bebe2:
Oyinbo pple never know how Nigerians dey behave.

Na judge own judge dey talk o (Court of authority different from that of Nigeria you are familiar with)

bebe2:
Oyinbo pple never know how Nigerians dey behave.

Na judge own judge dey talk o

Chinom:



You be correct Naija babe.. I was LOL at the jubilations of both the mother and some posters here. Initially, i thought it was a Nigeria court. On reading the post i found out it was a UK court.
This girl dey Naija right now with her papa and grandma. For all we know, they would have obtained a Nigerian Passport for her. I would like to know how the UK judge will implement the court order. Alhaji Kashumu wey dem dey find for UK for cocaine runs still dey Naija dey flex for over 10 yrs, e come be pikin wey dey with her papa and granny. Was the father present at the UK court during the proceedings ?.

My advice to the mother still stands ; Go to Nigeria and sort things out with your girl's father. That UK court order is as useless as the paper it was written on. The father is probably on his way to the high court in PH to obtain his own court order.

Chinom:



You be correct Naija babe.. I was LOL at the jubilations of both the mother and some posters here. Initially, i thought it was a Nigeria court. On reading the post i found out it was a UK court.
This girl dey Naija right now with her papa and grandma. For all we know, they would have obtained a Nigerian Passport for her. I would like to know how the UK judge will implement the court order. Alhaji Kashumu wey dem dey find for UK for cocaine runs still dey Naija dey flex for over 10 yrs, e come be pikin wey dey with her papa and granny. Was the father present at the UK court during the proceedings ?.

My advice to the mother still stands ; Go to Nigeria and sort things out with your girl's father. That UK court order is as useless as the paper it was written on. The father is probably on his way to the high court in PH to obtain his own court order.

Tokunbohkinibig:

You are right bro. I live in UK and I can tell you that there is nothing UK government ll do about it if Liya's dad insist to keep that child. However, that grandma in question should stay away from UK and probably US by extension for life.
The best thing Liya's dad could do is to obtain a Nigerian Passport for that child and that ll be the end of the story, Nigeria court would never allow that child to leave Nigeria if Liya's dad insist on keeping that child in Nigeria. It ll be easy for him to get Nigerian Judge to issue a restraining order against Liya's mum considering how UK favours women and how UK court ll never allow him to have access to that child, trust me, with these two points, no court in Nigeria would ask him to return that child.
The best thing for Liya's mum to do is to go to Nigeria and play the same game with the system. What I meant is that she should settle this in Nigeria court cos whatever UK court is dishing out has nothing to do with Nigeria court unless the case has something to do with UK and Nigeria interest.
She needs to settle this amicably with Liya's father or take to court as rightly suggested by other Ops. And in case she finally decides to go home to fight for her child, please Liya mum, don't go to Nigeria court with that "woman owns the child mentality" cos if you do, that ll be the beginning of the end of your case. Be smart. Judges in Nigeria are more emotional and family oriented than UK judges who are more emotional to that women society mentality.
You ll need to convince Nigeria court that the father would remain in Liya's life but this would be hard to prove cos of UK family. ..........On the ground of UK family law alone, Liya's dad has won the case since

remsonik:

Have you forgotten the child is a british citizen. Even if the woman goes to court in nigeria she will still lose the case. All the UK government need to do is to send interpol to come get the child here in nigeria. Once the child is reconciled with her mother its none of their business anymore if the court in naija likes let them set her free

Thomsbuky:


This is her majesty court order... Court will implore her majesty government to ask Nigerian government counterpat via official protocol to get the child back to Britain. However, failure to implement these will lead to all sort of diplomatic rows between her majesty and Nigeria government...Trust me you don't want to mess with Oyinbo on child issue, very caring and sensitive when it comes to children abduction from Britain.

F117AA:
If a Federal court protects her not even the FG can touch her.
The US have mounted all kind of pressure on GEJ to extradite aborishade, yet the nigga is still as free as a bird.

oyb:


it will be very difficult for liyas dad and grandma because the whole story is in the open. As long as the mother is able to keep up the pressure on social media, bigger and bigger public figures will get involved. It may even be hard getting the child a daycare center.

Tokunbohkinibig:


I will love you to pay sedulous attention to this very case and see how the whole story unfolds. And I can assure you that you ll be surprised as to what the outcome of that case would be.

Liya's dad will definitely win this case on the ground of those points that were raised in my last post hands down. Nigeria is different from western world where there is no regards for family values. Nigerian judges will never allow that child to leave Nigeria shore.

If Liya's dad plays his game with Nigeria Court very well, trust me on this, he would be given Liya's custody and UK ll do nothing about it.


