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Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by anthoniaz(f): 9:43am On Oct 22, 2014 |
I blame the elder sister.My younger sister cannot come to my house and start telling me to tell my hubby to help her with house chores. She belittled her husband and that gave that girl the guts to disrespect the man in that manner.Even working class women take care of their homes, if the husband wants to help, then fine but not you as a married woman leaving your duties to your husband and sister just because he stays at home all day. I'll understand if it's the elder sister that is complaining that her husband doesn't help her and it's just the two of them in the house.The way you treat your husband in presence of friends and family is the way they will treat him because you have given tbem the permission. 2 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by sarutobie(m): 10:34am On Oct 22, 2014 |
anthoniaz:this right here is the crux of the matter..every other post here is irrelevant and nigh stupid.. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:57pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
aisha2: 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by ogele: 1:29pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
moca:You are a very funny person. Laugh wan kill me oh! Thumb up!!! |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 1:45pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:Yet, the monogamous one in the OP is united and harmonious?. 2 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 2:03pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
Amelian:Most modern women like to lie to themselves. This, right here, is the conclusion of the whole matter. And the part in bold is just standard reward for the ingrate SIL. Nothing new there. The husband should use the money he spent in caring for her to take his clothes to the drycleaner. Abi she thinks he plucked the money for the food and shelter she enjoyed from living with from the air? Amelian abeg, you get sister? My younger brother dey find wife. Na beg I dey 2 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 3:22pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
freshdude2: ;Dyou too funny freshdude....lol.. fortunately am the last recent married lady in my family. Every other ones are long married with kids in their husband's house. God will give your younger brother , his own wife sooner than he expects. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 3:29pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
Amelian:Amin, Jesu. Ose omo daadaa. Cheers. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 5:22pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
looool....the ills and degrading brainwash that polygamy brings. To each his own sha. 2 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 6:18pm On Oct 22, 2014 |
Talon05: Stop reporting to the mods, they can't save you. LMAO @ "fixed-bitch". Is that what your father says when he is coming in your mouth? I know your middle name is AKA47, your parents wished they had killed you after birth. Even they, realized the mistake of nature they had dropped on an unsuspecting world. You are a dog-faced spawn of a boil-ridden anus, a mere t*wat swizzling cum receptacle. You are a walking vomit, a meaning less void. If the c*unt faced gremlin you call a mother had any class, she would have aborted you. I guess the a*ss whooping you're getting from me is confusing you, I'm not your father. He is the only one that get aroused at the sight of a test1cle-shitt1ng-rectal-wart. My dog has class, he can never mate your b1tch mother. Stop forcing the hairy-nippled goat sucking black trumpet cunt you call a mother on it. It wouldn't even piss on your trashy a*Ss mother if she was on fire. No one is attracted to your b1tch faced mother except her brother-your father. 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 3:18am On Oct 23, 2014 |
BananaBender:I wonder the kind of men that marry women like you. 2 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 4:13am On Oct 23, 2014 |
UjSizzle: My gosh, don't you know? On Nairaland, everything is a "feminist" thing 8 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by soonest(f): 2:26pm On Oct 23, 2014 |
Let me not comment since I'm a masculivoore |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 6:03pm On Oct 23, 2014 |
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Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 6:26pm On Oct 23, 2014 |
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Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Stillfire: 11:44pm On Oct 23, 2014 |
What kind of crass, backward thread is this? So you couldn't advise this girl without acting saintly? Some of you women are sick, more misogynistic than the misogynists. You now came on NL to congratulate yourself, so that razz people like yourself will give you a pat on the back. I should have stopped reading the crap when I saw the textspeak and the construction of the grammar which usually tells me the author's conversations would most likely revolve around the level of dry, sappy, insipid and downright boring. You could have advised her without the unnecessary hyping of yourself and maligning other women. Rubbish. 8 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by soulglo: 2:27am On Oct 24, 2014 |
