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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by loshybab(m): 5:17pm On Oct 29, 2017 |
Empiree:It's now getting interesting. perhaps,you're unknowingly putting my innate 'secret service' skills to test... You'll get my mention soon for your answer...trust me! 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Ssthorm(f): 6:05pm On Oct 29, 2017 |
loshybab:Lol sure, yar arewa... |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by loshybab(m): 6:15pm On Oct 29, 2017 |
Ssthorm:I knew it... Sannun ki.....Hausa or fulani? |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by jiddama(f): 7:49pm On Oct 29, 2017 |
Mofpearl:^^^That's a conversation I will like to have with my future spouse..... well said 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Ssthorm(f): 9:28pm On Oct 29, 2017 |
loshybab:Both |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by loshybab(m): 10:34pm On Oct 29, 2017 |
Ssthorm:which one is your dad? coz I'm guessing your dad is one and your mum is the other. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Ssthorm(f): 7:44am On Oct 30, 2017 |
loshybab: Haba.. uve not heard of hausa-fulani bfre? |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by loshybab(m): 1:23pm On Oct 30, 2017 |
Ssthorm:Like seriously! yarwa na! there is nothing like hausa-fulani,it's either you hausa or fulani coz they are two different ethnic entities. If your dad is Hausa and ur mum fulani, you're hausa but just not a full-blooded one and vice-versa. It's like when a product of a marriage btw hausa and Yoruba claims to be a 'hausa-yoruba',where is the sense in that? Bottom line is you're either a fulani or hausa! so,which one are you princess? |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Usernamesucks: 10:47pm On Nov 03, 2017 |
Ssthorm:Assalamu alaikum Doc. I see you're an abusite, yeah? |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Ssthorm(f): 2:05pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Usernamesucks: Hmnn.. lol. Wat infos hav u collated? |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Usernamesucks: 3:32pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Ssthorm: Nothing at all. Just the obvious: hausa-fulani, medical student, ABU and a passionate muslimah. I used to be an ABUSITE. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Ssthorm(f): 6:30pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Usernamesucks: Lol..cool ya i am. A.B.U |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Usernamesucks: 7:43pm On Nov 04, 2017 |
Ssthorm: Cool. In baki damu ba, ina son muyi magana amma ba a nan ba. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Ssthorm(f): 9:31pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Usernamesucks: Ok |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Curiouscat: 10:22pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Bikudiratillahi... I will be doing Akhidu nikkah in a week time. It is still all looking like a dream tho, but i just have my mind made up already. My only fear is having wifey change over night to a stranger i never know. That thought alone scare the shit outta me. May Allah grants all the seeking Brothers and Sisters their heart desires. 5 Likes |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Adebayolove(m): 12:49pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
Curiouscat:aameen. You are not alone in your fear. May Allaah make you coolness of each other eyes. Baraka lahu fih. 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Empiree: 5:47pm On Nov 06, 2017 |
WHO AGREES WITH HER? *THIS WAS ESTABLISHED BY MRS MARTHA DE PURENEZ, WHO DIED AT THE AGE OF 104, AND SHE SPENT 82 YEARS IN MARRIAGE, AND SHE SAID THIS.* "I know that young ladies will never agree with me, but whoever will implement this shall be the happiest of all and shall make a nice home; unless otherwise." ITEMS 1. The husband is always right 2. The husband is always the master of the family even if he has no job and NO MONEY 3. The wife must ask for permission from the husband before going to bed if the husband isn't yet in bed, as well as before turning her face away from him on the bed. The husband is still the master and has full control on all the operations even in bed 4. If there is a quarrel with the husband and then a visitor comes, the wife should smile as if nothing happened 5. Anytime the wife thinks she is right in a matter, she should refer herself to Article number 1 6. A good wife must go to bed in her nightdress with no panties or bra, (except during your monthly flow, which he must know about) to allow the husband access to her at any time he feels like (NOTE: *All women should note that this is a man's greatest desire in marriage* - especially if he loves the woman) 7. A woman MUST NEVER refuse her husband's romance expect on the grounds of health and prayers. *Even in such cases she must POLITELY and LOVINGLY explain to him* 8. When the husband is shouting, the wife keeps quiet and that is the time to apologize for whatever has upset him. (NOTE: *Apologizing to him after you have shouted back and insulted him DOES NOT WORK!)* 10. The wife should always seek the husband's permission before making any decision except where he has previously granted you the permission on that particular issue 10. A wife should always excuse the husband to the children if he comes home late. 11. Even on a personal matter a wife waits for her husband with her ideas but must take those of her husband when he is back home 12. The wife must never use work in the day as excuse to deny him at night. Let him be the one to say, "Oh, you must be tired after all the stress of the day!" It is best that way. 13. The wife never goes to sit down in her husband's office unless in an urgent case or an emergency. A good husband too will not come and sit in your office. 14. A good wife does not embark on any kind of expenses without consulting the husband *even if it is your own money*. A good husband too will not control your money. 