traware:
All the books' versions are readily available on the net for free.It will shock you.I will give you the name of another book when you're ready.You have to be aware our views are very unmainstream so be ready to be labelled all sorts on this thread...homo...,psycho...weirdo...creep...sicko

Missmossy:
Chai!

africanrapper:
OP, look in front of where you are standing right now. There is a bar.
Go inside that bar and take a bottle of HEINEKEN for my head. No, take the whole crates of HEINEKEN. I WILL PAY.

Just last week, I was contemplating getting a girl on a contract of 5 years to have 2 kids for me (1 boy and 1 girl). I have everything I want to make my life happy. Must I get married to be happy?

The wahala of staying with a nagging woman is frustrating. I have lots of friends who no longer go home at night to their families, instead they join me to bars here in Port Harcourt till 12AM. Why? Their wives nag them to almost death situation.

#africanrapper

killjoy:


my skin is over a mile thick, wot pipl think bout me is non of my bizness. I just downloaded the book. its a 69 pages book. hope its complete. share with me the other books plzzzzzz

killjoy:


woh hapn

traware:
It depends on the format.As long as its complete,no problem.The other books' name is 'Sperm wars' by Robin Baker.Its also a fascinating read

Saao:
op u maybe right to some extend maybe due to situation with some families around u but marriage goes beyond negativity. i'm happily married but cant see all those points u mentioned in my marriage though in life, their must be pros and cons to everything so i believed u to some extend as i said. dont discourage others cos marriage is to be enjoy.

skelefish:
I love this... OP may God continue to enlarge your coast. We need more of your type. Front page tins abeg...

killjoy:


lolsss. do u see me pointing a gun to niggers head to kip him away from marriage?? I didn't copy n paste. plagiarism is a cardinal sin wer I come from. tnx for ur validation.

traware:
Sir,'love' and 'romance' are concepts women use inorder to hoodwink men into being their lifelong slaves.There is no such thing as 'the one'.It just doesn't exist.Men will always desire to spread their genes to women who possess healthy reproductive features especially the young nubile ones and women will always desire men who possess dominant traits even when married.The sooner men realize women only desire them for the immediate benefits they can offer them,the better for men

tpia6:


Actually they do, lest they end up with spirit ( anjonu) in the name of partner.

traware:
Sir,'love' and 'romance' are concepts women use inorder to hoodwink men into being their lifelong slaves.There is no such thing as 'the one'.It just doesn't exist.Men will always desire to spread their genes to women who possess healthy reproductive features especially the young nubile ones and women will always desire men who possess dominant traits even when married.The sooner men realize women only desire them for the immediate benefits they can offer them,the better for men

killjoy:


first of all I undastand dat as a woman, marriage is ur curse n u wud do or say anything to support it. well if I'd eva hv need for family, I already hv one. wife is just a burden I'd not resign to bear. single n complete. wish u cud honestly say dsame

maaft:
make realism optimistic

Ipledge:
can i marry u

Peterken05:
i dont understand

MrsBreezy:


Lol I'll pretend that wasn't sexist at all.

Haha not that I don't agree with what you've said just that its very pessimistic.

You do realise the family you have will die. And you'll have none. Or they'll move on to their own.

Hmm yeah single and complete is possible

traware:
She must be upset because the pandora's box has been opened

tpia6:



are you ajebutter?

i meant if you dont take marriage issues seriously and keep dilly dallying for too long, you may end up with a spirit as a partner. They have the forms of humans outwardly but are really sky high in every other ramification.

what yorubas call anjonu (iberu).


na that kind partner dem dey send to punish their SO and all around them.

you think its for nothing that many nigerian families are so nitpicky about marriage matters?

MrsBreezy:


Lol yeah life's depressing enough

maaft:
you meant to be optimistic about realism?

Peterken05:


superstition
i dont believe in superstitions

MAXWELLOKUMA:
Jaycob Jaycob my guy.... I have read thru your original post and I find it very interesting. Interesting because you spoke the minds of many youths today. Interesting because you are typing with conviction and belief in what you are writing about. But after reading it carefully I must point out the fact that your analysis is heavily flawed. I will not go into the details because it is useless. Useless in the sense that a man would believe what he wants to believe even in the face overwhelming evidence. The only thing I can say is this, no matter the circumstances, no matter the pain, once a man puts his hope and trust in the wrong things, he is finished. Marriage was created for a purpose we all knw that but we have allowed mainstream media and other modern ideas to redefine it to be what it is not. In conclusion killjoy my guy, not every woman on the face of the planet who is of marriageable age is bad. There are good ones out there but the problem is do they see you as a good guy?

killjoy:


I used to be very romantic my dear u hv no idea, Bt afta I see pepper for woman hand , I don't expect anything good from a woman, I don't want to hv anything to do wit a woman besides business n sex!!

e get who no go die?? na wife or pikin no go die? I lost my kid sister a long tym ago Bt both my parents r alive. lyf isn't mathematics. wife fit die before mama. shey u dey feel me

killjoy:


don't confuse me with the facts, my minds made up. I wish I cud share ur sentiments lemsquare, but then that wud make me a man who has learnt nothing about relationships in dis lyf.

MAXWELLOKUMA:
lolzzzz... Dude I am not confusing you with the fact. Atleast you agreed with the fact that a mans way of life starts from within hence your seven reasons for not getting married. If you think sex,money and career would bring you more satisfaction than marriage, think again before it is too late bro.

MrsBreezy:


True. But you can make realism optimistic. After reading this(if I was a man) I wouldn't want to get married.