I just can't fathom why most Nigerian girls think that you are doing them a favour by dating them and taking away their reproach...

In my current relationship,i do all the calling,texting,messaging on social network,buying her recharge cards and gifts and taking her out on dates...I don't remember her doing any of these...

Is it just her mindset that makes her think that its the sole duty of her man to do all of these without her reciprocating in return...

I have lost 3 relationship on these funny attitude of my Ex-girlfriends and i am currently considering dumping my present girlfriend on same charges...

Because i love a girl does not make me a beast of burden all in the name of love...

Do i sever the relationship ties?? Or give her time to repent and change for the better??..

Your advice is needed...tnx in anticipation...

Daninya1:
I just can't fathom why most Nigerian girls think that you are doing them a favour by dating them and taking away their reproach...

In my current relationship,i do all the calling,texting,messaging on social network,buying her recharge cards and gifts and taking her out on dates...I don't remember her doing any of these...

Is it just her mindset that makes her think that its the sole duty of her man to do all of these without her reciprocating in return...

I have lost 3 relationship on these funny attitude of my Ex-girlfriends and i am currently considering dumping my present girlfriend on same charges...

Because i love a girl does not make me a beast of burden all in the name of love...

Do i sever the relationship ties?? Or give her time to repent and change for the better??..

Your advice is needed...tnx in anticipation...

she will not change........they will not change.....all i see these days are pros.titutes posing as girlfriends.

You don't have a girlfriend,
you have a liability.
Get yourself a real girlFRIEND.

How you begin your relationships matter.

If you don't want a girl to turn you into "a beast of burden" better not throw money around from the outset.

Lovetinz:
You don't have a girlfriend,
you have a liability.
Get yourself a real girlFRIEND.

nice point @op you better run what you have is a liability not a girlfriend, what she is denying you another dude is getting it for free

Don't blame her.

Blame sugar papa's and woman wrappers.

Daninya1:
I just can't fathom why most Nigerian girls think that you are doing them a favour by dating them and taking away their reproach...

In my current relationship,i do all the calling,texting,messaging on social network,buying her recharge cards and gifts and taking her out on dates...I don't remember her doing any of these...

Is it just her mindset that makes her think that its the sole duty of her man to do all of these without her reciprocating in return...

I have lost 3 relationship on these funny attitude of my Ex-girlfriends and i am currently considering dumping my present girlfriend on same charges...

Because i love a girl does not make me a beast of burden all in the name of love...

Do i sever the relationship ties?? Or give her time to repent and change for the better??..

Your advice is needed...tnx in anticipation...

She has never called you? never sent you a text?

She's not interested in the relationship.

She does nt. Send text or call even with ur own credit,ok.....

1.Don't call or text again until she does

2.If she does,and asks y,ur reply is u also wnt to feel loved,wanted and needed.

3.If she does nt,you were nt her boy friend,just a willing and loving emotional and financial A.T.M machine.

@ancashy nice one. Baba all u need to do is stop all the aforementioned and lets see what happens, if she complain of u not doing as before Pls tell her there's no love constitution that says u must be the one doing everything and if she concluded that u've change pls just quitely move on with ur life Becos the last time I checked relationship between whoever both two lovers and normal friends is suppose to be symbiotic in nature.

trust me ur 'girlfriend' has sumone else,dat shez in love wt,sumone she callz nd text on daily basis.......probably usn u as extra tyre.

Daninya1:
I just can't fathom why most Nigerian girls think that you are doing them a favour by dating them and taking away their reproach...

In my current relationship,i do all the calling,texting,messaging on social network,buying her recharge cards and gifts and taking her out on dates...I don't remember her doing any of these...

Is it just her mindset that makes her think that its the sole duty of her man to do all of these without her reciprocating in return...

I have lost 3 relationship on these funny attitude of my Ex-girlfriends and i am currently considering dumping my present girlfriend on same charges...

Because i love a girl does not make me a beast of burden all in the name of love...

