martyns303:
Poverty tho!

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laplace12:

I think we should be addressing poverty first which is the root cause of the problem

MarthaK:
Boyfriend? Girlfriend? Loan? Borrowing? Why?
He should just let it go....
When I used to borrow my ex money, shame no let me ask am

Welrez:
What if you had a pressing debt to pay with the money and you had no other means of doing so?

Welrez:
Man, could you leave out the amount involved and deal with the content of the tale? I agree that the money is beggarly but then put yourself in the guy's shoes and offer advice accordingly.

martyns303:


Man we can't deal with the issue without the foundation, which is as a result of poverty. Your friend messed up big time. When he gave her the money, every guy would know that, that money is gone. Then he was so childish as to cut the cash someone gave to him for her, how immature is that? Dude wasn't only poor financially but mentally also. If I were in his shoes, I would give her, her money, then explain my situation and let her help. Wouldnt he had survived if that money had not come through? The deed is done, no need crying over spilled milk.

MarthaK:
Boyfriend? Girlfriend? Loan? Borrowing? Why?
He should just let it go....
When I used to borrow my ex money, shame no let me ask am

Welrez:
Assume it was 1m and she was owing him 700k, does it sound better now?

100Cents:


You dated a broke guy too ?

It is well..

martyns303:


Man we can't deal with the issue without the foundation, which is as a result of poverty. Your friend messed up big time. When he gave her the money, every guy would know that, that money is gone. Then he was so childish as to cut the cash someone gave to him for her, how immature is that? Dude wasn't only poor financially but mentally also. If I were in his shoes, I would give her, her money, then explain my situation and let her help. Wouldnt he had survived if that money had not come through? The deed is done, no need crying over spilled milk.

laplace12:

your analogy is still wrong.

It is 300k to 1m

If I earn 1m per month, I won't disturb ma babe for 300k if I truly love her. You see how poverty is the problem?

martyns303:


Man we can't deal with the issue without the foundation, which is as a result of poverty. Your friend messed up big time. When he gave her the money, every guy would know that, that money is gone. Then he was so childish as to cut the cash someone gave to him for her, how immature is that? Dude wasn't only poor financially but mentally also. If I were in his shoes, I would give her, her money, then explain my situation and let her help. Wouldnt he had survived if that money had not come through? The deed is done, no need crying over spilled milk.

asalimpo:


bf u earn 1m you may need to learn how to subsist on N10k.
While u think poverty is d ish. Remember mtn makes billions from selling N100 airtime.

Welrez:
It is a pity that this my dude is poor. He was one of the best students in his department at the university and graduated nearly with a first class. He is teaching now to fend for himself to avoid a life of beggary until he secures a good job. I like him for his self-reliant attitude and for his intelligence. He finds it extremely difficult to borrow money or ask for handouts from even friends and if he undergoes the agony of doing that, he repays promptly. As he usually says: he who goes a-borrowing goes a-sorrowing. There are times he would prefer to starve than begging for money from even friends. I don't wait for him to ask me for money before I give him for I know his kind of person. He always attempt to repay but I always tell him to take it. I write this not to justify his act but to throw more light on why he behaved the way he did towards his girlfriend.

asalimpo:

bros, I dont dig this suggestion of urs.
The guy is working. He doesnt earn much.yes. But the girl was owing him, whether its N100 or N1m, the attitude is wat matters and tht girl is an ingrate and selfish person. The guy was right to take his money wen d opportunity came. Ths kind of girls will desert d guy for d next wadded guy wen they show up.

MarthaK:
Boyfriend? Girlfriend? Loan? Borrowing? Why?
He should just let it go....
When I used to borrow my ex money, shame no let me ask am