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Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by adbokus(m): 7:35am On Dec 21, 2014 |
firstEVA:this sounds like a trick, a gambit..headship more or less should be about making decision that benefits the family both immediately and long-term, something the spouses must play active role in.. Being the head should not be a call to become a donkey who worked a thousand years to be a horse!... |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by cole265(m): 7:35am On Dec 21, 2014 |
Vivly: This is sarcastic hum? |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by ajuwarhodes(f): 7:36am On Dec 21, 2014 |
bennyrazz: Point less post |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by ajuwarhodes(f): 7:40am On Dec 21, 2014 |
Truckpusher: What a pity,so that's how ur sisters,cousin sister,daughters etc will remain single n frustrated 9 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by litetias(m): 7:41am On Dec 21, 2014 |
This Op is a dunce o! She wants to sound like a feminist fighting for women's right and gender equality but instead she sounds to me like an immature person trying to get noticed. All the feminists I know are well educated and articulate. What the hell is 'of all times'? Its 'of all time' Nonsense! 3 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by dinachi(m): 7:45am On Dec 21, 2014 |
Nigerian wives who are independent, submissive and humble are heroes loved dearly by their husbands,adored by their children. As for the few cursed, shallow, unwise and childish little girls here arguing blindly and foolishly confusing themselves with their imaginary image of what they want their husbands to be, I have one word for y'all. Dream on! Go and read about the richest black woman in the world Mrs Alakija and learn oh foolish woman that being successful does not mean you should be disrespectful and rude to your husband. We pick good ideas from western culture but we should not dump our own. It is time for western women to bring their asses down here and learn from the successful, hardworking, submissive and humble Nigerian wives. They need to learn some things from us. Their marriages and their men in the west will be better for it. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by olami100(m): 7:48am On Dec 21, 2014 |
firstEVA: let us even come to look at it.. Must every women depend on his guy financially..no any nigeria right thinking ladies will do that and No matter how a woman is independent, don't you think she would still solicit for little help from her husband in all aspect of her life... The problem wif some of you ladies is that you want a guy to do everything for you which can't be possible..even God that create you women says you are our helper.. Helper in terms of every aspect of lifer even finance is not excluded..so why comparing the westerners with nigeria...if u know what some westerners men do to their wife then you will praize nigeria men!! you said we want a humble loyal and a decent woman.. Don't be humble and decent and expect a good humble and decent man to marry you. May be you shud go the westerners where a woman can slap his husband, depend on his husband for finances, turn his husband to ATM machine...abegi if u don't like niger men!! Go and marry oyinbo!! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 7:48am On Dec 21, 2014 |
Yes they are hypocrites. They'll say they only like light skinned girls but if Tiwa Savage spreads it they'll plough that shyte all night. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by KanwuliaJara: 7:49am On Dec 21, 2014 |
* See HBP! SHAI!!! * dinachi: Mumu! Ala-OKIJA husband nor dey work o! Ashawo Mrs. dey feed am. . . .as usual with NIGERIAN MARRIAGES! After MRS. ALA-OKIJA. . . .what other names do you care to drop? BIANCAR-ONYE-FANNY-NKE-KAYODE? 1 Like |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 7:52am On Dec 21, 2014 |
deeptesting: I keep hearing this word "ungrateful". You sound so entitled. You are immature and not ready for marriage if you are expecting praise for everything you do. If you really love your wife, this wouldn't be a point. 7 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by dinachi(m): 7:55am On Dec 21, 2014 |
KanwuliaJara:I don't hold it against you at all. It is in your blood. All the women in your lineage do the same. You said so with your own mouth. 4 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by KanwuliaJara: 7:59am On Dec 21, 2014 |
dinachi: Shorrrrrrrrrop jor! ANGRY BIRD! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GUQv4Pir0tQ 4 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by kayusbrown(m): 8:00am On Dec 21, 2014 |
aisha2: You are one in a million. The average Nigerian girl don't marry for love. They marry for socio-economic benefits and to satisfy societal norms (the you must marry before 30 nonesense even if u're marrying ur enemy). It is marriages that are based on such faulty foundations that have issues like the one raised by the OP. Where there is love, a husband will see spending on his wife as spending on himself while the wife will respect her husband like she respects herself. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by iykedare(m): 8:01am On Dec 21, 2014 |
Evina: For Christ sake,why do people reason like this ? Op said that Nigerian men(your man inclusive ) are wack except her man and You see nothing wrong with such stooopid comment. 2 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Mariopgomery(m): 8:01am On Dec 21, 2014 |
bamidele029: i wonder why the divorce rate is so high in the western countries since women in the west seems to have such perfect marriages with the most understanding husbands. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Oklander: 8:01am On Dec 21, 2014 |
crackhaus:Chai, Oga you don finish this post finish. Na siddon look you put me now! She shot herself in the foot when she hypocritically sidelined her man out of the delusional equation she's imprinting on a Nigerian men. 3 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by kacglobal: 8:02am On Dec 21, 2014 |
bamidele029: Now I know how stupid nairaland ladies can be. Is the job thingy the fault of the man or the economy which cannot provide such 8am-4pm jobs anymore. If you shape your coat according to your size you won't be too dreamy and thus life would not be so demanding. But u want your family to be sparkling and shining and so on so DAT you can boast . and walk around like u got it all. This is only as a result of your want. The mothers your comparing yourself too leaved a very simply life. Dey don't wanna go to the best restaurant , non drive a landcruser . all shes every after is that are family is doing fine . and she quite prayerful and supports the husband to reach higher. They were will to start from scratch. Stupid naira lander girls. Sorry for the abusive words through, really not my style. I really don't like commenting here . but I gotta do this one. Cus ur just too stupid. . 1 Like |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by dinachi(m): 8:02am On Dec 21, 2014 |
