Words of Wisdom to the Ladies
• My daughter, don’t cause a separation between your man and his siblings; it
could be dangerous for you when they finally speak with one voice.
• My daughter, I know that some of you girls don’t wish to marry a man whose
mother is still alive, don’t ever think like that, if you do, well, I think your son’s
wife-to-be should start wishing you're dead now. • My daughter, listen to me, when I married your father, he was as tiny as his
salary but I chose to grow with him and today, those cars out there are some of
the results of what we started so little, together, and
we’re proud looking at them.
• My daughter, there is this thing i see happening in your time, some of you girls
now get pregnant before the wedding day, well, it never happened in our time because no matter what, we never opened our laps
before the wedding.
• My daughter, well, yes, I once locked up the cloth of your father because I got
to my limit of patience and that was the only thing I could do, but one thing I
haven’t said was that we settled the issue that same day and that was the last
time I tried that. • My daughter, look up there. That’s the wedding picture of your father and I, look
at him smiling, I know you've seen it many times but what you did not know is
that your father was angry before taking this picture, I hope you find a man
whose anger doesn't last till the next day.
• My daughter, when your Father was riding a bicycle, I was always happy to hop
on it and ride with him, not because I didn't see those men in their little cars but because my eyes also saw those men trekking to their farms.
• My daughter, if you and your husband eat a little food with love, you both would
be satisfied. Times are not always the same; support him in every phase he’s
passing through.
• My daughter, don’t ever close your laps to your husband in bed , the day he
paid your dowry was the day you lost your will to do so, don’t be stiff and try to satisfy him even if you were angry with him.
• My daughter, a man would respect you and be more proud of you if you’re
learned and not totally dependent on him. Strive to make your own money and
while you're at it, be humble.
• My daughter, under the cocoa tree that I did meet with your Father was open
and good enough for our discussions, yes; it was open and good enough if you understand what I mean.
• My daughter, in our time, we had sexy legs and firm bosoms to show our men ,
in fact, we had the finest ones, yet, when we dress, we cover those parts of our
body, not because we were not civilised as you people would call it, but because
we know
that the eyes of men are hungry, many of them would only come, touch and go their way.
• My daughter, there is this thing you girls now practice, they say it’s feminism.
Well, you can prove to be equal to a man in the society but please, not in your
marriage because at my old age, I don’t want to start counting your husbands.
• My daughter, marriage is not a Rehabilitation Centre, if he’s not good enough for
you before marriage, nothing he does would be good enough after marriage.
• My daughter, you can see I still wear my night gown , yes, because to my
husband; your father, I still want to look sexy.
So, take good care of your body, look good for your man and don’t look like a
grandma after giving birth.
• My daughter, I’m your mother and still, I'm not interested in you coming to me always if anything goes wrong with your husband. Though nowadays I see some
mothers controlling the homes of their
sons and daughters, I would only say; shame on them!
• My daughter, for you to have a peaceful home and well-trained children, have
one voice with your husband, join him to say NO when he’s saying NO before the
kids but later when you both are alone, you can plead with him for a YES, if not, the
children will see a loophole to misbehave, either to you or their father. #copied....

Wow I initially thought it'd be stereotypically preachy, but it was wow....nice.

Huh! 'my daughter'?? Okay, Thank you daddy!