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Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by cococandy(f): 11:18am On Oct 21, 2014 |
You mistake me for someone who cares about your opinion. Pls swerve. TribalEAST: 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 11:37am On Oct 21, 2014 |
crackhaus: that's how I was taught by mum. My mum Is the last and 3rd of my dad. my dad loved her so much due all these virtues she taught me. Amongst all the wives, he opened a big shop for my mum, stocked it up with wares, he also built a house for her, and she inreturn built 2 more houses from the profits coming out from her shop. My dad was so proud of her, while other wives were dying with envy. Thank God, my mum is up to the task of tackling the 2 first wives. anytime, its my mum's turn to cook, she will stock my dad's plate with orisirisi meat and fish ,with vegetables, my dad will smile and call one of the wives, you see.... why wont I spend on her , when shes not stingy with her money my dear, am happy abt the orientation from my mum... it has taken me a long way and open lots of doors for me. other women talking sarcastically, and opposing my view, well its a free world and I simply wanted 2 know other pple's view about the scenario. but its all good...more opinions are welcome, but pls lets be civil in passing out messages, we are adults here 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 11:42am On Oct 21, 2014 |
moca: yes o, am newly married thanks my dear....its the Lord's doing 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by cococandy(f): 11:47am On Oct 21, 2014 |
This girl will not kill me Amelian: 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 11:50am On Oct 21, 2014 |
Amelian: Polygamy is just wonderful. What a lovely, united family. Some women learned to compete in the globalized world, others learned to compete against their own family members. 12 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 11:56am On Oct 21, 2014 |
@ cococandy, am serious o @ carefree, unfortunately such is life |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 11:59am On Oct 21, 2014 |
Amelian: Fortunately not for my family. 5 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:04pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
lol@ carefree... ..yur funny...am not saying its for all families... children, when they are conceived cannot choose the family 2 join. God place us in families, or family He wants us to be. but I thank God for mine. 4 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by bellong: 12:07pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Amelian, Your mum was actually killing your dad slowly with the plenty of meat.... |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:08pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Amelian: You cannot choose your family but you can choose whether you proudly tell everyone, who cares to know, that envy is normal in your family. 6 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by cococandy(f): 12:10pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Amelian:No wahala at all. Enjoy |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:11pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
bellong: hahahahahahahahahaha oh my Lord, and in real life, my dad died @ age 90yrs , while mum @ 70yrs..... he lived long... over dose of meat no kill am, he loves 2 eat well.. my dad like food ehn!.....no be small...he worked hard for it anyways... so make he enjoy am may both their souls rest in peace, amen 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by bellong: 12:14pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Amelian: Amen... Meanwhile, maybe he could have lived for 120yrs if not for the meat. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:18pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: my dear, envy is everywhere. not only in polygamous homes. Even on your street, u will amazed the number of pple that cud envy you, but u wont know. how abt church environment? they are there...workplace nko? them plenty there. One of my best frnds was killed by one of her colleagues in d bank, but that's for another day. So, envy is everywhere o... just be prayerful that one hidden or known enemies will not capture one unaware. 2 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:23pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Amelian: Let envy be in church, in the neighborhood and even on the moon but not in my family. My mother didn't have to compete against other women for my father to appreciate her. And my father didn't have to worry that envy will eat up his wife and their children. 4 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:28pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
well, envy did not eat us up ..and other wives, their children are all doing well , married with good careers. we are doing well, all our parents are old and gone 2 rest...we the children from different wives are grown ups, living our lives with our different spouses. 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Talon05: 12:30pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:Well-done. Really well-done. Typical. Very typical of you. You just have to try your best possible to ridicule this woman by finding lapses in her life, finding fault in something she has no power over just to achieve your aim because she has a differing opinion to yours?, now that is very low of you. If doing this brings peace and serenity into your life, go on. All the best. 13 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:35pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Talon05: She has no power over PUBLICLY taking pride in the competition and envy among her father's wives? 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:39pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
my dear Talon, abi o..... that's some pple for us.... I know where she's heading... av met pple like carefree b4, her case is very easy 2 handle thanks dear. 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:41pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: I take pride in it, cos the competition didn't kill any of us but made us stronger and successful in handling life. go figure 3 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:44pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Amelian: I can see. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by bukatyne(f): 12:46pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: carefreewannabe, kindly let it go I am sure Amelian did not mean it from that angle, was just trying to respond to crackhaus regarding her source on her outlook to life. I agree with her that we do not choose the family we are born into and will do well to learn something useful out of it. If she learnt how to be a good wife to her husband through her family, then good It is well 5 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Talon05: 12:49pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:And just how is that a social problem? 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:51pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
bukatyne: I will let it go when I get bored. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:52pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Talon05: Who said it was a social problem? |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by pickabeau1: 12:52pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
alutacontinua...i see u 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by repogirl(f): 12:58pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Women should understand men, some were brought up doing chores and see nothing in it while some aren't just that way, but however he is, to be peaceful just leave him abeg! In the case of this girl, she has a bit of growing up to do, a man provides you shelter, pays you and pays for your education and you still want him to do chores?? What is he helping you for then? She is selfish, if the house is too big, she should request for extra help or her sisters help. She is very selfish and ungrateful! I don't mean a man shldnt do house chores but if you see he isn't that type, then you leave him or if the work is too much, move out abeg, it isn't by force! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Talon05: 1:00pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:Then tell me exactly your problem with her publicly taking pride in something that made her so successful in life (I wouldnt know if she's really successful but i'm taking her word for it). 2 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Talon05: 1:01pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:Actually, you are boring. 6 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 1:02pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
cococandy:when cococandy can't counter a strong and sensible opinion, she does the above. 5 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 1:07pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Talon05: I don't care whether she is successful or not, everyone is successful on NL I just think that envy in a family is nothing to be proud of. A family should be a supportive and not a competitive system. If there is envy and competition in a family, then something is very wrong with it. 5 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 1:07pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
Talon05: You are free to ignore me if you think that I am boring. |
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