ronald4lif: The reasons we have sex before marriage are but not limited to :

1. Sex is good, sweet and healthy
2. Sex is a natural calling that both genders love and crave for
3. Many couples who never had sex prior to taking marital vows ended up with various complains of either he/she is not good in bed, he/she is boring and he doesn't have erection/one minute man (note that women of nowadays also wants to be sure of the sexual compatibility of their men before having this sacred life commitment)
4. When a guy doesn't have sex with his babe, experience has it that she easily calls it quit unlike when there has been sexual encounters.
5. When a guy doesn't insist on sex at some point, the girlfriend may start peceiving him as not man enough and may start looking for options outside.
6. A good sex life enhances a relationship and it draws both lovebirds more closer.
7. Girls most times gloats about that he will never see her panties so sex reduces this ego.
8. For us guys (or for me) sex is the highest assurance that a girl is truly mine, even if she cheats.
9. Sex makes a girl loyal and makes us guys value our women the more (unlike the wrong notion perceived by women that guys misbehave after sex, except maybe boys not men).
10. And finally not every relationship must leads to marriage so therefore we have to enjoy it while it last.

Note that, if every relationship was to lead to marriage we would all be virgins and I wonder how tenable this is, ofcourse its not. Moreso, unwanted pregancies/stds can be avoided, why one may ask; use condoms and the ladies contraceptives is allowed and if in any case they both want it raw as its more enjoyable, both can go for stds blood test.

benromeo39: Will you buy a phone without testing it or buy Christmas turkey if it's asleep? Like I keep saying, love cannot be a singular factor in determining a lifelong relationship. Love + friendship + trust + great sex = unbreakable relationship.

ronald4lif: The reasons we have sex before marriage are but not limited to :

1. Sex is good, sweet and healthy
2. Sex is a natural calling that both genders love and crave for
3. Many couples who never had sex prior to taking marital vows ended up with various complains of either he/she is not good in bed, he/she is boring and he doesn't have erection/one minute man (note that women of nowadays also wants to be sure of the sexual compatibility of their men before having this sacred life commitment)
4. When a guy doesn't have sex with his babe, experience has it that she easily calls it quit unlike when there has been sexual encounters.
5. When a guy doesn't insist on sex at some point, the girlfriend may start peceiving him as not man enough and may start looking for options outside.
6. A good sex life enhances a relationship and it draws both lovebirds more closer.
7. Girls most times gloats about that he will never see her panties so sex reduces this ego.
8. For us guys (or for me) sex is the highest assurance that a girl is truly mine, even if she cheats.
9. Sex makes a girl loyal and makes us guys value our women the more (unlike the wrong notion perceived by women that guys misbehave after sex, except maybe boys not men).
10. And finally not every relationship must leads to marriage so therefore we have to enjoy it while it last.

Note that, if every relationship was to lead to marriage we would all be virgins and I wonder how tenable this is, ofcourse its not. Moreso, unwanted pregancies/stds can be avoided, why one may ask; use condoms and the ladies contraceptives is allowed and if in any case they both want it raw as its more enjoyable, both can go for stds blood test.

EroticAngelina: I keep thinking about this... Why do guys insist on sex before marriage instead of marriage before sex (as the bible tells us to do) thats for the christians. For guys who arent christians, why do you guys do it? Why is it a must? This has been an issue in the world today! and because of this, bastardds (kids without a known father), lovechilds and unwanted children! Even STDs and unwanted pregnancies! Please share your views on this matter!!

Waspy: The spirit is always willing but the flesh..... well you know abt the flesh

tosyne2much: may you live long my broda

PinkObsession:

Missmossy: Lot of senseless posts i reserve my comment.

plaetton: Considering that other men, perhaps many, have already had sex with them without marrying them, then why should the man that volunteers to marry them not ask to be sexed before taking the plunge?

lottoe:
@OP, eroticAngelina,....yet you call yourself a christian. ....back to your question, a guy that truly loves you, will appreciate if you keep your virginity till after marriage for him, jst my own view tho.

plaetton: Frankly speaking, I don't know why any man with his senses would not want to practice sex with his future partner before the marriage.
Unless the woman in question is a virgin and wishes to remain so.
Otherwise, it is a fraud.

EroticAngelina: nairalanders n their sillyness my nick has nothing to do with it!! So someone who tags erotic to their nick is not a christian? Shallow minds

Tallesty1: So girls don't ask for sex? You can't be serious.


If we lived in the time that virgins weren't rare then no one would insist on sex b4 marriage.

But now that most ladies are pro in sex

they leave us no choice than to press our mango well well to know if e ripe rich inside before we buy am.

plaetton: Frankly speaking, I don't know why any man with his senses would not want to practice sex with his future partner before the marriage.
Unless the woman in question is a virgin and wishes to remain so.
Otherwise, it is a fraud.

Xcapist:

Tallesty1, even you Hehehe

EroticAngelina: nairalanders n their sillyness my nick has nothing to do with it!! So someone who tags erotic to their nick is not a christian? Shallow minds

Tallesty1: Then sir.


The ones I bought gave me dysentery.


So I'm on leave now.

EroticAngelina: I keep thinking about this... Why do guys insist on sex before marriage instead of marriage before sex (as the bible tells us to do) thats for the christians. For guys who arent christians, why do you guys do it? Why is it a must? This has been an issue in the world today! and because of this, bastardds (kids without a known father), lovechilds and unwanted children! Even STDs and unwanted pregnancies! Please share your views on this matter!!

MizMyColi: So it's now a money for sex exchange?

SMH for the posters on this thread.

KMTee: if you don't want sex before marriage
don't demand anything from them unless they offer
love and respect are reciprocal
if you respect yourself, guy will respect you

but aint sure this is possible cos we gurls are fond of demanding, money for hairdo, recharge cards, take me for shopping, etc
and once u ask for those things, they want something in return.

bible doesn't support sex before marriage and i don't see where bible said men should shoulder gfs' responsibilities before marriage.

samflexxy: because we want to taste what will be eating for the rest of our life is @ simple as that

passionate88: You sure?... Some guys still go ahead to taste others even after they've had their wedding.