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Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by Tallesty1(m): 1:46pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
I'm not trying to encourage women to be gold diggers nor write broke guys off as useless. This is just an advice from a guy who have tasted both sides and found that a broke guy who is in relationship is not being true to himself. To be honest, most of what we have heard about relationship are unfounded. Nobody will love you for who you are when you don't have shi shi. That's just the truth. Even the independent ladies who don’t want your money will want someone who’s settled in their life. For them, finding a partner is about finding someone who fits into their lifestyle and plans for the future. That includes things that cost money. Below are the reasons why broke guys should forget dating for now. 1. You are not ready for it. You may want it but honestly you don't need it. You need to be thinking of a master plan. You need to re-prioritize your life and get busy with something. Anybody who is having some major financial struggles needs to be focused on getting that together, not dating. get your act together THEN date. 2. You Ego Will Be Bruised Money does matter in our society, way too much. A person's ability to eat and look good and get medicine in time of need and take care of your woman are the things that makes one a man. Think about it, she called you on phone and asked for money and you gave her the same answer. "I no get". Then you found out much later that she somehow got the money. You ask and was told that she got it from another guy. Your heart is darned if he is one of her admirers that you are aware of. 3. It Is A Distraction A broke guy needs all the time in the world alone to sort out things and having a woman who will add some few loads to his already bent shoulder will do him no good. Don't tell me he needs a woman's support because a good female friend supports one more than his girlfriend. You don't need that extra load. 4. You Will Be Cheated On You read me right. Girls have the habit of getting bored of things quickly, this is due to who they are, which is coupled with the pressures of society. Society always wants them to get the newest and latest thing, so one day she will get tired of hoping and waiting and accept that guy who has been disturbing her. She may not tell you about it because she wouldn't want to hurt you so you end up being cheated on. 5. You Will Be FriendsZoned She likes you but cannot continue to date you because you cannot take care of her needs. So she would friendzone you in other not to lose you completely. At least there is something you are good at and she will keep your friendship because of that. Women are smart walahi 6. She Won't Feel Loved Since traditionally men are the ones that pay for dates, it is impossible then to prove your love when there is no shi shi. How can you surprise her? How can you take her out on a date or buy her gifts? How can you say you love her when she cannot rely on you when she is broke? 7. You Will Be Dumped Not because she doesn't love you but because You are not the right material for a woman who has marriage and raising a family in her agenda. You may be lucky to get someone who will stand by you but a goal without a deadline is just a dream. She will eventually get tired of hoping and give up. Your ass will be dumped. Sorry I know that all people deserve to be loved no matter who or what they are but money is very important in every relationship so I think a man that cannot afford to date needs to wait 180 Likes 29 Shares |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by Nobody: 1:51pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
#Word. FTC baby!! That part about it being a distraction, it totally resonates. A young dude should invest in himself first and foremost. When pepper rest wella, and he achieves his most pressing life goals then he can pay attention to other things like women. BTW It's not like dating broke girls will be much fun either, I mean, who wants to be an ATM machine? I'm talking plenty story sef. *runs off to go make money * 41 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by Mprex(f): 1:57pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
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Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by chimerase2: 1:57pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
And 99% ardent romance niggas in nairaland re broke - obasanjo et al, 1993 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by countsparrow: 1:58pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Bukatee |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by Tallesty1(m): 1:59pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
chimerase2:This is too strong bro 1 Like |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by vizkiz: 2:00pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
I knew it... First it was short guys, now its broke guys, next will be stingy guys 19 Likes |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by Tallesty1(m): 2:01pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by chimerase2: 2:09pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Tallesty1:bro yea but let no one take it personal 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by Tallesty1(m): 2:10pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
xcapizt:With all the offers and money you have won in your inbox. You are a billionaire already 1 Like |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by micki83(m): 2:14pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Tallesty, I think some people can love u even when u're broke. The important thing is: do u have potentials? Do u have a good personality? Many people are materialistic,true, but not everybody. What would u say about couples who dated while poor, and still got married while poor?(Not an ideal situation,but e dey happen). 17 Likes |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by Nobody: 2:15pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
God bless dis op. Without money,a relationship MAY NOT stand. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by pickabeau1: 2:17pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
all because i no get money Tallesty1 1 Like |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by Nobody: 2:18pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Nairaland presidoo Mehn if dis doesn't make fp I go deactivate my acct and stop visiting nl 3 Likes |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by Nobody: 2:20pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
tonsye2much your inspiration charm is really working. The charm don catch tallesty1 too. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by kagari: 2:22pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Some points conflicts though or are they independent of each other, i mean the points |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by Nobody: 2:23pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
I will have my own money and date broke guys. It means he has to be submissive to me. 14 Likes |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by Tallesty1(m): 2:24pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
pickabeau1:I hear. Ppl dey here wey fit teach you how to make money sha...... |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by IamLEGEND1: 2:25pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
So in summary,broke guys no get hope b dat. 1 Like |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by Tallesty1(m): 2:26pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by Tallesty1(m): 2:27pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Bunsky:Hahahahahah. |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by jmoore(m): 2:30pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Summary>> Money answereth all things. |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by Hedybee(f): 2:31pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
. 2 Likes |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by kozaic(f): 2:31pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Thanx for yarning the truth. #salute! |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by technokid(m): 2:31pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Abeg this has to make front page. Let me another rule. RULE 8: If u are broke, you settle for less: If u don't have the money you end up dating a girl you really don't like cos the ones u like need dependable guys and u aint 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by Tallesty1(m): 2:32pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
micki83:For how long? It may be sweet in the beginning but the sweetness will wear off when financial problems arise.. 2 Likes |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by dhamstar(m): 2:33pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Like seriously........................ Oh boy I'm laughing in Swahilli |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by Tallesty1(m): 2:33pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
VickyyB:*Jumps inside gutter, drowns* |
Re: Top Seven Reasons Why Broke Guys Should Not Date. by dhamstar(m): 2:34pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Like seriously........................ Oh boy I'm laughing in Swahilli Have you forgotten that love don't cost a thing! |
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