m lanre, am marriage with a kid but the problem @ hand is that my mother- law and her sister that control my marriage, include my family thing are very hard for me has a man but i just have to take control, but the end of the day we had mistake misunderstanding and she pack her thing for over a 2 months she did not call and i did not call her 2 so the extend she has to tell them in my babe school dey should not allow me check on the babe, and i have promise myseft that i will not take her back but people are coming to beg on her. now am confused wht should i do ? should go and beg her ? or apology to her family ? that are the three question @ hand . thank kindly be trustfully with ur word if u are in my shoe wht will u do

if i were in your shoes, i'll go learn some english.

The 3 questions are basically the same thing. The choice is yours.

Guy, au far? Y u no type 4 pidgin Wey u understand?


Btw, don't beg her. If u do, u will cede all power to her cos she ll continue doing the same thing and then move out if u try to regain control. All u have to do is maintain your stand. Y would the school prevent u from seeing Ur child if they recognize u? Pull small stunt 4 them jawe

So wat do u want us to do nw
To goan bring ua wife back

I can barely understand what you write. Pls retype or u give a summary.

I wishest i knowing whated to telling u,justed taking heart

You understand his post, just give your advise

Atleast he tried his best to communicate

Well first of all you married her and her family. To a certain extent, they will have a say on certain issues. No matter what. That's nigerians for you.

What was the misunderstanding about? If you know that you were at fault, I think you shouldn't let pride get the best of you. Pride is the thing that kills most relationships.

If you eventually get back with her, you gotta tell her that you don't like the families involvement in the relationship. Communication. At least things could improve. I can kinda relate with you on that. The type of family I have, they like to poke their nose into other peoples business.

If u still love her dat much..accept her apologies and take her back...u r a man, stop allowing pple rule ur marriage..take ur stand & b very mature abt it..

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*His wife family are in total control of his marriage.

*Things are quite difficult for him.
*They had little misunderstandings and the wife parked out of his house for two months.

*His wife asked the school authority not to allow him get access to their baby
*people are begging on the wife behalf to accept her back
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Your financial situation are making your in laws act they way they are doing. No respect. Your wife is acting base on the advice of her mother.

My advice for your is to accept your wife back, sit her down and warn her that her family must not get involve in your marriage.

Go n buy a gun....u gon get R.E.S.P.E.C.T, n dem inlaws r gon b too scared to poke dier nose in ur family affair...if dey do,shoot dat part of dier body

Walahi me, I am does not understood your english

Hmmmm... This is a call for experience. Married people over to you.

Harbosede02:
I wishest i knowing whated to telling u,justed taking heart

Are didn't knew what you are typing

major466:

Are didn't knew what you are typing

me sef i don't understanding wat u are sayest

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I don't know maybe it's because km not married yet, but if a woman leaves my house on her own it's the of the end between us.