all physically stressful tasks done by artisans, stand on the watch at night when there's robbery in the neighborhood, stand in the way of anyone trying to harm him or the kids, open all tight locks in the house because no one else could , worry about work, worry about money caring for both in laws, worry about the income coming in to better the lives in the family, worry about getting the best schools and paying the fees, worry about satisfying a naggy partner and be the one to satisfy him in bed...

Have you ever heard to be a man is not a day job? Well good news for you, if you want to be equated as me....

Fly back to the time you were born and experience my hard and thorough upbringing till date, and make sure u come out of the challenges alive. Please bring a d*ck along else...

SHUT THE HELL UP AND GET YOUR BUTT IN THE KITCHEN

carefreewannabe:

I live in Germany so I have gender-equality without having even fought for it.

Now it's time for my beautiful Nigerian sisters to enjoy it too.

You would benefit more from gender equality than lose from it and one day you will understand it, hopefully.

Nobleval:

WoodcrestMayor:
No sane man wants a woman who sits @ home either.


Are u saying u reject "upkeep" money from your husband?

Misogynist2014: Marry me! And I will make you taste how sweet hell is.

shymexx:

I've got a restaurant where I get food from every weekend - and I love the women in there to death because the food is magical. Shyte, I just go in there to crack jokes with them - and chat about all kinds of things. Heck, they now give me discount.

They honestly don't know being a good cook actually takes their ratings to stratosphere. Food is very important!

xp17: depending on your definition of gender equality. if you re referring to showing no gender disparity in holding public positions, that you are right, but if you are talking about it from a family point of view , you are wrong madam. a man is the head of a family, even Chancellor, Angela Merkel of your so-called Germany would agree with me on this. don't mind those things you see on the television or listen on the radio, they are all lies. feminism ll only make you to to be fvcked by an enormous enumerated number of men, just like the Kardashians, no one man ll accept this bullshitt, hence multiple marriages.

Michelle Obama ll only talk it on air, meanwhile, she does her home work with much joy, follows her husband like a zombie where ever he goes, but listeners like you who don't know the rules of the game are used as scapegoats. hope you remembered how Hilary Clinton covered up for her husband, during the saga of her husband and his secretary? the same Hilary vying for presidency.
even the ex dutch queen, Beatrix had to resign for her son to pick up the mantle, because she knows the rules of the game.

see dear, women are no lesser gender though, but in family settings, I'll give it to men, anytime anyday to head it. forget about whether 15th or 21st century, men are men and women are women, and they both have their roles in the family.

the leading cause of obesity , using Germany as a case study, is as a result of women aparty from the kitchen, and substituting it to fast food. modern kids are becoming vincible and susceptible to the slightest ailment, and medical bills skyrocketing, because someone is fighting a mirage and putting the kids lives in the line to achieve uncertainty.
you don't need to go into a marriage to "fight" , just make yourself available to be respected by your man, trust me, you will earn back x2 every respect you put into your marriage.

sorry to burst this little secret about jonathan, he eats food made by his wife and oga jona doesn't have access to his wife's kitchen. make we stop all these incessant dogmatic battle, it would only make rooms for broken homes and increases the violent rate, because kids from such homes are most likely to notorious in mischievous acts.

anyways, it's none of my business

yungmill:
Who said anything about women working or not working? So because a woman is a cooperate lady she won't cook 4 her family, how will you feel if your husband wakes up one day and says since you are a cooperate lady that he won't be carrying out his duty of protecting and providing for his family how will you feel, am totally disappointed in you, you totally don't know a thing about marriage

For the record you are not the only cooperate lady my mom balanced her work and family, so don't blame ur short comings on work, like u said u aint a kid

Wahala90: Surprised that some women are crying over this. You mean you don't know how to cook? Goooosh.

ireneidiva: These men were raised in the bush or what? Of all the problems in this world, this trivality is giving you guys sleepless nights? Jeez!

WoodcrestMayor:
No sane man wants a woman who sits @ home either.


Are u saying u reject "upkeep" money from your husband?

shymexx:

Utter tosh!
Blimey - you keep twisting everything to suit your vacuous ideology, and the inane world we live in today, where everything is judged based on idiocy, and political correctness. A world where being human is unacceptable to sociopaths, and we all have to live in a disorderly box created by noisemakers, who view everything with a jaundiced eye.

Well, you can't blame my mum. She raised Kings and Queens. And she understood the need to prioritise what should be done in the house based on societal standards for both sexes, and what male and female children have a natural instinct to be better at - while still maintaining the core values.

Well, she taught me how to fend for myself - and you can't instill that in anyone better than using errands as a catalyst. Hence I'm great at making bargains - and I'm also a great hustler.