shegsky:


If you believe this guy looks WOWO- ISH, Click like.

sammy042:
1.They may take emotional,moral,physical or financial advantages of you in a daily life because you are being nice and do not have the heart to say NO.
2.They will start taking you for granted thinking "oh he's too nice,he won't say anything.Mr nice guy.
3.You may always be the one to bow down out of arguments simply because you habituated to being nice.
4.They will soon start finding you boring.
5.if you are just too nice to your partner all the time,you may find yourself doing all the work..
6.Being too nice may make you the victim of practical jokes because you will not be expected to retaliate.
7.You stop being yourself.
8.you will start living according to their expectation.friend-zone.
9.you rarely say no to request.mugu,maga etc
10.95 percent of nigerian ladies don't date mr nice guy.



Excess of anything is too bad,it's good to be nice but not uber-nice...i don't knw how true this statement is"Nice guy finish last"....be Real

drlawizle:


I was expecting this response from a female...say what you want..you ladies have a thought pattern it took me a long time to know...now i know & i handle you the way you want to be handled....why wont i call someone who has always been calling me & i cut her calls because i dont have her time..how wont i call someone who might need my medical advise after i see 12missed calls on myphone...she herself said she think sey i be senator the first day she saw me.. God knows i only took pity on her &never thought of using money to get to her pants...yet because of the way you women think i was expecting her to think she has caught a big fool...the fact is dat you women get the men you deserve..rude boys who wont give you a penny even if you need it badly...not because they are wicked but because you will automatically lose interest in such a guy & you will think hes a maga...most times we have to be harsh & wicked b4 you understand say our niceness is not our way of trying to get to your pants..otherwise your minds av been configured not to understand...that is women for you...ever since i knew you folks,ive been catching fun with yall,ive been having intercourse for free,chiks have been paying my tfare and pretty chiks have been seducing me...i'm having fun cos women are actually wonderful but if you dont undedstand dem...you will suffer in their hands weda you are nice or not..

andromida:


Wow! Well if this is how you see women then you will have the kind of women who understand the kind of language you speak.

drlawizle:


I know your type...

andromida:


Wow! Well if this is how you see women then you will have the kind of women who understand the kind of language you speak.

andromida:


You think?

drlawizle:


Just as i said you folks are very easy to understand...sharp guys just act the fool to get what they want...cos they know you like feeling mysterious...it makes you feel special aint it?

Well anything that rocks your boat..as long as i have y'all dancing skelewu on me..i could care less

englishmart:
I will continue to be nice to ladies. If they mess up, karma is always ready to strike

andromida:


All the best with the skelewu dancers.

blakky97:


Nairaland is gradually turning into a male chauvinist play ground. All topics that show women as negative creatures make front page, and get too much attention. Why should there be a topic like: disadvantage of being nice to women. We re in a modern world now, some women are far above men socially, mentally, financially and what have you. It takes a proud man to think he's superior to somebody on account that she's female. A woman in an oil company for instance is far above those men with dried bier bier and big dirty long sleeve shirts in faded trousers and filed shoes still telling themselves " I won't marry her if... I won't be nice to women because,.." Its time to open our minds and see life as real as it is rather than as we wish or imagine it to be.

Mprex:
Op, pls define the word;NICE

sammy042:
pleasant or pleasing or agreeable in nature or apperance..usag-what a nice fellow you are and thought you so nasty..do not get me wrong.being too nice to ladies is not good but is good to be nice..am jst sain wit my experinc

smajatt:



i believe there should be a dislike button on this forum......

Lordabas:




Theres a major difference between being a nice guy & being a push over

Btw confident nice guys get grabbed onto and never let go, only nice guys who are shy go unnoticed.
So shy guys finish last

chimerase2:
I have been frendzoned a lot
That was why I quite chatting be it BBM FB whatsap etc all of them closed down except nairaland wich to me is not a chatting network rada a jonzing network

englishmart:
I will continue to be nice to ladies. If they mess up, karma is always ready to strike

FeverRay:
I stopped being a nice guy when my Ex's friends told me I over pampered her when she started misbehaving. Now my current gf is complaining that I'm too harsh on her

donroxy:
even when you have money Love will search for you .... It may be fake or real but Love will surely search for you with ego, kudi , owo !!

purplekayc:
money cannot buy emotional entanglement

Lordabas:





Some women will mistake your kindness for weakness!

waley007:
I have been very nice to my girlfriend kemi and she has really taken me for granted..she even cheated wit a guy abroad which I nabbed her yesterday,saw dia chat..now shes proving sturborn and arrogant to me..at times its good to be nice and its also not good to be nice,if I had been a bad guy,den I would have been bad....dont know if I should continue with her afta she begged me but shes still proving sturborn with it

Biggty:
Am not nice at all most women i've met always tells me am not the romantic type, that i don't know how to treat a lady and am not the caring type. To top it up am kinda of stingy when it comes to spending money on girls.