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Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 7:26am On Dec 27, 2014 |
zeedof: May almighty Allah grant u ur heart desires 2 Likes |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Davivah: 8:56am On Dec 27, 2014 |
maclatunji: Y ARE YOU STILL SINGLE |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Davivah: 9:02am On Dec 27, 2014 |
mmmustapha: Job n Resources are enuf for now |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Davivah: 9:09am On Dec 27, 2014 |
luv2talk: Thats an acheivement, but i still suggest you get something else apart from ths blogging kini..... |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 10:10am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Abuklaw:Salam brother Ameen to your dua.I have performed istikhara few times. And it's helping me to guide my decision making. I always have another problem that the more responble men i have met are christains I really do not want to marry a christian. The last time I travelled home my mum was suggesting when next I visit maybe I should maybe do an introduction with with a christian guy i once introduced. Although I have stopped communicating with him. I don't like meeting people online because it's quite risky but I will try the website. 3 Likes |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by yuskanovic(m): 1:35pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
larza:ALLAH will provide a Godly, loving and caring MUSLIM dude for you soon sister, but please do not marry a KAFIR cox u'll be deviating from the injunction of ALLAH if you do. Trust in ALLAH and all will be well. 4 Likes |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by maclatunji: 1:57pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Davivah: Hahaha... I was not ready by myself for a long time and I did not find anyone that meets my personal preferences. I am beginning to think of someone but nothing concrete. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by maclatunji: 1:58pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
^A few rejections too. 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Abuklaw(m): 3:20pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
maclatunji:my sisters will not reject you. Should i match you? 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by bimp08: 3:22pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
pls where is deols nw n toba |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 3:32pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
sportfeva:Thanks for the advice May Allah guide us to the right path I am hoping for th best and I put all my trust in Almighty Allah (SWT) 2 Likes |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by maclatunji: 9:51am On Dec 28, 2014 |
Abuklaw: Your actual sisters? 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by yuskanovic(m): 8:22am On Dec 29, 2014 |
HUSBAND SCARCITY! This may not be the best time for me to write on this because of misinterpretations, but I can no longer resist the push. """Husband Scarcity""" has become one of the challenges faced by many muslima today. If you go to prayer houses, majority of the intentions are prayer for a life partner. And this calls for concern. Casting our minds back to the time of our mothers and grandmothers, was there really much of a "Husband Scarcity" problem? Or, maybe there were more men than women then, or there was an adequate corresponding numbers of both genders. I don't think so. Maybe then, the women had values and were prepared to build a home and not park into a built home. Then, once a young man comes of age and can at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman really appreciates him and helps him to build a future. What am I really trying to insinuate? We created what we now see as "Husband Scarcity" for ourselves. Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an average girl to define her dream husband; you get things like "he has to be tall, handsome, fair, and rich, own a house at least, and be presentable" and then she adds "God fearing" in order not to sound so worldly. Then, check the number of girls around you and the number of men that meet that standard, and you will see the problem. You would be hearing girls say, "I cannot suffer in my father's house and then go and start suffering with a man." What a wonderful dream! What if from the beginning, you have everything you want and there is no suffering, and later in the marriage, the table turns around, then comes suffering? Will you run away? No one prays for suffering, but it is good to start small and end big, than start big and end small. The problem is that the description majority of ladies give of their ideal man is virtually the same. When 50 ladies want the same kind of man and the man that fits what they want is just 1 man, and the man can only pick one. Then, what becomes of 49 others? They simply start lamenting of "Husband Scarcity". Another irony of our time is that it is hard, due to the face of our economy to find a man who is of marriage age who possesses all those things these ladies want, legally (except those involved in Internet fraud); even the number of those in Internet fraud is not enough to match all those searching for already made husbands. If you look around, majority of the ladies of substance, of good value and virtue, who are ready to build a home with a man who has prospects, are married and not complaining of husband scarcity. The easiest way to find a husband now, is to change your view of who a husband is. A husband is that man God made and then saw that it may be hard for man to really actualize the purpose for making him, without a help mate and then made the woman and gave to him, and he felt complete and fulfilled. MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family that will serve God here on earth. For those who see marriage as a way out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. Women are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS... DON'T CONFUSE A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY. Where he is today, may only be a route to where God has destined him to be tomorrow. Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT HIS DESTINATION. Join in alleviating "husband scarcity". PICK UP THE RIGHT VALUES. I am not saying that you should pick anyone that comes your way and talks of marriage, not all men are husband materials. What I am insinuating is that you should stop setting your standard on material acquisitions or physical appearances. Look metaphysical (beyond physical). WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF. And that which he is made of is, most times, not seen with the physical eyes, only its effects can be seen. Marriage is a permanent thing. Whatever is seen is temporal and that which is not seen is permanent. Relax and go to Allaah in prayer. Allaah did not just make Eve for making sake; He made her for Adam's need. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Davivah: 10:19am On Dec 29, 2014 |
maclatunji: OH! SO GUYS ARE PICKY TOO.....Religion,beauty? Barakallahu fihi in your search 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by maclatunji: 9:18pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Davivah: LOL. Ameen and yours too. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by ajani683(m): 12:17pm On May 22, 2015 |
Amin |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by salisy: 12:20pm On May 22, 2015 |
As for me two things are involved:
1. Educational engagements
2. Financial inadequacy
And i believe status will change in the nearest future Insha Allah 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by 1stola: 12:30pm On May 22, 2015 |
*spreads mat* Torchlighting one beautiful sister to hit |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by lanre88(m): 12:43pm On May 22, 2015 |
Am still searching for the right person. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 12:52pm On May 22, 2015 |
Still Searching............ .But mine wi be contract marriage. |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by tplacid: 1:05pm On May 22, 2015 |
Assalam Alaykum ma'am Can you send me a mail tunde.rahman@gmail.com....sorry to ask you this way but it's the best way I feel we can communicate . I will tell you everything about me and don't worry I have my own gig.........am a consultant so am good In Sha Allah I will look forward to hearing from you. Salam! 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by eeshfar(f): 1:11pm On May 22, 2015 |
Masha Allah. Thnx op.. There is dis cousin of myn wit a high level of shahwa since d age of 14. She's 19 now but all those coming to seek for her hand In marriage are after something else. Is dere a solution or a way to reduce high shahwa level?? |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 1:19pm On May 22, 2015 |
eeshfar: please i am serious o. I havent seen the right muslimah. This is my contact: Email: adekunleman@yahoo.com Phone number: 08186971526 May Allah help us and guide us aright. Amin 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by eeshfar(f): 1:20pm On May 22, 2015 |
usqoh:Amin |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Nobody: 1:21pm On May 22, 2015 |
eeshfar:Fasting regular wil be helpful in reducin her Shaawa, 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by 1stola: 1:23pm On May 22, 2015 |
Wealthyone:... If I love you, i wont just say it 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by eeshfar(f): 1:24pm On May 22, 2015 |
Eco2580:Masha Allah. Tnx 1 Like |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by kudus007(m): 1:31pm On May 22, 2015 |
ameen sister |
Re: Muslim Singles: Why Are You Not Married? by Wealthyone: 1:46pm On May 22, 2015 |
1stola: |
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