Stillfire: In her defense, I probably might have taken a similar tone in describing a woman like the OP. I generally find it hard to disguise my disgust at women like the OP. So I think we should ltry to look at it from what she knows. How she was nurtured. In my world, woman like her are seen as non achieving and mentally lazy but in her world women like me are not even women. There are men who are okay with that just like there are men who wouldn't bring that home to their family. I'm sure if you had a brother and he brought a woman home that sounds like this the family might be taken aback. Imagine that the OP had a son who brought home a woman who sounds like you. The OP will start running from church to church to pray the woman out of her sons life 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 8:48am On Oct 24, 2014 |
soulglo: Stillfire: 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by slimyem: 9:10am On Oct 24, 2014 |
My own problem is why is anyone handwashing anyone's clothes in 2014 when washing machines are so affordable? If the oga himself or the oga madam had thought of getting one, the sister would not have been overwhelmed, would have had no reason to think lowly of oga and wouldn't have gone to the op in the first place. This thread would not have been created |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by MadCow1: 9:19am On Oct 24, 2014 |
Came in to read the main post... Too funny!! The only problem I see in that story is an ungrateful, unappreciative, unemployed, uncouth, ill-mannered, disrespectful, homeless Girl who tried to break up her Sisters marital home. That dumb Biitch has no right to be making decisions in her sisters marital home. If she feels the chores are too much, she can tell them.. If they feel she's of no use to them for that and therefore a burden, they can evict her stupiid arse.. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 9:27am On Oct 24, 2014 |
moca:Babe thank you for this comment , abeg told those monkwatic back to the nearnderthal ages . |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by LORDI(m): 9:41am On Oct 24, 2014 |
Those days have past,am a feminist and I believe in gender equality,why won't the man help jhoor,so he just sit's around all day,doing nothing!!.....mtcheeew abegi. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Stillfire: 11:33am On Oct 24, 2014 |
soulglo: Lol. The stench of 'pull her down' syndrome must be eradicated. I'm yet to see consistent male posters here starting up a thread and chastising their fellow men on their vices which is even more numerous and heart wrenching than the female vice. Imagine somebody like Coogar starting up a thread with a saintly cloak, 'advising' other men on how men should not cheat on their wives and men who cheat on their wives are... ill-mannered . But on the other hand you find women policing other women as if women don't have enough on their plate. I don't blame the OP. All of this stems from old roots where women had to compete among themselves, enhancing their manipulative skills to garner favors from men. 4 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by TV01(m): 12:38pm On Oct 24, 2014 |
Stillfire:...it's a good thing we've put a stop to that! TV |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by bukatyne(f): 12:53pm On Oct 24, 2014 |
Stillfire: I wonder so too |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 12:59pm On Oct 24, 2014 |
Stillfire: All these women shey you wont log off nairaland and go and give una husbands fresh fish orishirishi and big turkey meat. Shey na when another woman give am he come carry all him money dash am una go shout competition ( pun intended) 2 Likes |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Stillfire: 5:19pm On Oct 24, 2014 |
aisha2: Lol, aisha. As you grow older you begin to understand this competition excites the men. 2-3 women fighting over me, woohoo. 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 5:33pm On Oct 24, 2014 |
Stillfire: Yes oh. Fighting, gossiping, plotting against each other while feeding the man different assorted meals. Dont forget praying tirelessly for the other womens kids to fail so we can prove how much of a failure the other wives are and how much better wives and mothers we are. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Stillfire: 5:49pm On Oct 24, 2014 |
aisha2: Lol. Dont forget praying tirelessly for the other womens kids to fail so we can prove how much of a failure the other wives are and how much better wives and mothers we are. Hmmm. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by troy20(m): 6:41pm On Oct 24, 2014 |
just because someone has to be under your debt doesnt have to mean he/she has to slave it out.exploiting the tough economy to humiliate and reduce their sense of self worth because you are at a certain advantage than they are is terrible.believe me there is nothing worse than making someone feel this way.she is not under any obligation to wash the husbands clothes.sad really. |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by donodion(m): 6:08am On Oct 25, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: And it works in their situation as against contrary views. So? 1 Like |
Re: Only God Knows What Some Parents Are Teaching Their Grown Up Children by Nobody: 11:11am On Oct 25, 2014 |
donodion: It obviously didn't work so well. |
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