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My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by linobrown89: 10:38am On Dec 23, 2014 |
Yes! We are just friends. We have known each other for abt 9mths. We are currently serving in d same place of primary assignment & she lives next door. We have been good friends & a really close type but we have never gone beyond that even though people around us think otherwise. But last month she told she loves me & she would like us to start a relationship. I told her I really like her but I'm not ready to start a relationship bt she's having non of that because she persisted. D part that scared me d most was when she said I'm d kind of guy she would like to get married to. I'm not relationship crazy. I have not been in a relationship or had s3x in 4yrs. She agreed partially to let d issue go but she always wants me around her. I was chatting with her in her room one evening and she made d move & I didn't resist but I can recall vividly that I withdrew before ejaculation. She is beautiful and has incredible body attributes so the thought of having s3x with her has crossed my mind a few times. She pinged me last week that she is having some symptoms of pregnancy so I told her to go and do the test and I will send her the money she will spend. She told me yesterday that she went to the hospital but she had to do the urine test because she is afraid of needles and the nurse told her it's positive and it's 3wks old. I told her to do the one of blood test and get back to me but d real problem is that I'm not ready 4 dis. My parents are going to be extremely disappointed and even my younger ones that see me as a role model. as a matter of fact I can't even count the number of people that will be disappointed in me because everyone trust me a lot including extended family. I'm not even through with my service year so I don't know how I will be able to handle this. my action was very stupid and I'm now considering another stupid one(abortion) I'm really confused right now |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by oluwaiffymi(f): 10:47am On Dec 23, 2014 |
Eyah sorry about that. Since you're sure that you withdrew b4 expulsion, wait till she gives birth nd conduct a DNA test to let every1 knw you were nt responsible. Dats all 2 Likes |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by walearoy(m): 10:51am On Dec 23, 2014 |
Tell her |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by Nobody: 10:53am On Dec 23, 2014 |
You may not even be the father afterall, considering the fact that she was desperate to make you sleep wiv her. 4 Likes |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by Kolade354(m): 10:57am On Dec 23, 2014 |
You bleep a lady without a condom and now she is pregnant you are now saying you are not ready................your Benediction 2 Likes |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by OohMpa: 10:58am On Dec 23, 2014 |
That moment you kissed her, it's heaven, shei? And you sucked her tittays, it's euphoric, shei? Then she grabbed your John bull, it's lets go there, okwa ya? And when you're doing 1,2,1,2, calling her name, it's beautiful, oi? finally, when you're vibrating like Nokia phone about to release, you're in the moon, abi? And you forgot to put #50 raincoat in wallet, abi? No go marry am, foolish bwoi 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by linobrown89: 11:02am On Dec 23, 2014 |
we live in different states(2 states apart) but if she doesn't do d blood test I will have to meet so we can do test together. I just want to be sure beyond all doubts while I decide on what to do. I don't know how the nurse was able to tell the age of foetus from a urine test and from my calculation the 3wks is still 2days ahead of when we had the intercourse. maybe I'm still in denial but I'm really wishing the test was wrong. only the blood test will get me out of this zone |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by Nobody: 11:06am On Dec 23, 2014 |
OohMpa:l |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by ROZZAYY(f): 11:08am On Dec 23, 2014 |
Congrats op. 2 Likes |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by pyyxxaro: 11:18am On Dec 23, 2014 |
My broda u must really be a Water yam How u go say u never blow for 4yrs now So wetin u con de use ur prik de do , so na only piss u de use am piss Am very sure u r responsible for dat pregnancy , cos as u never blow since , d sperm when come out dat day go b like Agidi Don't worry ur family members won't b disappointed , de wud be happy ur prick de answer like Ak47 *#in omawumi's voice(if u ask me, na who I go ask) 4 Likes |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by Nobody: 11:21am On Dec 23, 2014 |
How come u impregnate a Friend? |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by Nobody: 11:22am On Dec 23, 2014 |
pyyxxaro:Have u done a psychiatric test? |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by dablazor: 11:23am On Dec 23, 2014 |
ROZZAYY: Lol seconded. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by wiringdpt(m): 11:29am On Dec 23, 2014 |
walai your comment made my day OohMpa: |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by linobrown89: 11:32am On Dec 23, 2014 |
starlingleanets: we were just friends but things started changing when she continued to tell me she loves me. She seemed really devastated when I said I don't want a relationship now so I felt I was helping by always being around her since we were really close friends |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by Nobody: 11:36am On Dec 23, 2014 |
linobrown89:It starts with being friends but one have to be smart. Like a Lady we met we start being friend small time she come dey talk she loves me na so i run for my dear life but as 4 u hm be like u don enter one chance here. My guy nothing can be done o since u actually have carnal knowledge of her. |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by pyyxxaro: 11:37am On Dec 23, 2014 |
starlingleanets: Hahahahahahahahahhehehehehehehe I haven't ? Have you done urs With ur grinding stone head |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by linobrown89: 11:45am On Dec 23, 2014 |
starlingleanets: I understand u I always like 2 take responsibility 4 my actions but this one scares d hell out of me |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by Nobody: 12:27pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
firstEVA:u r right my dear. she was desperate to have him. they've been together for 9 months but only after 8 months did she realise she had a thing for him. n quickly belle enter. I think she just needs small change from d guy in d name of abortion. she isn't even pregnant. 1 Like |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by Etetejake(m): 12:54pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
linobrown89: Better go take HIV test ooo. e don finish for my mouth. |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by faithugo64(f): 1:00pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
baba ibeji |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by Dmanlex(m): 1:06pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
You're not ready y can't u protect urself |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by Nobody: 1:12pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Since u are sure abt withholdin d release during d intercourse with her, then it may infer that she slept with someone else and tryin 2 push d pregnancy on u. Then let her hav d baby. Den test will be conducted 2 knw if u are d father. But then bros perhaps some dano has been release during d magic moment without u knowin becos konji bad oo. An atom of dano is enough 2 make d egg in her happily fertilized hitherto leading 2 pregnancy. |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by FLAWLES(f): 1:21pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Eiya;;Op i feel for you ooo,beht me ion think you are the father of that PIKIN.let her born the pikin then afterwards you take him for a D N A |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by harrysterol(m): 1:31pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
oluwaiffymi:withdrawal is no guarantee because the is what we call pre-cum it contains some spermatids that can get a lady pregnant, just whitich tins u see on d!ck before penetration can cause pregnancy So @ Op u need no DNA test, congratulations you just made yourself a daddy |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by harrysterol(m): 1:40pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
FLAWLES:DNA test is not #1 or even 20k o |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by aktolly54(m): 1:41pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
@op 4yrs no sex? |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by brownlord: 1:51pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Anu? |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by klins4213(m): 1:56pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
When she was in need of it,you would have allowed your heart to lead and not your dick,when you were enjoying the action,you never knew you weren't ready now,now you don get Bomboy,you aren't ready,dna can be done 2 or 3months into pregnancy,but abortion is no option bros...just make sure you invite us during naming,this year was a good year sha...dances shoki outta thread,despite I don't know how to dance... |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by Aitee1: 2:05pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
wristwatch: Abeg which of the dano u taking about? Is it the Dano milk that i know |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by Nobody: 2:14pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Ooh Mpa, merry christmas OohMpa: |
Re: My Friend Says She Is Pregnant For Me But I'm Not Ready by Nobody: 2:28pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Sorry brah but I just can't bring myself to read your post. You are not ready to father a child, yet you were ready to have s*x? I find that very contradictory. If you can 'sleep' with a lady, you are darn ready to be a father. God forbid that I be the agent of death to any unborn child. |
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