Krak:
Recording their conversation makes you obviously a smart person. But you need to prove you can really act smart by doing the right thing.

You should let go of her immediately, and please do not allow emotions to stand in your way or else you will be digging your own grave if you still continue with her.

ezeonline2:
I have been dating my lady for 3 yrs now so I decided to take the relationship to the nest level,I proposed marriage to her and she said yes. I took her home officially, introduce her to my parent,they were happy,welcomed her and made her feel at home,she even slept in my mum's room that night. We decided to go see her people the following weekend,when we got there things were not as I was expecting.her siblings welcomed me to there house,before her mum could even come out of her room to greet me it took her about an hour and when she finally came out she just greeted me shabbily and they started speaking their language which I did nt understand,I notice they were speaking and laughing out loud with my wife so I decided to record all their conversation. After about 2 hours of staying there I called my lady n told her I will b going,she told her people in language and they just reacted as if I am a friend of the lady,I quietly walk out to my car and drove off. When I got home I called a good friend of my that understands the language to come and interpret all they have said,I play the recorded voices to my friend and he just kept laughing,he asked me who owns the voices n I had to lie to him that its for a colleague of mine at work that want to the meaning of what thay said. He told me everything word to word,the way thay abused me and my family but the most annoying thing is that my lady joined them to abuse me instead of her to defend me,she said its because am a guy of potentials and the fact that am finacially stable that's why she want to settle for me. I have been unable to eat n slept since yesterday because of what I heard. I love the lady so much pls I need a matured advise on what step to take nest because am so confused now. Thanks in anticipation.

LEvuls:
Why did you go and record their conversation, do u know if they were joking, perhaps its their family routine or way of doing tinz...3yrs isnt a joke with ur to be spouse now all those sacrifices put in till now is all nothing.

brace ursef up, calm down and wait to hear from her/them, monitor her/their moves towards u and commit every every to God, if its meant to be it will be....no Asiri (gossip) Under can stop it.

fairygeh:
What's this one saying?

firstEVA:
First of all, change that nest to next, then PLEASE end that relationship, she knows you love her, she's taking advantage of you to your detriment, you won't enjoy that marriage. Tell your folks what transpired, and call it off, the lord be with you.

Eugenedimgba:
Find somebody else that understands the language and let him/her decipher the conversations.If it's similar to what the first person said,walk up to her with the evidence and ask her to explain what they were laughing about.At the end,you just have to quit the relationship but let her and the parents understand the reason u left.Its better that way to clear of your conscience and move on.

LEvuls:

Na hu bleep ur brain out

fairygeh:
What's this one saying?

ezeonline2:
. Thanks bro bt my problem is that shld I confront her with my evidence or what shld I do

fairygeh:
Silence is the best answer for a never do well like u

Krak:
Recording their conversation makes you obviously a smart person. But you need to prove you can really act smart by doing the right thing.

You should let go of her immediately, and please do not allow emotions to stand in your way or else you will be digging your own grave if you still continue with her.

LEvuls:
Why did you go and record their conversation, do u know if they were joking, perhaps its their family routine or way of doing tinz...3yrs isnt a joke with ur to be spouse now all those sacrifices put in till now is all nothing.

brace ursef up, calm down and wait to hear from her/them, monitor her/their moves towards u and commit every every to God, if its meant to be it will be....no Asiri (gossip) Under can stop it.

donsalvy:
this my brother didn't read the post a'all.



OP, kill the fuckktard and her mother. End of story.

firstEVA:
isn't that rather extreme? Or are you a killer?

I'm not a killer.

donsalvy:
I'm not a killer.

ezeonline2:
I have been dating my lady for 3 yrs now so I decided to take the relationship to the nest level,I proposed marriage to her and she said yes. I took her home officially, introduce her to my parent,they were happy,welcomed her and made her feel at home,she even slept in my mum's room that night. We decided to go see her people the following weekend,when we got there things were not as I was expecting.her siblings welcomed me to there house,before her mum could even come out of her room to greet me it took her about an hour and when she finally came out she just greeted me shabbily and they started speaking their language which I did nt understand,I notice they were speaking and laughing out loud with my wife so I decided to record all their conversation. After about 2 hours of staying there I called my lady n told her I will b going,she told her people in language and they just reacted as if I am a friend of the lady,I quietly walk out to my car and drove off. When I got home I called a good friend of my that understands the language to come and interpret all they have said,I play the recorded voices to my friend and he just kept laughing,he asked me who owns the voices n I had to lie to him that its for a colleague of mine at work that want to the meaning of what thay said. He told me everything word to word,the way thay abused me and my family but the most annoying thing is that my lady joined them to abuse me instead of her to defend me,she said its because am a guy of potentials and the fact that am finacially stable that's why she want to settle for me. I have been unable to eat n slept since yesterday because of what I heard. I love the lady so much pls I need a matured advise on what step to take nest because am so confused now. Thanks in anticipation.