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Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:06pm On Oct 06, 2014
Okworigeorge:
First; Here’s What Not to Do.
>1.Do Not Play Nice. You’re not there to play nice.
Nice guys don’t only finish last, they don’t
even finish at all. They get friendzone in the end, and
my guy, the days of dulling are gone.
When you want a chick, you have to go for her. You
could be gentlemanly but don’t play nice. In simple
terms: don’t act like a mumu.


>2.Do Not Stalk Her. Never stalk her and never
‘accidentally’ bump into her when she’s with him.
That is so uncool, bro. It might be cute the first
time but if you do it more times, she or her man
will notice and your game will be up.


>3.Do Not Touch Her. Keep your hands to yourself, at least
initially. Chicks already have it in their mind that all
guys want is to sleep with them, and then you go
and put your hands on her?
Don’t do that. Respect her body and never
give any indication that you want sex. But you
could be subtle. Like, let’s say, pick something off
her lip, brush her hair away from her face or ward
off an imaginary fly off her dress.


>4.Do Not Speak Bad Against Her Guy. No matter how it’s
itching you, don’t badmouth him. Don’t goodmouth
him either. But the point is, no bad words against
him or you’ll make her defensive of him.


>5.Do Not Open Up Your Heart. If you tell her how you feel
too prematurely, she will stay away from you. And
worse, she might even tell her guy about it. So be
careful to keep your feelings
and plans tucked in.
and here is what to do

>1. Get To Know Her. I mean, everything about
her. I’m assuming by now you know you have
to be her friend. Not that very attached friend
but that aloof friend that is totally
concentrating on her whenever she’s with you.
So, you have to know her whenever you spend
time with her. Knowing her makes you find
spaces in her life that you can fill in where her
boyfriend is not doing a good job, so don’t
skip this step.
>2. Let Her Get To Know You. Here’s where you
can’t sell yourself short. You have to put your
best foot forward. Show her why you will make
such an awesome boyfriend, without actually
telling her so. Show off your strong points.
Talk about your past relationships and in a
happy light. Go like, “when I was dating so
and so…I used to give her these massages
that turned her on…”‘ Brag about your selling
point. Make this girl want you!
>3. Build Trust. Chicks love honesty. You have
to be 100% dependable. While you’re keeping
your top dawg status, maintain class. Show
chivalry because girls generally believe that
gentlemen are trustworthy.
>4. Be The Other Guy. This is where things start
to heat up. Every relationship has its down
moments and you should look out for those so
that you know when to swoop in. Couples
hang out at eateries, go for movies, sit home
and play games etc. You should suggest some
of that when she’s fighting with her boyfriend
and while doing so, encourage her to open up
and talk. Be careful not to engage in activities
that will make you spend your money on her a
lot or she’ll use you.
>5. Add Fuel to the Fire. Be noteful of how
many times they fight. Once it gets to the
third time, throw in some fuel to the flames by
asking her why her boyfriend is treating her
unkindly. She might be cautious at first but
she will eventually open up to you and then
you can let her know that she deserves better.
Good for you if the fight is about you,then you
can be sure that you have a place in her heart
so much that oga is not finding it funny. You
can plainly tell her that you like her and
respect her relationship but left to you, she’d
be in your arms. Add that the choice is hers.
>6. Give Her Space. Women don’t like being put
in uncomfortable positions, just so you know.
Be patient with her and give her space. Still
leave hints that you’re that awesome guy
she’s missing. You could even go on a date
with some other chick and tell her about it. If
you notice jealousy, then you’re good to go.
Tell her the date was okay but you have had
more fun with her. Leave her thinking about
you.
>7. Make Your Move. This is the riskiest part of
the whole game. If you jump in prematurely,
you might screw things up. Be very sure she
has feelings for you when you do this: Get
intimate, a little. Could be a peck on her
cheek or on her lips. Or stroking her fingers
when you hold her hand, or hugging her and
smelling her hair, or looking deep into her
eyes and holding her stare. Make her know
you want her with being slightly physical. It’s
risky but it is guaranteed to seal the deal.
so wen u get her nd she is nau ur gf,anoda guy wu knows diz trick wuld use it on her again nd den she leaves u

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Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Okworigeorge(m): 10:12pm On Oct 06, 2014
apexviper:
so wen u get her nd she is nau ur gf,anoda guy wu knows diz trick wuld use it on her again nd den she leaves u
...LOLz...now that's why u must treat ur woman right
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:17pm On Oct 06, 2014
Okworigeorge:
...LOLz...now that's why u must treat ur woman right
itz women we are talking abt here,evev if u can treat her right,derez sum1 wu can treat ar more right dan u do.xo wat apens wen such a person comes along and uses diz trick?? grin
Okworigeorge:
...LOLz...now that's why u must treat ur woman right
itz women we are talking abt here,evev if u can treat her right,derez sum1 wu can treat ar more right dan u do.xo wat apens wen such a person comes along and uses diz trick??
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:21pm On Oct 06, 2014
Na wa o..dis tin na serious biz. Wetin I go do wid a chick dat Get bf na..nonsense
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:33pm On Oct 06, 2014
And who says all dis steps will mk ha fall out of luv wit ha bf and fall in luv wit u? Bros and brosses if she's still IN LOVE wit ha bf den dont waste ya precious tym wit dese silly steps cos she'll realize wat u're tryin 2 do and keep ha distance. Una tink say we b mumu? D only tym dis MIGHT work is if she's already bored wit d guy and is just in d relationship 4 bein in a relationship sake. And oga op stop lying dat dis has worked 4 u severally. Maybe u got lucky once.
Re: Tips On How To Get A Girl That Already Has A Boyfriend by Lorlaahlozz: 3:34am On Oct 07, 2014
Y would u wanna get girl that has a bf already

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