I normally drop my neighbor’s wife off in the morning on my way to the office. I think am tripping for her sister in-law. The girl isn’t pretty, neither is she ugly, she is okay and looks very responsible. She is young intelligent and a Christian. Spoke with her like twice and I like her already. The main issues is first I haven’t dated a neighbor before, especially one we live in the same compound, I find it a little awkward, my family is very much respected, and these my neighbors even look up to me. It even seems very embarrassing does anyone have experience dating, his neighbor? How was it? How did things turn out? Don’t want to fall my hand oh. Cos if I attempt, they will all know. And ones am in I can’t pull out. What your advise from experience? If it an office romance I know the answer is NO!

I seriously need a relationship, old age don dey catch up and i never get steady relationship

please dont lest you loose your respect

Go ahead.

When a snake refuse to do wetin dem know am for, dem go use am tie firewood like rope.

When house fall for ground, goats go climb the roof. The gods speak in parables...and they have spoken

Its a free world bro..go ahead..

All I can say is that, there's no restriction of places when it comes to dating the one you love

If you love that girl, just go for her and forget how respected you are in your environment

Sometimes, you just have to lower your high self esteem so that you can get what you deserve. So dating that lady as a neighbour will not drag your name in the mud depending on how you play your game

If at all there would be mess-up, it depends on the quality and maturity level of the kind of your neighbours. You knw some neighbours are aprokoooooo

I even want to approach my neighbor direct and say i like their sister oh, dont knw hw crazy that will sound.

Rapmoney:
When a snake refuse to do wetin dem know am for, dem go use am tie firewood like rope.

When house fall for ground, goats go climb the roof. The gods speak in parables...and they have spoken

Those that are spiritually gifted understands when the gods speaks in parables .

Op what if ur neighbours are looking up to U to approach the lady or one of dem ladies wey dey ur compound? Me think say one thing must surely kill a man, so why bother when U don't know that thing.

Abeg, think deeply and take ur time, anything wey U decide go make sense to me coz love no get house or bus stop, any where U meet am (love), nah to enter ehn boat make him (love) dey carry U go be that.

Afrok:
Those that are spiritually gifted understands when the gods speaks in parables .

I dey tell you!

I never date my neighbour,but I don bleep my neighbor...2 diff thing

Date ur neighbor. I'm dating my co-worker. Screw society standards.

If your intentions are good.. Why not?? Go for it.. Just try taking her on a date. Take her somewhere far away. Have dinner with her and tell her how u feel. Its no crime. The issue of neighbourly romance only comes up when u are a serial womanizer, cos ur neighbours will be seeing how u shuffle girls in and out of ur house.

keyman0007:
I even want to approach my neighbor direct and say i like their sister oh, dont knw hw crazy that will sound.

dont have a clue of what you just said

Tripping?.....how many trips?

charijee:
Tripping?.....how many trips?

emm like 5

keyman0007:


emm like 5

Ah 5 is too small na.....add more 15 trips

charijee:
Ah 5 is too small na.....add more 15 trips

haba u wan kill person, please oh, i dey okay with five

keyman0007:


haba u wan kill person, please oh, i dey okay with five

I'm only trying to help you out so your efforts will be seen and well appreciated......try and sum it up to 20 trips

keyman0007:
I even want to approach my neighbor direct and say i like their sister oh, dont knw hw crazy that will sound.

That would be crazy men...the man will even stop his wife from following you to work. I tell you, love and infatuation are almost the same. I suggest you indirectly let her know you are eyeing her, then watch her reactions. You guys can start with secret games then when you are sure you like her more than sex, then go meet the man of the house direct. Take my words seriously, you will still have your respect.

mecussey:


That would be crazy men...the man will even stop his wife from following you to work. I tell you, love and infatuation are almost the same. I suggest you indirectly let her know you are eyeing her, then watch her reactions. You guys can start with secret games then when you are sure you like her more than sex, then go meet the man of the house direct. Take my words seriously, you will still have your respect.

