syphillis:

exactly,this is d reason why most gals lie,because smtimes their partners force them,and just to get the guy off their case,they will just use d wind to blow lies into his ears

when i was in jss3 there is this friend of mine "chigozie" that was raped in AGIP's maintainance house,although her hubby heard bout it, it was her mother that told him bout it,because she wanted the guy to know since d girl wouldnt just like say it like that

they got married and for 2 and half years this guy never asked her anything,until d day the day she finally decided to talk,d day she talked was d day she let go of the fears after so many years

some stories r better left untold till d right time,but i wonder why u men force and smtimes threaten girls to talk,oga ooo

meanwhile after u talk finish dem no go fit sleep again

doyin13:

Oh my dayzzzzzzz. . . .

those housegirls. . . . .ooh la la

especially the Calabar ones.

walahi

make una leave clabar girls alone na. . . wetin?

HR.hotness:

meanwhile after u talk finish them no go fit sleep again

lol

syphillis:

exactly,this is d reason why most gals lie,because smtimes their partners force them,and just to get the guy off their case,they will just use d wind to blow lies into his ears

when i was in jss3 there is this friend of mine "chigozie" that was raped in AGIP's maintainance house,although her hubby heard bout it, it was her mother that told him bout it,because she wanted the guy to know since d girl wouldnt just like say it like that

they got married and for 2 and half years this guy never asked her anything,until d day the day she finally decided to talk,d day she talked was d day she let go of the fears after so many years

some stories r better left untold till d right time,but i wonder why u men force and smtimes threaten girls to talk,oga ooo

What a mother she was very brave!  

I would kill mine if she did that to me

~Sauron~:

So u would tell ur husband to be that u had an abortion when u were in the Uni??

I wud have even told him while we were dating, There are some things u just cant lie abt or not talk abt with ur partner because they might come back and hunt you. If he really urs in the first place then wateva u tell him wont change how he feels abt u

LadyT:

What a mother she was very brave!

I would kill mine if she did that to me

so that when he finds out himself . . he doesn't send her packing

HR.hotness:

meanwhile after u talk finish them no go fit sleep again

exactly,if d gal comot them go begin suspect am

see d reason why most gals dont talk again is because some men r just to immature to handle tough situations,too foolish to believe their gals and help wipe away the hurt and pains off the poor girls heart and just too childish to hear d truth

Is Honesty Actually A Good Thing For U Ladies?

Yup!!!

LadyT:

What a mother she was very brave!  

I would kill mine if she did that to me

i said d same thing titi until d woman explained why she did it,it was better d guy knew before marrying her,instead of marrying her and then dumping her because of that,the girl might end up commiting suicide

after she told d man d story,she also told him to choose right now,and that God will bear her witness that she's told u one secret of her child,because its d most sensitive,choose now if u will still marry her or let her be

@sauron
Virgin my ASS

davidylan:

You don't want her to be apprehensive every time she has a tiny little sore down there.

Lmao . . . . . . . even if u didnt tell me, i wud still be apprehensive if i see any sore down there

chika98:

so that when he finds out himself . . he doesn't send her packing

True we all know how stupid some men get.

 

syphillis:

i said d same thing titi until d woman explained why she did it,it was better d guy knew before marrying her,instead of marrying her and then dumping her because of that,the girl might end up commiting suicide

after she told d man d story,she also told him to choose right now,and that God will bear her witness that she's told u one secret of her child,because its d most sensitive,choose now if u will still marry her or let her be

LadyT:

True we all know how stupid some men get.

 

so stupid jare,and because of what d mum did,this guy got himself prepared to hear d truth some day,and when she told him he comforted her d right way,that was d day all d fear shes harboured all her life left her

its all about marrying a matured man wt brain,he wil def understand u as a woman

But honestly . . . .is this topic that deep to elicit 5pages worth of posts.

There is no all encompassing answer to satisfy every individual case.

Thus I implore anyone who is burdened of mind to make a daily date with Oprah

doyin13:

But honestly . . . .is this topic that deep to elicit 5pages worth of posts.

There is no all encompassing answer to satisfy every individual case.

Thus I implore anyone who is burdened of mind to make a daily date with Oprah

Mister half truths you berra sharrap there.

syphillis:

i said d same thing titi until d woman explained why she did it,it was better d guy knew before marrying her,instead of marrying her and then dumping her because of that,the girl might end up commiting suicide

after she told d man d story,she also told him to choose right now,and that God will bear her witness that she's told u one secret of her child,because its d most sensitive,choose now if u will still marry her or let her be

smart mother.

tope2000:

Lmao . . . . . . . even if u didnt tell me, i would still be apprehensive if i see any sore down there

if you see anything there na your headache.  

doyin13:

But honestly . . . .is this topic that deep to elicit 5pages worth of posts.