Do i sever the relationship ties?? Or give her time to repent and change for the better??..

Your advice is needed...tnx in anticipation...

Use your head bro, you're the one funding her relationship with another guy.

Flee!

This is why most guy got heart broken unknowingly. Relationship is for the both parties. Once the other stop playing he/she role one should know is fading away.

Most problem affecting us is,. We try to force things. If a girl, don't like you,all you need is to walk away, and look for the one you both connected.

Just withdraw everything you are doing and see if she will take note. If not move on with your life without even telling her you no more interested.

Show her this post...

andromida:


She has never called you? never sent you a text?

call?No...text?No...flash?Yes...msg me on whatsapp??No,till i 1st msg her 1st..

mikedimeji:
@ancashy nice one. Baba all u need to do is stop all the aforementioned and lets see what happens, if she complain of u not doing as before Pls tell her there's no love constitution that says u must be the one doing everything and if she concluded that u've change pls just quitely move on with ur life Becos the last time I checked relationship between whoever both two lovers and normal friends is suppose to be symbiotic in nature.

great input...solomon's wisdom

Daninya1:


call?No...text?No...flash?Yes...msg me on whatsapp??No,till i 1st msg her 1st..

How long have you guys been dating?

mizzkeji44:
trust me ur 'girlfriend' has sumone else,dat shez in love wt,sumone she callz nd text on daily basis.......probably usn u as extra tyre.

i dnt think she has,,cux my cousin sis is her bestie...i dnt knw wat girls r capable of..

goldenone:
Show her this post...

owk swt

beast of burden. But how come you always attract this kinda gals? Perhaps you have portrayed yourself as Alhaji bringi-bringi. Still no reason for a gal to behave that way though. Except, like someone already noted, she is not interested in yo.

First of all you need to realise that most nigerian girls are NOT like your girlfriend.

So you can change that "most" to "some"


Once you get this into your head, we can move forward

But on the other hand, this girl obviously does not have any deep feelings for you. Its clear, so obvious.

She doesn't call, she doesn't message you, she only needs you when its time for the jackpot. You need to sit down and analyse this by yourself. Seriously.

Communication is the key. If you tell her mind, I think she should give you a reasonable answer. If she promises to change, then keep her close and see if she keeps to her word. If not, then obviously she splashing out her attention on another guy. There is not point in loving a girl who clearly sees you as nothing. Waste of time, waste of energy.

Most people don't know what they have until its gone.
Karma is real

So better things are yet to come.

this guy na lawyer. O boy, daz Naija babe for you.

Bring it to her notice and observe closely. If symptoms persist after one week, detach the leech.

Op,you have tried, I couldnt have endured to this moment.
Infact,her offence is punishable under the law bt dnt take any legal action .

Just forget her and move on,trust me you can do exploit without her.

I grew up with the concept that Love is all about giving or sharing..bsd,she is young and naive..cud that be the reason??..

andromida:


How long have you guys been dating?

a mnth

Sorry.

Daninya1:


i dnt think she has,,cux my cousin sis is her bestie...i dnt knw wat girls r capable of..

DONT UNDERESTIMATE A GAL

Daninya1:

a mnth

I think a month is early yet. Her not calling, texting you maybe she is still growing feelings for you not everybody rushes into relationships some start slow. The major question would be the kind of person you believe her to be. I'd say give it sometime and talk to her let her know whats on your mind and what kind of communication you want from her in this relationship.

andromida:


I think a month is early yet. Her not calling, texting you maybe she is still growing feelings for you not everybody rushes into relationships some start slow. The major question would be the kind of person you believe her to be. I'd say give it sometime and talk to her let her know whats on your mind and what kind of communication you want from her in this relationship.

tanx,i will adhere to your advice..

Daninya1:


tanx,i will adhere to your advice..

You are welcome.

andromida:


You are welcome.

Andro the love doctor

Should i quit 'our' relationship too? You're not giving me much attention