Below are 14 ways to help make it happen. You
may be surprised to learn that true love is not
only attainable — it may be closer than you think.
1. Romantic true love must be created. It does
not ‘just happen.’
2. You become capable of creating romantic
true love when you commit to your own
truth.
3. You commit to your own truth by dedicating
yourself to becoming aware of the complex
and wide range of your thoughts, feelings,
and experiences as they continually shift and
change.
4. You become aware as you move beyond
whatever blocks you from being open to the
truth of your experiences.
5. You move beyond your blocks to truth by
learning to observe your thoughts and
feelings in a compassionate way, even if
those thoughts or feelings are scary or
inconvenient.
6. Once you are committed to your own truth,
you can work to create a romantic true love
relationship.
7. Working to create a romantic true love
relationship means seeking a partner who is
also committed to awareness of his or her
own truth, or encouraging an existing partner
to commit to awareness of his or her own
truth.
8. Once you and your partner are both
individually committed to truth, you can work
to build a relationship that supports truth.
9. In a relationship that supports truth, there is
space and respect for both people to have
whatever thoughts and feelings they may
have, even if those thoughts and feelings are
scary or inconvenient.
10. Truth in a relationship does not mean
communicating every thought or feeling with
your partner and causing unnecessary pain;
truth in a relationship means that both
partners feel safe to be open and honest
about anything that seems important to
share.
11. When there is respect and space for each
person’s truth, you do not have to hide from
the truth in fear of your partner turning mean,
denying or invalidating your thoughts or
feelings, or intentionally saying or doing
things to hurt or abuse you.
12. A relationship where it is safe for truth to
emerge will challenge and support both
partners toward increasing awareness and
connection to the spectrum of their own
truth.
13. Once you and your romantic partner are both
committed to being true unto yourselves,
and you are building a relationship that
supports truth, only time will tell if it is
romantic true love.
14. If it is romantic true love, it will endure,
growing and evolving to continue to support
truth, integrating whatever arises into its
fabric. For example: ‘Sometimes I detest my
husband.’ ‘Sometimes I feel thrilled by my
partner.’ ‘Sometimes I wish that my wife
would just stop talking and leave me alone.’
‘Sometimes I look over at my partner
snoring and I find him totally unattractive.’
‘Sometimes I feel suffocated by my
marriage.’ ‘Sometimes I feel incredibly
fortunate to be married to my spouse.’
‘Sometimes I feel rejected by my partner.’
‘Sometimes I feel alone, even with my
partner sitting right next to me.’
‘And amid all of this, I still want to be
together.’ ‘Our bond remains strong.’ ‘We
both keep growing.’ ‘We keep going
together.’ ‘We keep loving each other.’ ‘This
must be true love.’

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