My point is western women should be the ones copying from our women, not the other way round. Their own style have ensured that most marriages there have ended in divorce. While our style here ensures successful marriages. It is very clear. IF YOU WANT TO FAIL IN YOUR MARRIAGE COPY WESTERN WOMEN BUT IF YOU WANT TO HAVE A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE THEN CONTINUE TO BE AN INDEPENDENT YET SUBMISSIVE AND HUMBLE NIGERIAN WIFE. The choice is yours! 1 Like |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 8:03am On Dec 21, 2014 |
dinachi: Can I ask you a honest question? What is your definition of a submissive wife? Some one who cooks for you 3 times a day? Someone who bears your children in pain, backs them to the market and back? Someone who can't contradict you even when you are wrong? Someone who is turned to a maid immediately she steps into your parent's house? Someone who washes your 10 pairs of jeans every weekend? Someone who cleans the whole house with a baby strapped to the back? Someone who shuffles between bathing your child and watching the food on fire? Someone who does all these and still has her job or business she needs to attend to? Someone who still brings at least 30% of the financial income in? In short, you want a slave? And you know quite alright that submission and respect is not necessarily the above listed? So please state your case. What exactly do you want from a woman? Since to our naija men, a woman who doesn't do the above is disrespectful. 11 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by ajuwarhodes(f): 8:12am On Dec 21, 2014 |
I totally, I mean, completely...absolutely agree with u @ op. 1 Like |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by dinachi(m): 8:13am On Dec 21, 2014 |
netizenbuzz:You failed a very important test and I am highly disappointed in you. Submissiveness and humility is basically about your ATTITUDE not what you do or don't do. If you have these attributes as a wife, you will do all the things you mentioned above and more because THAT IS UR FAMILY. If you have a mindset that doing house chores is demeaning or that letting your husband be the leader of your household infringes on your rights as a woman, then you are not ready for primetime! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 8:13am On Dec 21, 2014 |
Mariopgomery: I see people bringing up this argument everytime forgetting that there are many other factors involved in their high rate of divorce. 1 Like |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by obiak4(m): 8:16am On Dec 21, 2014 |
mhyra:I guess that only exit with bf/gf but marriage babe be prepared to sacrifice some part of of ur self |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 8:19am On Dec 21, 2014 |
dinachi: Lol first of all, my comment was based on the thread I've observed among NLs. It's always as if any woman who doesn't do any of those is not respectful or submissive. It's funny how you say I should do all that because it is my family. Isn't it the man's family too? And yes, it is demeaning if I do all that without help and appreciation. Lastly, where in my comment did I ever imply that I don't want my husband to be the head of my family? Do you really think I want to be responsible for like 5 lives? Hell no. That's said, read my comment again and tell me your own definition of submission. 2 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 8:27am On Dec 21, 2014 |
dinachi: Yeah right, successful marriages. Ask how many women are actually happy in their marriages. I see the number of people who come to my mom for advice crying. They do all what is expected of them as wives but are still unhappy and have marital problems. It doesn't stop their men from cheating on them. This high divorce rate in the west which you are talking about, you are forgetting that there are other factors involved. I don't want to be a wife who will pretend to be happy when I'm not so that society can tag me a "good wife". So that I will hold resentment against my husband all my life and now end up in hell over lack of forgiveness?? God forbid. 3 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by TDstarr: 8:31am On Dec 21, 2014 |
firstEVA:that's what you all say, spoken like a true hypocritical woman 1 Like |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 8:36am On Dec 21, 2014 |
Truckpusher: Lol, the last time I checked, more women are actually marrying white men or nigerians in diaspora. Check your stats dude. Look at nollywood alone :p 2 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 8:44am On Dec 21, 2014 |
crackhaus: I'm sorry but not just banking. My mom is a civil engineer and are schedule is sometimes/most times worse of than that of bankers. 1 Like |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by segend(m): 8:47am On Dec 21, 2014 |
I still don't understand this argument, why do ladies feel guys should be responsible for them. Then why waste time going 2 school, since you can just marry and be a full time house wife. And for those depending on their bf, wat happened to your parents. Your dad and mum have been working for probably 20 years each, that's like 40 years between them, if they cannot afford your need, y do u think a guy that's probably just started his career be the one to take care of you. My take, ladies should have a level of independence, the bulk still goes to the guy, in marriage. But for boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, there is no composure to provide for her needs, if he does, good 2 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 8:48am On Dec 21, 2014 |
crackhaus: You mean their unhappy wives who can't say this shit in their presence? The same ones who advise we younger ones to shine our eyes? Okay. 2 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by Nobody: 8:51am On Dec 21, 2014 |
slimmy05: Ironically, I think you men are the ones suffering from low self esteem. Why are y'all so defensive? 4 Likes |
Re: The Average Nigerian Man Is A Hypocrite by soonest(f): 8:52am On Dec 21, 2014 |
deeptesting:The woman is an ingrate. Life can be very unfair |
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