There is no all encompassing answer to satisfy every individual case.

Thus I implore anyone who is burdened of mind to make a daily date with Oprah

Haven't u heard? Oprah is the anti-chirst!

davidylan:

if you see anything there na your headache.

Typical male answer

@jenny
kudos to the mother, she has guts

doyin13:

But honestly . . . .is this topic that deep to elicit 5pages worth of posts.

There is no all encompassing answer to satisfy every individual case.

Thus I implore anyone who is burdened of mind to make a daily date with Oprah

d same stupid oprah dat said God is jealous of her?

LadyT:

Mister half truths you berra sharrap there.

Ahn Ahn na. . . . .Do I look like I would lie to you

tope2000:

I would have even told him while we were dating, There are some things u just can't lie about or not talk about with ur partner because they might come back and hunt you. If he really urs in the first place then whatever u tell him wont change how he feels about u

So u expect a man to be with u knowing fully well u might have a damaged womb??
Tope. . . . . .Look at ma face carefully. . . . . .Do i have tribal marks??
Why are u manipulating me like i am from the North??

syphillis:

d same stupid oprah that said God is jealous of her?

why am i not surprised?

doyin13:

Oh my dayzzzzzzz. . . .

those housegirls. . . . .ooh la la

especially the Calabar ones.

walahi  

What's up with these talk about Calabar girls? I probably to go there and do some mowing  

As much as the truth is the best to tell, it must be seriously noted that NOT ALL CAN HANDLE THE TRUTH. most especially the female folks.

A times, if u can't tell lies, just tell the person you dont know or something.

I once to a friend (girl) the truth about her supposedly boyfriend who was hitting hard on another girl in my office. . and the friend thought i was lying. . .she couldnt believe i was saying the truth. That ended our friendship. . .but at the end, she got to know I was saying the truth. . .but our friendship was gone into the wind then.

tope2000:

Typical male answer

@jenny
kudos to the mother, she has guts

dat is ehn,wen i heard  d story i wanted to like strangle her thru DHL cos i'd already left naija,na wen i go naija some yrs back d woman come tell me d reason why she did dat,and i was like"hmm dis woman is intelligent" atleast d man no fit open mouth yab d girl wt her story till they die

HR.hotness:

why am i not surprised?

dont mind her,i was watching one of her shows on d net,and she was like "God said hes a jealous God" why should he be?'dat means hes jealous of her then,and i felt like asking her "come who gave u dat mouth u dey use talk dis rubbish"

tope2000:

Typical male answer

You hella just reminded me of Onyinye2!! Where is she??

syphillis:

don't mind her,i was watching one of her shows on d net,and she was like "God said hes a jealous God" why should he be?'that means hes jealous of her then,and i felt like asking her "come who gave u that mouth u dey use talk this rubbish"

sounds sarcastic to me.

~Sauron~:

So u expect a man to be with u knowing fully well u might have a damaged womb??
Tope. . . . . .Look at ma face carefully. . . . . .Do i have tribal marks??
Why are u manipulating me like i am from the North??

Lmao . . . . . . .
Just like u said it a MIGHT, u both can always go to the hospital 4 a chk up na
Find out if the womb is damaged or not b4 u make any irrational decision
U see this is why most girls lies, do u even know maybe she was raped then had to have an abortion

KarmaMod:

sounds sarcastic to me.

well she really meant it,because d people interviewing her were like "shes misquoting d scripture" but she still held on to her words,d very first day she started harbouring d tots in her mind was whern she was 14 or so

StephenP:

You hella just reminded me of Onyinye2!! Where is she??

Lol . . . . yeah where is she??
I have missed her weird point of view

Tell the truth or lies the man who really wants you will. With or without a bad past

sillyboy:

As much as the truth is the best to tell, it must be seriously noted that NOT ALL CAN HANDLE THE TRUTH. most especially the female folks.

A times, if u can't tell lies, just tell the person you don't know or something.

I once to a friend (girl) the truth about her supposedly boyfriend who was hitting hard on another girl in my office. . and the friend thought i was lyingshe couldnt believe i was saying the truth. That ended our friendshipbut at the end, she got to know I was saying the truthbut our friendship was gone into the wind then.

So you snitched on her boyfriend?? Not cool! She probably thought you were trying to get with her by putting dirt on her boyfriend.

tope2000:

Lol . . . . yeah where is she??
I have missed her weird point of view

I don't know where she is.

@jenny.

U dey craze jare,

@topic
I have learnt from experience MOST men cannot handle the truth, so to save the "badaration" you just tell them what they need to hear, CASE closed.