Finally, there is no amount of media pressure that would make Nigeria court to grant her the custody of that child considering the UK family law.

pickabeau1:


That is a different dimension which typically is an exception

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who says he is truly is the fada of the child

Onegai:
I think Liya will be returned. You guys don't understand, but the grandmum and the father cannot leave the country now, it will flag up on their passports and they'll be arrested, in a lot of countries. You've never heard of it, but I've seen it. Even with Nigerian passport, Liya is a stolen child according to the courts. And yep, they can send letters to your bank/business in Nigeria notifying them that you are a fugitive.
The UK and US passed these laws because so many foreign men/women (but especially men) used to steal their kids and run home.

My cousins are crazy and all have hot tempers and are very violent (including the one who called herself a pastor's wife). When their brother got married, they used to beat the wife on the slightest provocation. She started documenting it, unbeknown to them (pictures and medical reports). One day, she picked her son from nursery school and fled to the airport. The UK didn't let mu cousin into its borders for 10 yrs, based on her evidence (they gave her and the kid asylum).

A guy snatched his daughter from her mum and came back to Nigeria. The mum filed for custody and claimed kidnapping. A year later, his sister was pulled over at the airport for questioning about his whereabouts. And that's how magically one day, the NPF arrested him for kidnapping in Lagos and the child's maternal grandparents took the girl back home. He called all his big-man connections but the case involved the British High Com here (it was all hushed up). Now he's trying to "amicably" ask for visitation rights.

Even my other cousin, once his American wife filed for divorce, she immediately notified the courts that he was a flight risk (because of their daughter). He had to do supervised visitation and all airports had his name and picture should he have attempted to take the girl out of the US.

Even in Nigeria, my co-worker got custody of her two kids from her abusive husband (who thought she wouldn't fight for her rights) here in Lagos. Now he's trying to beg.

All Liya's mum has to do is come to Nigeria, locate them and alert Interpol. They will wait for the hubby at her pre-school and collect her there.

I know so many cases (with this wahala) who once the child has a foreign pp from US/UK, respect themselves and start politely asking their ex-wives for visitation (even those with a lot of clout).

Even if it is 10 years' later, Liya can be taken from her father. It's better he returns the kid jejely. He and his grandmum were stupi.d in the first place.

Chinom:



You be correct Naija babe.. I was LOL at the jubilations of both the mother and some posters here. Initially, i thought it was a Nigeria court. On reading the post i found out it was a UK court.
This girl dey Naija right now with her papa and grandma. For all we know, they would have obtained a Nigerian Passport for her. I would like to know how the UK judge will implement the court order. Alhaji Kashumu wey dem dey find for UK for cocaine runs still dey Naija dey flex for over 10 yrs, e come be pikin wey dey with her papa and granny. Was the father present at the UK court during the proceedings ?.

My advice to the mother still stands ; Go to Nigeria and sort things out with your girl's father. That UK court order is as useless as the paper it was written on. The father is probably on his way to the high court in PH to obtain his own court order.

Thomsbuky:


This is her majesty court order... Court will implore her majesty government to ask Nigerian government counterpat via official protocol to get the child back to Britain. However, failure to implement these will lead to all sort of diplomatic rows between her majesty and Nigeria government...Trust me you don't want to mess with Oyinbo on child issue, very caring and sensitive when it comes to children abduction from Britain.

bebe2:


u leave them

sit down look na dog name nah

i go see how how dem go throu one 180million find one pikin.

bebe2:


its not possible, unless the granma just decide to give up the child.

i beg tell me how this will work.

even if u put gun for jonathan head, he can not produce dat child.

he no know wfere d pikin dey

dats a fact

MissMeiya:


Is the mother a stranger? You think she doesn't know where the man and his family are? Use your head.

pickabeau1:
Twitter and the baby daddy's accounts reveal that the girl is with her maternal grandma already

Im sure she will soon bewith her mum

I dont get your angle


Why should the paternal grandmother be hassled with travel bans, INTERPOL etc all because of overzaelousness

Mind you , the father is said to have wanted this baby aborted

bebe2:


Ohhhh ok. Dat means they have returned d child nahhh

bebe2:


Am using my head,

If they abduct a child internationally u think they are going to go back to the same house abi?

Very smart

Thomsbuky:


Reason, why you not getting maximum intelligent support and weapons to eradicate Bokoarearams, because you are not trusted, absolute too corrupts to implement international standard demand by international community. Oyinbos will always use diplomatic strategies to get you back on line. However, if you decide to be a torn in flesh, ask like of Sadam Hussain, Gadaffi, Noriega and Mugabe. They will disabilise your country making it difficulties to govern yourself.

Tokunbohkinibig:


I will love you to pay sedulous attention to this very case and see how the whole story unfolds. And I can assure you that you ll be surprised as to what the outcome of that case would be.

Liya's dad will definitely win this case on the ground of those points that were raised in my last post hands down. Nigeria is different from western world where there is no regards for family values. Nigerian judges will never allow that child to leave Nigeria shore.

If Liya's dad plays his game with Nigeria Court very well, trust me on this, he would be given Liya's custody and UK ll do nothing about it.