And no its nt sex oh. Am even certain this babe no go even let me touch ham, na spiri koko.
The problem be say na dis kind mind your business compound I dey stay, everybody na inside house dem dey. The babe go lock herself inside house you won’t even see her, plus me wey ones i go work na till night, the dey look me like one big bros I no even too dey smile sef, even while carry the neighbor na radio dey do talk "just good morning", drop her off "and have a nice delay". I tink I like this your secret game approach, but na opportunity and time, And I have this crazy family as well, my younger sister always sniffing around, if she suspects anything she will tell the whole house. You knw hw crazy siblings behave. Which is so awkward for me.

keyman0007:



And no its nt sex oh. Am even certain this babe no go even let me touch ham, na spiri koko.
The problem be say na dis kind mind your business compound I dey stay, everybody na inside house dem dey. The babe go lock herself inside house you won’t even see her, plus me wey ones i go work na till night, the dey look me like one big bros I no even too dey smile sef, even while carry the neighbor na radio dey do talk "just good morning", drop her off "and have a nice delay". I tink I like this your secret game approach, but na opportunity and time, And I have this crazy family as well, my younger sister always sniffing around, if she suspects anything she will tell the whole house. You knw hw crazy siblings behave. Which is so awkward for me.

I tell you, you cannot tell what a woman can do. The most innocent are the sex addicts, and there is no way you will like a woman without been sexually attracted to her. Check yourself...otherwise, your marriage will be very boring.

keyman0007:
I even want to approach my neighbor direct and say i like their sister oh, dont knw hw crazy that will sound.

This post of yours makes me deduce that you are mature, responsible and most likely have good intentions. Please go right ahead and claim what may be yours.

Its nt wrong though....Buh its gonna likely gonna b a hubby-wifie yino------same house

This ain't medieval times where you will meet the lady's relations first... Meet her, tell her your intentions then let her deciede.

Ask yourself,wat do want to do with her,if it's use and dump then don't even try..any relationship that wnt lead to marriage will poison the good neighbourliness,so make sure it's not infatuation.

fairheven:
Ask yourself,wat do want to do with her,if it's use and dump then don't even try..any relationship that wnt lead to marriage will poison the good neighbourliness,so make sure it's not infatuation.

Am an oldman(26 yrs) already (time for "use and dump" or " infatuation" don pass.

but we all knw hw relationships are, you dont see every from the outside, it is when you are in it you see the other person's true character, if na chop and clean mouth Iwont even bother coming to nairaland. I have good intentions but it will depend on her kind of person.

This same neighbour has asked me when will i get married i used style to avoid a response.


So what am hearing is if my intentions are through i shd proceed. Nobody with a dating neighbor bad experience?

mecussey:


I tell you, you cannot tell what a woman can do. The most innocent are the sex addicts, and there is no way you will like a woman without been sexually attracted to her. Check yourself...otherwise, your marriage will be very boring.

let leave that sex part for now, no be sex dey my mind.

Ofcourse she is okay and , i obviously cant marry a baboon.

keyman0007:


Am an oldman(26 yrs) already (time for "use and dump" or " infatuation" don pass.

but we all knw hw relationships are, you dont see every from the outside, it is when you are in it you see the other person's true character, if na chop and clean mouth Iwont even bother coming to nairaland. I have good intentions but it will depend on her kind of person.

This same neighbour has asked me when will i get married i used style to avoid a response.


So what am hearing is if my intentions are through i shd proceed. Nobody with a dating neighbor bad experience?

Yes, proceed if your intentions are good.

Why are you keen on others' experience? is it a determinant of what you would experience?

Evina:


Yes, proceed if your intentions are good.

Why are you keen on others' experience? is it a determinant of what you would experience?

It better to learn from other people's experience cos their are some failures you never recover from

keyman0007:


It better to learn from other people's experience cos their are some failures you never recover from

Okay.