We've been friends for a year now. I get to know her through my girlfriend who's also her friend. This friend of mine always request money for her upkeep which my girl won't know about. When I have I do give her somtimes I don't. One day, I took a bold step and ask her don't she have a boyfriend, am i the. one who should be responsible for her needs? she reply she dont. And said want friends for if I can't help her. Is she right? Remember we're not into any sort of relationship and do not share any affection.

Sow for you shall Reap tomorrow

Help her.. But i think u should let ur gf know.. Just incase.

That one concern you

so boyfs are for upkeeps! Interesting.

Even if you are her boyfriend, I don't believe you have any responsibility for her upkeep. For crying out loud, you are not her parent

It's cool if you choose to help her with the consent of your girl but you owe her no such responsibility.

You are not in anyway responsible for that unless you choose to. I guess you started it all by claiming you are too nice from the beginning.

"Just friends?" lol

EroticAngelina:
Help her.. But i think u should let ur gf know.. Just incase.

girls will always stand up for each other first before even taking time to assess d situation. so he should keep giving her money while someone else is shining her Congo? n u c nothing wrong in a girl continously asking a guy for money with the lame excuse that 'what r friends for if u can't help me'.

Post your account balance before I give you an advice.

striktlymi:
Even if you are her boyfriend, I don't believe you have any responsibility for her upkeep. For crying out loud, you are not her parent

It's cool if you choose to help her with the consent of your girl but you owe her no such responsibility.

as her bf u hv a lot of responsibility for her upkeep. I can't personally date a lady who wouldn't b at least financially dependent on me for one thing or the other. Besides it's stingy for her to give u her self n all u do is sweet talk her...spend on ur woman. Infact if she asks for nothing she deserves everything.

Prixus:

as her bf u hv a lot of responsibility for her upkeep. I can't personally date a lady who wouldn't b at least financially dependent on me for one thing or the other. Besides it's stingy for her to give u her self n all u do is sweet talk her...spend on ur woman. Infact if she asks for nothing she deserves everything.

No lady owe a guy 'her self', except the lady is the guys wife.

A lady who gives herself to a guy because she feels obligated to, is very silly and unwise. You won't catch me within a mile of such a lady.

I do not owe any lady, who is not my wife, the responsibility for her upkeep. If you choose to take it as your responsibility then well and good, not me.

chidyhels:
so boyfs are for upkeeps! Interesting.

other than upkeep n sex what else r they for? marriage? if na so girls won't hv so mny n bleep so many before settling down with only one.

I just don't know what to tell this Maga

striktlymi:


No lady owe a guy 'her self', except the lady is the guys wife.

A lady who gives herself to a guy because she feels obligated to, is very silly and unwise. You won't catch me within a mile of such a lady.

I do not owe any lady, who is not my wife, the responsibility for her upkeep. If you choose to take it as your responsibility then well and good, not me.

I c ur point. I take it u can't have a gf then...

valmunich:
I just don't know what to tell this Maga

lol...Bros u wicked o...u don go talk d thing wey everybody get for mind...

Ode oshi

YoungWiseCash:
We've been friends for a year now. I get to know her through my girlfriend who's also her friend. This friend of mine always request money for her upkeep which my girl won't know about. When I have I do give her somtimes I don't. One day, I took a bold step and ask her don't she have a boyfriend, am i the. one who should be responsible for her needs? she reply she dont. And said want friends for if I can't help her. Is she right? Remember we're not into any sort of relationship and do not share any affection.

OP its a question of am i responsible for Down keeps

If u do then anything she asks for shouldnt be a worry to you

Starting what you can't finish.. Dude can't keep up .. Niggar want out heheh

Dude, I just have one question. Are you her only friend? Even if you are, you must stop this useless act immediately whether you have a girlfriend or not. How can someone use "friendship" as a means to extort you and you agree? 1) Friends are not parasites. You had better unfriend her in your interest.

jmoore:
Post your account balance before I give you an advice.

If I post the screenshot of my account balance you will be moved to require for my address. lol

valmunich:
I just don't know what to tell this Maga

....talking as if you are different.

gonon:
Dude, I just have one question. Are you her only friend? Even if you are, you must stop this useless act immediately whether you have a girlfriend or not. How can someone use "friendship" as a means to extort you and you agree? 1) Friends are not parasites. You had better unfriend her in your interest.

putting what you said in consideration.. I think you hav a point in what you said.

YoungWiseCash:
....talking as if you are different.

I bet you're the OP

Mister get this straight, you're the greatest Maga ever liveth trust me. .. How can you allow someone extort you in the name of 'friendship'

Don't you have a family member to help

A little generosity, they want to take full advantage. That is why I grow wary of them. :-(

valmunich:

I bet you're the OP

Mister get this straight, you're the greatest Maga ever liveth trust me. .. How can you allow someone extort you in the name of 'friendship'

Don't you have a family member to help

Don't want to reply you with the tune you used. Two people can't be mad at the same time. that's you own point of veiw.. Thanks. anyway for your opinion.

chidyhels:
so boyfs are for upkeeps! Interesting.

In fact I'm confused

Prixus:

girls will always stand up for each other first before even taking time to assess d situation. so he should keep giving her money while someone else is shining her Congo? n u c nothing wrong in a girl continously asking a guy for money with the lame excuse that 'what r friends for if u can't help me'.

dont be stupid! I didnt say it was right u i diot i just said he can help her, but he should consult his gf first. What if the case was reversed? She will help him. We should help others if we can and have the money. Its selfish guys like u that later become poor (if ur not already poor sef) in future because of how stingy and self centered u were to others. So he must shine her congo bfor he helps her?? U see how stupidd u sound? Peverted humanbeing. Mtchew

EroticAngelina:
dont be stupid! I didnt say it was right u i diot i just said he can help her, but he should consult his gf first. What if the case was reversed? She will help him. We should help others if we can and have the money. Its selfish guys like u that later become poor (if ur not already poor sef) in future because of how stingy and self centered u were to others. So he must shine her congo bfor he helps her?? U see how stupidd u sound? Peverted humanbeing. Mtchew

I'm sorry. I don't trade insults on NL...

Why are you guys calling the op unflattering names? Do you guys not see his moniker? "Youngwisecash".

I beg op carry on, she must chop your money, chop your money, chop your money cos you don't care.

Prixus:

I'm sorry. I don't trade insults on NL...

whatevs, just dont quote me ever again. I dont chit-chat with lame ppl on nl.thanks.