It was so joyful when the pastor called them for the church to pray for them, they just got engaged some 2 weeks ago preparing for the main wedding. The pastor called Joshua and Cynthia forth, the church prayed for them and they went back to their seats. After the service the pastor called them both to his office for some few advice, he advised them not to engage in any sexual act till they are fully married as husband and wife, they also told him that the wedding had been fixed to 4 months from that day and they have started arrangements. The pastor gave them his blessings and they left.

2 weeks later Cynthia was coming back from the boutique where she went to check price listing of some the items she need for the wedding, she branched to Joshua’s house to see him, she had already called him and told him she was coming. She got there, they chatted, talked and played, next Joshua held Cynthia’s hands, he tried kissing her but she quickly removed her lips, she moved a step backward from him. “Not again” Joshua said as he tries picking a fight. He wants to have sex with her but she refused. Joshua was angry because each time he wants to have his way, she will always tell him to wait till their wedding night, he said he was tired of waiting and they are already engaged, their wedding has been fixed which is less than 3 months so why can’t they do it because she has nothing to lose because they are engaged. Cynthia told him that she too was having the urge to have sex but she is controlling herself. She tried advising him to wait a little while, as she was doing that, Joshua angrily stood up, took his car keys and left the house. This was not the first time this kind of incident is happening, it has happened many times even before their engagement. For over 9 months now Cynthia have been turning that offer of having sex with him down. She is in her middle 30s and still a virgin, she has been waiting for suitors to come, no one showed up and this one that came she is about to lose him. She is under pressure from friends and family to get married, is not her fault, she will not search for suitors by herself and she has to wait for them to come. All these were Cynthia’s thoughts since it has been over a week of the last incident and Joshua has not called her.

2 days later, Cynthia visited Joshua; she told him she will have sex with him. To her she was feeling she had nothing to lose, at least they are engaged and preparing for the wedding. They had sex which I believe they enjoyed. After the act 2 days later, Joshua went to Cynthia’s parents; he told them he wasn’t interested in the marriage any more. He went to the pastor and told him too and that the wedding is cancelled. He finally called Cynthia and told her he wasn’t interested in the marriage. Guess the reason he gave? He said Cynthia is so energetic in bed and that he doesn’t think he can satisfy her sexually, the sex they had she was even craving for more. He also said that he can’t marry people like that because when their husband can’t satisfy her, she can go outside to find a better person. That was the excuse he gave. Everybody begged and tried to bring them together but Joshua refused. The day fixed for the wedding came and gone and no wedding took place. All these are part of Cynthia’s woes.

http://www.hovabuzz.com/frontline/921-the-act-that-caused-her-woes

Cock and bull silly , hopeless and foolish stories!!

it is really not easy for ladies wen it comes to getting a lyf partner and I feel for them

kenrish2:
it is really not easy for ladies wen it comes to getting a lyf partner and I feel for them

that is how life is. Sometimes, they want to keep the one they have