Yes! We are just friends. We have known each other for abt 9mths. We are currently serving in d same place of primary assignment & she lives next door. We have been good friends & a really close type but we have never gone beyond that even though people around us think otherwise. But last month she told she loves me & she would like us to start a relationship. I told her I really like her but I'm not ready to start a relationship bt she's having non of that because she persisted. D part that scared me d most was when she said I'm d kind of guy she would like to get married to. I'm not relationship crazy. I have not been in a relationship or had s3x in 4yrs. She agreed partially to let d issue go but she always wants me around her. I was chatting with her in her room one evening and she made d move & I didn't resist but I can recall vividly that I withdrew before ejaculation. She is beautiful and has incredible body attributes so the thought of having s3x with her has crossed my mind a few times.
She pinged me last week that she is having some symptoms of pregnancy so I told her to go and do the test and I will send her the money she will spend. She told me yesterday that she went to the hospital but she had to do the urine test because she is afraid of needles and the nurse told her it's positive and it's 3wks old. I told her to do the one of blood test and get back to me but d real problem is that I'm not ready 4 dis. My parents are going to be extremely disappointed and even my younger ones that see me as a role model. as a matter of fact I can't even count the number of people that will be disappointed in me because everyone trust me a lot including extended family. I'm not even through with my service year so I don't know how I will be able to handle this. my action was very stupid and I'm now considering another stupid one(abortion)
I'm really confused right now

Eyah sorry about that. Since you're sure that you withdrew b4 expulsion, wait till she gives birth nd conduct a DNA test to let every1 knw you were nt responsible. Dats all

Tell her

You may not even be the father afterall, considering the fact that she was desperate to make you sleep wiv her.

You bleep a lady without a condom and now she is pregnant you are now saying you are not ready................your Benediction

we live in different states(2 states apart) but if she doesn't do d blood test I will have to meet so we can do test together.
I just want to be sure beyond all doubts while I decide on what to do. I don't know how the nurse was able to tell the age of foetus from a urine test and from my calculation the 3wks is still 2days ahead of when we had the intercourse.
maybe I'm still in denial but I'm really wishing the test was wrong. only the blood test will get me out of this zone

OohMpa:
That moment you kissed her, it's heaven, shei?

And you sucked her tittays, it's euphoric, shei?

Then she grabbed your John bull, it's lets go there, okwa ya?

And when you're doing 1,2,1,2, calling her name, it's beautiful, oi?

finally, when you're vibrating like Nokia phone about to release, you're in the moon, abi?


And you forgot to put #50 raincoat in wallet, abi?
No go marry am, foolish bwoi

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Congrats op.

My broda u must really be a Water yam

How u go say u never blow for 4yrs now

So wetin u con de use ur prik de do , so na only piss u de use am piss

Am very sure u r responsible for dat pregnancy , cos as u never blow since , d sperm when come out dat day go b like Agidi

Don't worry ur family members won't b disappointed , de wud be happy ur prick de answer like Ak47

*#in omawumi's voice(if u ask me, na who I go ask)

How come u impregnate a Friend?

pyyxxaro:
My broda u must really be a Water yam

How u go say u never blow for 4yrs now

So wetin u con de use ur prik de do , so na only piss u de use am piss

Am very sure u r responsible for dat pregnancy , cos as u never blow since , d sperm when come out dat day go b like Agidi

Don't worry ur family members won't b disappointed , de wud be happy ur prick de answer like Ak47

*#in omawumi's voice(if u ask me, na who I go ask)

Have u done a psychiatric test?

ROZZAYY:
Congrats op.

Lol seconded.

walai your comment made my day

OohMpa:
That moment you kissed her, it's heaven, shei?

And you sucked her tittays, it's euphoric, shei?

Then she grabbed your John bull, it's lets go there, okwa ya?

And when you're doing 1,2,1,2, calling her name, it's beautiful, oi?

finally, when you're vibrating like Nokia phone about to release, you're in the moon, abi?


