egbedore:
My wife just told me now that she has a boyfriend that sleeps with her and that there is nothing ℓ̊ am going to do.

ℓ̊ had earlier suspected she is sleeping with her doctor and one of the parent in her sch. She confirmed to me tonight that she os cheating cos cheating is fun!

What do ℓ̊ do

Now before Ɣøû comment,let me give Ɣøû a little background to our issues. ℓ̊ was involved with other ladies at some point in our marriage,of which she knew and ℓ̊ confessed to her. ℓ̊ don't do that anymore but she said she want to cheat so that ℓ̊ can feel what it feels to be cheated upon. Now she is sleeping around and tell it to my face that she is cheating and will continue without hiding it and there is nothing ℓ̊ can do!
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Nlanders what do ℓ̊ do?

Royal30:


coming from a matured mind......the best advice in this thread..infact God bless u

Women issues should be treated maturely and calmly...... OP, if ure wise u will follow this advice maturely too

ibedun:


Absolutely!!! Dem born you and her together?

Weak yeye lovey lovey man! A vengeful woman is no wife and I promise you this she will kill you.

Weak (fear to die) men all over the place.

Hope55:
then go talk to your pastor I suggest... Here is not the best place to get advise. You re a christian right?

SirAweezy:

Let me tell u the truth.. I don't belong to the school of tought though, (but its the reality). there is nothing like gender equality in this world and it will never happen, the man wil always be the head and will always choose a way how he. Wants to live and direct is family, and. Note: no equality in marraige, a man can take up as many wives as he wants why? Can a woman do the same even though I knew of a woman that did in the 'States' (people still throws tantrums at her).

Personal will: I make my life what it is today because I want to be responsible for generation to come, and also make sure I show my wife the love and care I promised, but the other way round(not me though) I'm at will to become what I want to become like marrying more wives and have children everywhere if I chose to and still commend my respect. Aas long as I'm taking care of them all. (That's what a man can do)

Goldenboy007:
What i can only deduce from your tales is that you are not in charge of your home. Work on those things you lack first then you can correct your wife. No two marriages are the same so nobody can give you a perfect advice. It's bad that your wife is sleeping around, it's a taboo that she came to tell you and dares you to react. You have lost that substance that makes you a husband, that marriage is almost finished and that's the truth! You are only here to tell us because it seems you are the loser if you let her go. That is possible if she is the one housing and feeding you! Salvage what is left of your pride and move out except you know you can't survive on your own. You are not the first to cheat on your wife so that's an excuse you give yourself to feel better! Be a man, find your level..if you are important she will look for you.

francescainnoce:
First of all, for the fact that you write this good simply implies that you are a literate.
Secondly, for the fact you opened up on ur past, simply means that you remorseful and ready for a change.
Thirdly, for your wife to openly and courageously tell you to your face that she is cheating with men, simply means that you must have put her through hell in the past. You must have used her mouth and scrub the rock.
But wait a sec; PLS be sure she is cheating before carrying out any drastic action that can ruin you. Perhaps she said that to get back at you. So get your facts right on that.
It's not easy for a married woman to openly tell you about her infedelity, (knowing well that you sleep in the same house, perhaps same bed and you might hurt her). More reason why I want you to be sure.
Women Hv got mouth and we can say anything.. Just about anything not minding the consiquences. Men can destroy the world with amunitions but it only takes the mouth of a woman to destroy the world.
Fourthly dear: for the fact that the issue have reached this stage means that there are solutions. You just need to get your maths right.
Apologise and be so real with that, think of a crazy way of apologising, like think of a way; it could be climbing to the top of a tree with a mega phone and apologise, just think of a way.
While you think, pray and sick a counsellor.
All will be well.
Something tells me you must have hurt that woman so bad, not justifying her acts though , but you men of this generation can even make a straight woman turn lesbian.
Hmm

MizMyColi:


I can say two things for sure.
- A wise woman builds her home. She is proactive, not reactive.
- Now that she has decided to embark on her own journey of revenge, please remind her to dig 2 graves, 4 maybe.

ROSYL:
Yeye dey smell....when you were cheating on her with your numerous side chicks, did you consult nairalanders? Now the table has turned around, you are dragging us into the mess.....

I say DEAL WITH It!

coogar:
to be fair to her, she's correct!

you cheated once, it's only fair you get your comeuppance. don't worry yourself too much - she's done the deed already. dust yourself up & pretend everything is a dream.

MizMyColi:

I can say two things for sure.
- A wise woman builds her home. She is proactive, not reactive.
- Now that she has decided to embark on her own journey of revenge, please remind her to dig 2 graves, 4 maybe.

GoodFaith:

Smart lady
U have my respect

Thomsbuky:


Please do not abuse the guy......Its good thing, he brought it out of his chest.... Do yo know what he might do if he bottled it in ?, However, you are wrong, He is a clever person, as two heads are better than one, when it comes to getting ideas...." even have learn one of two things from kids here in Nairaland. As our elder use to say, Its due to many years of acquired wealth of experience, that make us not to call an old man a mad person" He done the right thing to express himself in public, seeking other views and opinion after reading people comments he would laugh, and use some of it... He does not need people like you calling him name like daft, weak as it only going to aggravate him and make matter worse. We don't want him to commit homicide do we?. Help him out, give him suggestion and what to do in these case.

Abdull300:
This one is your parronal prob, i get norring to say, cus ur are the one that start cheating, just beg her to stop!!!

Urine:


Stands up and claps. Brilliant!

egbedore:
My wife just told me now that she has a boyfriend that sleeps with her and that there is nothing ℓ̊ am going to do.

ℓ̊ had earlier suspected she is sleeping with her doctor and one of the parent in her sch. She confirmed to me tonight that she os cheating cos cheating is fun!

What do ℓ̊ do

Now before Ɣøû comment,let me give Ɣøû a little background to our issues. ℓ̊ was involved with other ladies at some point in our marriage,of which she knew and ℓ̊ confessed to her. ℓ̊ don't do that anymore but she said she want to cheat so that ℓ̊ can feel what it feels to be cheated upon. Now she is sleeping around and tell it to my face that she is cheating and will continue without hiding it and there is nothing ℓ̊ can do!

Nlanders what do ℓ̊ do?

Royal30:


coming from a matured mind......the best advice in this thread..infact God bless u

Women issues should be treated maturely and calmly...... OP, if ure wise u will follow this advice maturely too

egbedore:


ℓ̊ married at 27 and my marriage will be 9 years by April,2015(few months time)

MRbrownJAY:


bro, the only reason you are writing the above is because you are DESPERATE for toto, NOT because you are truly sorry for what you did or understand that it was wrong. i mean look at what you posted only yesterday on NL:



and yet you expect your wife to be sorry for your cheating self?! we all know what type of "friend" you are looking for.....