Finally, there is no amount of media pressure that would make Nigeria court to grant her the custody of that child considering the UK family law.

onoja12:
if i was this young man,as cruel as it may sound.i would return the child to the mother and disown the child,because from the way that girl is talking she would brain wash that child to thinking evil and probably acting it too

bennyrazz:
@busybody2,


Remember the lady sued the IBO man to court to get child support? and IBO man is saying he can only cater for the child if he has full custody. On what defective grounds will the case be thrown out? on grounds that they are not legally married or on grounds that it is impossible for the man to father the child?

Are the interpol in Nigeria not Nigerians? are they whites? you see if I'm the father of Liya and the court issues a warrant of arrest on me for not paying child support and I reside in Nigeria, they should just forget it cuz if I say I don't have money , I don't have! and I'm ready to proof it beyond reasonable doubt.

The laws in Europe/America favors women but you see, the law in Nigeria favors Men.

delishpot:


Some responses here scare me o. Its about men and women keeping ego afloat and no consideration for the childs welfare.

There are two sides to every story.

When we published the story of the UK mum looking for her 2 year old daughter, Liya, who was allegedly kidnapped by her paternal grandmother, we hoped our post would at the very least help the mother locate her ‘missing’ child.

We all rejoiced when Liya was found, although there seemed to be missing pieces in the story.

Now Izuchukwu Ehiemere, Liya’s father has come forward to share his side of the story, amidst allegations of abandonment, kidnap and more.

***

Here’s Izu’s account:

“My name is Izuchukwu Ehiemere and I am the biological father of Miss Liya Tinuke Temidun Ehiemere. To be frank, I met Miss Moronke Fadoju (Liya’s mother) at the University of Hertfordshire, United Kingdom and we began a casual friendship at the time. We were not in a “binding” relationship, it was purely casual. This relationship/friendship did not last up to three months of which I was informed by her that she was pregnant with my child.
Izu 3.BellaNaija

Liya’s 1st Christmas

Naturally, I was surprised and in doubt but before I could make proper verifications, she had already informed everybody both domestically and internationally that myself and her were having a baby together. Furious at the time, admittedly I must have said some harsh things with which I regret till date but I accepted my responsibility and worked towards welcoming Liya into the world. I went as far as accommodating Moronke for some months as she had been evicted from her house. This idea didn’t go down well with my friends at the time but it was the right thing to do, up until my landlord discovered.

To cut that story short, I remained actively involved even when she got a new place because the baby was fast approaching. I helped with the baby shower party, purchasing the baby cot, baby essentials etc. as well as transporting her to the hospital to give birth, and thankfully I witnessed the birth of Liya. I remained a key figure from Day 1 helping Moronke run errands since she was so weak after birth. I could go on and on about how actively involved I was but the point drew near when I had to return to Nigeria for my NYSC some months after Liya’s 1st birthday. I am sorry if going to serve my country portrayed me as an absent father. It does hurt a lot when Moronke says I never wanted Liya and I have never been there for her. If I was never there for Liya, she had the right to name Liya whatever she deemed fit and deny me parental responsibility. There is a reason why her surname is Ehiemere.
Izu 2.BellaNaija

Feeding Liya

Given that I have PR (Editor’s Note: Parental Rights) to Liya, I share equal responsibility over Liya unless Moronke has a court order stating otherwise. During the period of my return to Nigeria, we had an agreement that the best way to help Moronke as a new mother, was by both mothers from the maternal and paternal side taking intervals to travel to the UK to babysit Liya and enable Moronke go back to University. An agreement both families as well as Moronke were very receptive to.
Izu 4.BellaNaija

Liya & her father, Izu

Labelling my mother as a squatter who relied on her assistance was very wrong. My mother handled every expenditure in Moronke’s household within her stay there and assisted to the best of her ability. (Bank Statements available as proof to that effect). My mother did not have to come to the UK but she did purely out of love, twice as a matter of fact.

Izu 5.BellaNaija

During her stay, things did not pan out well as my mother observed a lot of traits and behavioural patterns that could be of potential harm to the proper development of Liya. For good reasons, confidential information would not be disclosed here, but there is adequate evidence to prove our genuine concern for Liya’s welfare and wellbeing in the UK. Social Services were also involved and would know best. As a result of the potential risks to Liya’s welfare and wellbeing discovered, I granted my mother Power of Attorney to act on my behalf with matters regarding the welfare of Liya as I was not happy with the situation at hand and the best outcome was for Liya to be brought to Nigeria. Ronke’s family was informed that same day Liya arrived Nigeria including our exact location. Putting up that Instagram post on missing child was not called for, as they were duly informed. It seemed like a deliberate act to sabotage the good name of my family and indirectly hurt my mother.

F117AA:
Will you shut up and get lost.
Do you know how many international laws US has broken?
I don't blame you.
If Nigeria had serious leaders, we would be too rich and powerful to kowtow to laws made for weak countries .
Go and tell china and russia to obey your laws.