I dont know what else to say Men! so difficult yet we can't do without you

Sauron, It is true, but not all women are like that

Monicaa:

Sauron, It is true, but not all women are like that

I agree. . . . .All women can't be that way.

~Sauron~:

I just put it down as women being too emotional. . . . . .Everything is "Oh ma Gosh"!!!
With such in the hearts of men. . . . .They are happy to keep their mind-boggling issues within themselves.

Not all men are like that. It depends on who they are with.

chika98:

Not all men are like that. It depends on who they are with.

Of course, not all men are like that cos some men are women themselves.

~Sauron~:

Of course, not all men are like that because some men are women themselves.

So true!! And add babies to that as well. Gawd! Men are so simple and complicated to deal with at the same time.

chika98:

So true!! And add babies to that as well. Gawd! Men are so simple and complicated to deal with at the same time.

Babies?? Errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrm, not exactly.
Don't disrespect!!!

~Sauron~:

Babies?? Errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrm, not exactly.
Don't disrespect!!!

Lol. Yeah you lot do act like babies but we love you all the same.

chika98:

Lol. Yeah you lot do act like babies but we love you all the same.

Y'all don't seem to have a choice, do ya??

~Sauron~:

Y'all don't seem to have a choice, do ya??

No and the same goes to y'all as well.

chika98:

No and the same goes to y'all as well.

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!
I agree but it's difficult to swallow.

Now pls tell me what to do. For a week, I haven't heard from him which is unlike him cos I decided to give him space to sort his problems like y'all suggested even though the last time we spoke, he apologised for making me feel any way n left out from his poroblems that I shouldn't give up on him. The problem isn't even him calling me yet but online n facebook, which he is everyday, that last time we spoke, he hasn't been online till present as I write. I am so worried.
I disguised myself as another person on his facebook just to know when he's around for a long time n it helped me know when he's around n so on. He hasn't been, where he used to hang out, even his friends haven't seen him. I am so worried that something has happened to him or was he thrown out of his house or what? I don't want to call as y'all suggested to sort himself out n i dont want to just show up at his house u know. How do I know if something hasn't happened to him.

What do I do? Do i just call him?

Monicaa how long have u guys been dating? And also how far have u gone with the relationship? And lastly do u feel incomplete or helpless now that he refuse to acknowledge ur presence

There's a saying that:  "Men are like rubberbands and women are like waves"

This means that when men feel stressed, they will pull away like a rubberband.  The more a woman tries to get him to bounce back by talking things out, the more he will stretch his rubberband.

The best thing to do is to focus on yourself when he goes through his rubberband phase.  Do things that make you happy.  By focusing on yourself, this sends a signal that you do not depend on him for your happiness. He will appreciate the effort.

Men also tend to compartmentalize.  If he is in his business room, it will be difficult to get him to come in the romance room with you.  They tend to focus on one thing at a time.   Women, on the other hand, can focus on more than one thing at a time.  We are better at multi-tasking.

So just leave him be, he will come around.

to me,personally,men are bunch of shit, i dnt care anymore,if he likes,he share his problems hence i make myself busy for a while until he is through.its lots better and relieving that way,than complicating issues in bid of trying to inquire from him,

LoveAlways:

There's a saying that:  "Men are like rubberbands and women are like waves"

This means that when men feel stressed, they will pull away like a rubberband.  The more a woman tries to get him to bounce back by talking things out, the more he will stretch his rubberband.

The best thing to do is to focus on yourself when he goes through his rubberband phase.  Do things that make you happy.  By focusing on yourself, this sends a signal that you do not depend on him for your happiness. He will appreciate the effort.

Men also tend to compartmentalize.  If he is in his business room, it will be difficult to get him to come in the romance room with you.  They tend to focus on one thing at a time.   Women, on the other hand, can focus on more than one thing at a time.  We are better at multi-tasking.

So just leave him be, he will come around.

MMMMMMM ARE YOU A SHEHE? HOW DID YOU KNOW THIS?

Its a guy thing, we dont expect y'alls to understand anyways

To me,if there's true Love,I see no reasons why I can't share whatever predicaments am going through with my wife/GF.The only reason why I won't do that is when I know she is there for the money like the ex bitch I used to have.I know when she sees me like that and ask those foolish questions,she's only pretending to care and I know she doesn't . Of course I don't wanna be asked by a BITCH what am going through cos I know she can't do nothing than pretend.