khukhi:
Marry the woman that you love. Its absolute torture to tolerate someone for the sake of pleasing them.

Joycomethnow:
I don't love this lady, but she loves me so much. Although I have tried all I could to love her back, but is not just working out. right down in my heart I know that I don't love her neither do I love any other lady somewhere. Recently, I started thinking marriage...but am confuse right now

Truckpusher:
Op the tittle of your thread is in serious conflict with the narration of your ordeal.

From your tittle one can categorically say that you're involved with two different women ,The one you love and the one you do not love but she loves you.

Go home and think again ,come back with the full gist then we will gladly advice you on what to do.

You don't need to be afraid to say that you're dating two different women because you prolly think that NL folks with their bad mouth will take you to the cleaners.

Give us the full gist jare after all they say variety is the spice of life......Lmao

DeConsult:
Honestly this situation has been bothering me for a long time now. We started dating since July 2012, she is very nice, she cares ,love.and respect me, yet I don't love her. I don't just love.her ,sometimes it reflect on the way I treat her, its not funny at all, I had thought that the passage of time would build the love for her...but I was wrong. Uhmmmmmmm!!!

Truckpusher:
Op the tittle of your thread is in serious conflict with the narration of your ordeal.

From your tittle one can categorically say that you're involved with two different women ,The one you love and the one you do not love but she loves you.

Go home and think again ,come back with the full gist then we will gladly advice you on what to do.

You don't need to be afraid to say that you're dating two different women because you prolly think that NL folks with their bad mouth will take you to the cleaners.

Give us the full gist jare after all they say variety is the spice of life......Lmao

temigracie:



hmmm.....You speak like my ex-boyfriend.....

..We passed through similar situation for 3 and half years......

Please just let her go.....She ll meet someone who'll love her equally and unconditional....If you continue in this relationship, you are just wasting her time....And thats the most annoying and painful part

khukhi:


Very annoying.

Femsyn:
Read this carefully,
I don't comment on NL unless I have something reasonable to contribute. Now, from experience, since you're the male, its better for you to marry the woman that loves you sincerely, and not the one you love, but doesn't give a damn! Don't worry, time has its way of sorting things out for which ever decision you make.

lilzeel:
Mr brother if you thinking of marriage pls would advice you to shine your eyes because marriage is an institution you start and never graduate,it doesn't matter who you love or loves you just think of a woman that you can imagine you been at 80 and u still can say I love you too but all this sayings are human point of view but to really succeed and find your better half in marriage is to seek God first and ask for his divine direction for you better half am sure he will answer you when you show persistence and don't forget this say "any man that fails to build a home is a failed man in all areas of life" so think twice and act wise while the sun still shines #na ma own be that#

Joycomethnow:
I don't love this lady, but she loves me so much. Although I have tried all I could to love her back, but is not just working out. right down in my heart I know that I don't love her neither do I love any other lady somewhere. Recently, I started thinking marriage...but am confuse right now

drnoel:


HEre is were weighing comes in handy. U have to weigh the two ladies, measure them without bias and decide like a man

khukhi:

MisterLongman:

What if the woman also do not love him back...... Its just like going round and round in circles