15. The best way to settle misunderstandings is in the bedroom. If a misunderstanding lingers and he does not make a move in bed, *a good wife should make the move* 16. The wife never refuses to prepare his meals, even if he is refusing to eat due to annoyance. *When he has refused 2 meals, prepare his favorite, with tempting treats* 17. The wife has no orders to give to her husband, but she receives orders from him 18. *The wife must always respect the husband*. Next to freedom of access to his wife's body, this is a man's most important concern 19. The wife has to control her jealousy and never show it in public 20. The good wife pays visits to her parents as well as to her in-laws *only* with the permission of the husband. And under normal circumstances, accompanied by the husband 21. A good wife never entertains guests in her home without the husband's knowledge and consent. *Not even your own relations*. 22. NEVER ENTERTAIN *ANY MALE GUEST* WITHOUT HIS KNOWLEDGE. *Not even his own blood brother* He may not talk or complain about some, but be sure he has counted it against you. 23. The wife *never* goes out anywhere without permission from her husband *NB:* My dear fellow woman, I want you to know that *THE POWER OF A GOOD WIFE IS IN HER WEAKNESS*. Please, as stupid as this may sound to you, use it and watch your husband become your lover once again. This is my secret recipe for a happy marriage and full control of my home. *I did all the above and I was the one running the home; NOT MY HUSBAND!* His love and respect for me was second to none. And I know that's why God has also granted us long life to enjoy each other the more. Also forward this to your female friends, *especially the married ones*, this will help them a lot. #Copied 2 Likes |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Curiouscat: 6:26am On Nov 07, 2017 |
Amin. Thanks Bro. Jazakumullahi akhira. Adebayolove: |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Ssthorm(f): 7:14am On Nov 11, 2017 |
Empiree: D point on here is trying to stay "married"... wud u hav a woman remain unhappy cux she wants to stay married? |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by aril: 1:48pm On Nov 12, 2017 |
Ssthorm: How will a woman remain unhappy becoz she want to make the marry worthwhile and always please her husband? |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by yhermmie(f): 4:56pm On Nov 14, 2017 |
Hello... 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by deeyor(f): 7:45am On Dec 01, 2017 |
Curiouscat: I am sure she had that fear too so it's a two way street. go in with a clean heart. may Allah bless the union. 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Curiouscat: 10:17am On Dec 01, 2017 |
Amin. Thanks for stopping by to drop those words. deeyor: |
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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Ssthorm(f): 6:30am On Dec 27, 2017 |
aril: Nevermind if u dnt get it. Its all good. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 11:18pm On Jan 13, 2018 |
There is a question which I want u to put more light to it . My question is , Today on my way back from work I decided to pray solatu ishaa . There was a man who was laying on the floor inside the mosjid , though the people thought he was sleeping until a man went to woke him up for the solaa . Subhan Allah He notice that the man is about to die , People were wondering about what has happened to him . They don't know his father , mother, siblings or any of his relative . As time goes on the people abandoned the man who was about to die and pray the solaatu ishaa . My question is was this right or wrong coz later on after the ishaa it was about 5 minutes after they announced to the people to help the man who was about to die . Pls is this right ? Salaam aleikum |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Empiree: 11:52pm On Jan 14, 2018 |
jimohmustapha502:They are very wrong if your narration is true. Did he later die?. And how did you know he was about to die?. Or he might be sick with stomach bug etc?. Either way, someone in a pain like that needs medical attention and should have been attended to before solat commenced or they should have appointed people to take him to nearby care center while salat is on. They should never abandoned him |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 8:15am On Jan 15, 2018 |
Empiree: After we finish prayer nobody stand up to take him to the hospital . It was later on about five minutes when I leave the mosjid I was hearing the imam saying let's contribute money for this man live . I don't know if he later died. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Empiree: 9:52am On Jan 15, 2018 |
jimohmustapha502:this is very bad. You don't wait till after you finished salah to help in an emergency. Seems Imam is not vast in figh. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 11:23am On Jan 15, 2018 |
Empiree: K tanx |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by busar(m): 11:51am On Jan 15, 2018 |
The solah should not be abandoned for that still. What they could have done is for the imam to appoint some set of people to take care of that while he leads others for solah. Allah knows best |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Empiree: 4:19pm On Jan 15, 2018 |
Even during salah, if someone collapses, shariah says people next to him (at least 2 people) should break salah and attend to the victim. This is how important life is. There are instance where in sujud for instance, someone suffers heart attack or at point of death. We may not know bcuz we understand some people stay long in sujud until salah is finish. That's a different case. But in this case where salah was yet to start, he should have been attended to right away. These things we learned at ile keu. They are parts of basic knowledge of figh. |
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