And you forgot to put #50 raincoat in wallet, abi?
No go marry am, foolish bwoi

starlingleanets:
How come u impregnate a Friend?

we were just friends but things started changing when she continued to tell me she loves me. She seemed really devastated when I said I don't want a relationship now so I felt I was helping by always being around her since we were really close friends

linobrown89:


we were just friends but things started changing when she continued to tell me she loves me. She seemed really devastated when I said I don't want a relationship now so I felt I was helping by always being around her since we were really close friends

It starts with being friends but one have to be smart. Like a Lady we met we start being friend small time she come dey talk she loves me na so i run for my dear life but as 4 u hm be like u don enter one chance here. My guy nothing can be done o since u actually have carnal knowledge of her.

starlingleanets:
Have u done a psychiatric test?

Hahahahahahahahahhehehehehehehe

I haven't ? Have you done urs

With ur grinding stone head

starlingleanets:
It starts with being friends but one have to be smart. Like a Lady we met we start being friend small time she come dey talk she loves me na so i run for my dear life but as 4 u hm be like u don enter one chance here. My guy nothing can be done o since u actually have carnal knowledge of her.

I understand u
I always like 2 take responsibility 4 my actions but this one scares d hell out of me

firstEVA:
You may not even be the father afterall, considering the fact that she was desperate to make you sleep wiv her.

u r right my dear. she was desperate to have him. they've been together for 9 months but only after 8 months did she realise she had a thing for him. n quickly belle enter. I think she just needs small change from d guy in d name of abortion. she isn't even pregnant.

linobrown89:


I understand u
I always like 2 take responsibility 4 my actions but this one scares d hell out of me

Better go take HIV test ooo. e don finish for my mouth.

You're not ready y can't u protect urself

Since u are sure abt withholdin d release during d intercourse with her, then it may infer that she slept with someone else and tryin 2 push d pregnancy on u. Then let her hav d baby. Den test will be conducted 2 knw if u are d father.

But then bros perhaps some dano has been release during d magic moment without u knowin becos konji bad oo. An atom of dano is enough 2 make d egg in her happily fertilized hitherto leading 2 pregnancy.

Eiya;;Op i feel for you ooo,beht me ion think you are the father of that PIKIN.let her born the pikin then afterwards you take him for a D N A

oluwaiffymi:
Eyah sorry about that. Since you're sure that you withdrew b4 expulsion, wait till she gives birth nd conduct a DNA test to let every1 knw you were nt responsible. Dats all

withdrawal is no guarantee because the is what we call pre-cum it contains some spermatids that can get a lady pregnant, just whitich tins u see on d!ck before penetration can cause pregnancy

So @ Op u need no DNA test, congratulations you just made yourself a daddy

FLAWLES:
Eiya;;Op i feel for you ooo,beht me ion think you are the father of that PIKIN.let her born the pikin then afterwards you take him for a D N A

DNA test is not #1 or even 20k o

@op 4yrs no sex?

Anu?

When she was in need of it,you would have allowed your heart to lead and not your dick,when you were enjoying the action,you never knew you weren't ready now,now you don get Bomboy,you aren't ready,dna can be done 2 or 3months into pregnancy,but abortion is no option bros...just make sure you invite us during naming,this year was a good year sha...dances shoki outta thread,despite I don't know how to dance...

wristwatch:
Since u are sure abt withholdin d release during d intercourse with her, then it may infer that she slept with someone else and tryin 2 push d pregnancy on u. Then let her hav d baby. Den test will be conducted 2 knw if u are d father.

But then bros perhaps some dano has been release during d magic moment without u knowin becos konji bad oo. An atom of dano is enough 2 make d egg in her happily fertilized hitherto leading 2 pregnancy.

Abeg which of the dano u taking about?

Is it the Dano milk that i know

Ooh Mpa, merry christmas

OohMpa:
Bla, bla, bla

Sorry brah but I just can't bring myself to read your post.

You are not ready to father a child, yet you were ready to have s*x?

I find that very contradictory. If you can 'sleep' with a lady, you are darn ready to be a father.

God forbid that I be the agent of death to any unborn child.