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Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by Deshannel(m): 3:09pm On Dec 14, 2014
'‘How important is sex in a relationship? As
important as love! For me if u can’t f*ck well,
keep your love’' so says the controversial singer known as Maheeda in a recent tweet. She went on to say being awesome in bed is everything in a love relationship. she equated a man capable of giving her the kinda se.x she wants as able to win her heart rather than the one that has love to throw at her.
Now this got me thinking about how many ladies actually share the same view.
So ladies in the house, which would you prefer if you had to choose between two men that can offer only one or these services
(1) Good Se.x (but not a lover boy) or
(2) Love as we all know it (without being good in bed)?

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Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by waleadex(m): 3:31pm On Dec 14, 2014
The best is to be a caring love maker...

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Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by Nobody: 3:33pm On Dec 14, 2014
First you have to define what constitutes "$ex".

There are lots of things one can do besides or along with inter-course.

You just have to get creative.

It takes two to have great $ex.

So with that said.....

I will take great lover over great $ ex- er.

Great S.ex eventually fizzles out. But with Great love, you can always light the fire
again.
Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by aristocrazzy: 3:35pm On Dec 14, 2014
As a guy I got both.

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Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by golor(m): 3:36pm On Dec 14, 2014
D two re ingredient in a relationship
Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by emperorchedda(m): 5:38pm On Dec 14, 2014
Ladies will say they prefer a good lover meanwhile they secretly crave for sex monster #hypocrisy
Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by Kolade354(m): 5:55pm On Dec 14, 2014
emperorchedda:
Ladies will say they prefer a good lover meanwhile they secretly crave for sex monster #hypocrisy
i gbadun u ladies with their dirry trick.....if person no satisy them u go see dem dey knack ur bestfriend dat y i take care of my 8.7 inch dick
Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by Nobody: 5:56pm On Dec 14, 2014
Speechless
Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by Deshannel(m): 6:19pm On Dec 14, 2014
samflexxy:
Speechless
common say something tongue
Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by Deshannel(m): 6:23pm On Dec 14, 2014
Chiadanin:
First you have to define what constitutes "$ex".

There are lots of things one can do besides or along with inter-course.

You just have to get creative.

It takes two to have great $ex.

So with that said.....

I will take great lover over great $ ex- er.

Great S.ex eventually fizzles out. But with Great love, you can always light the fire
again.

don't you think its easier said than done? I'm just asking cos errr... i know for a fact that ladies do say bad se .x is a relationship killler.
Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by Crocz(m): 6:24pm On Dec 14, 2014
L comes first in English alphabet but unfortunately S comes first in mine!
Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by Awho(m): 6:26pm On Dec 14, 2014
Its been se.x since 1400 BC
Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by Nobody: 6:48pm On Dec 14, 2014
Deshannel:

don't you think its easier said than done? I'm just asking cos errr... i know for a fact that ladies do say bad se .x is a relationship killler.


What ladies are you listening to?

I have had great s.ex sans love.


At end of day, you will be empty. Sex becomes animal act not an expression of love.


My dear, always choose love over sex. It outlasts s.ex.

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Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by Tonydeeb(m): 8:08pm On Dec 14, 2014
What's the essence of going into a relationship based on se.x?...it so doesn't make sense..
To me, love is predominant over any oda thing...gr8 se.x can only be an added advantage...
or what's the benefit of getting beat up by your supposed partner each and every time all in the vanity of se.x is more important than love..
Then @ the end of the day, you claim you were used and dumped...SMH

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Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by thorbar(m): 9:11pm On Dec 14, 2014
Am here to read ladies comment..winks
Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by Nobody: 12:23am On Dec 15, 2014
Kolade354:
i gbadun u ladies with their dirry trick.....if person no satisy them u go see dem dey knack ur bestfriend [size=40pt]dat y i take care of my 8.7 inch dick[/size]
You go fear lies. grin

Meanwhile, at topic, I would go for the two qualities but if it must be one, caring lover is better.

Someone who is not sexually good can get better with improvement and learning unlike the former.
Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by Deshannel(m): 6:40am On Dec 15, 2014
VickyyB:


Meanwhile, at topic, I would go for the two qualities but if it must be one, caring lover is better.

Someone who is not sexually good can get better with improvement and learning unlike the former.
and if it doesn't get better, you'd still stay?? or you discover he can't do the do anymore (impotent)
Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by Deshannel(m): 6:44am On Dec 15, 2014
Chiadanin:



My dear, always choose love over sex. It outlasts s.ex.

I already know which of both I'd choose in any circumstance.
I want to know which one you'd choose, i.e: if he's Impotent. tongue
Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by Anwasia(m): 8:00am On Dec 15, 2014
One of the quality of being caring, is being Good in Bed
Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by Nobody: 8:25am On Dec 15, 2014
Deshannel:

and if it doesn't get better, you'd still stay?? or you discover he can't do the do anymore (impotent)
Rephrase your topic.
A dude who's not good in bed is different from an impotent man and he can get better.

I can't marry an impotent man except if he became impotent after marriage.

N/B- A guy who's wild in bed might also be impotent one day.
Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by Deshannel(m): 8:38am On Dec 15, 2014
Anwasia:
One of the quality of being caring, is being Good in Bed
we know that, but they (ladies) are asked which would be preferred if both are separated.
Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by Deshannel(m): 8:45am On Dec 15, 2014
Kolade354:
i gbadun u ladies with their dirry trick.....if person no satisy them u go see dem dey knack ur bestfriend dat y i take care of my 8.7 inch dick
you must be a beast to own such grin
Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by Nobody: 8:55am On Dec 15, 2014
Kolade354:
i gbadun u ladies with their dirry trick.....if person no satisy them u go see dem dey knack ur bestfriend dat y i take care of my 8.7 inch dick

dude stop craving attention. Good sex is not a function of size. Its how well u can use it and how long u can last. How long is a big dick when u cant give her orgasms? Huh?
Re: Good Bed Partner Vs Caring Lover by Deshannel(m): 11:47am On Dec 15, 2014
VickyyB:

Rephrase your topic.
A dude who's not good in bed is different from an impotent man and he can get better.

I can't marry an impotent man except if he became impotent after marriage

N/B- A guy who's wild in bed might also be impotent one day.
with this you've just declared his potency is needed.
OK I get you. what then happens after the impotency during marriage? aha!

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