Hi,
I realiseed that some truths should neva be told a woman, well I learnt that the hard way! Just want to know if u could take, handle or appreciate the truth if ur guy ends up telling u something u were not expecting!

yes, i believe honesty is and will always be the best policy

Depends on what the truth is.

i hav discovered nothin shocks me me anymore. . . bring it on!

I, for one always appreciate the truth
either good or bad

ok then can u tell me y the bad boys (liars) get the girls and the good boys remain single while the bad boys change girls

Girls hate it when you are honest with them but love so so much when you lie to them

Muza:

Girls hate it when you are honest with them but love so so much when you lie to them

That's one of the lies guys have fed themselves with over the years.

you will be surprised where my lying skills have gotten me to

Try truth and you'll be amazed how far you'll go.

for him to bold enough to tell me the bitter truth, I'll surely appreciate it cos it show that i mean something to him.

The truth shall set u free
I like honesty anyday

@topic
I am an avid believer in the truth and I try to be honest with people in all I do. However, I have not always been the recipient of that favour. From past experience some pple cannot handle the truth and would rather be lied to.

CodeRED:

@topic
I am an avid believer in the truth and I try to be honest with people in all I do. However, I have not always been the recipient of that favour. From past experience some people cannot handle the truth and would rather be lied to.  

i feel like e-strangling dat old woman dat locked our thread

tope2000:

The truth shall set u free
I like honesty anyday

But do u tell your SPOUSE everything??
Lets be honest here o. . . . . . .Women don't say everything.
They always seem to divide the number of their ex-boy/fs and sexual partners by 10.
True or False??

syphillis:

i feel like e-strangling that old woman that locked our thread

LOL, dont worry love, let's continue being fine, na jealous ah kill dem?

~Sauron~:

But do u tell your SPOUSE everything??
Lets be honest here o. . . . . . .Women don't say everything.
They always seem to divide the number of their ex-boy/fs and sexual partners by 10.
True or False??

for me ,nope,its not even advisable

CodeRED:

LOL, don't worry love, let's continue being fine, na jealous ah kill them?

let me see her delete d one i just opened,im sure her moderator power cant get there

tope2000:

The truth shall set u free
I like honesty anyday

U dont seem to tell me the truth though do u?

~Sauron~:

But do u tell your SPOUSE everything??
Lets be honest here o. . . . . . .Women don't say everything.
They always seem to divide the number of their ex-boy/fs and sexual partners by 10.
True or False??

Lol. . . . . . telling him everything?? what has that got to do with honesty
The ones i do tell him happens to be 100% true, i rather not say anything than lie
And about the exes thingy, i don't lie about that rubbish its not a biggie at the of end day if u want my future forget about my past

MrCrackles:

U don't seem to tell me the truth though do u?

babes u lie, even the day u were sh.it in bed. i told u

~Sauron~:

But do u tell your SPOUSE everything??
Lets be honest here o. . . . . . .Women don't say everything.
They always seem to divide the number of their ex-boy/fs and sexual partners by 10.
True or False??

I hav told u to quit hanging with those hoochies. . .

My rule is for short term relationships, it doesn't matter, you'll break up in a matter of weeks anyway lol, for long term, you have to be extra careful. You have to be selective with the truth you tell. Some don't know the appropriate time to tell the truth and that always ends up in disaster. Some truths are not meant to be said at all because you fear it might sabotage the relationship. So if it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't the right time to tell the truth.

StephenP:

My rule is for short term relationships, it doesn't matter, you'll break up in a matter of weeks anyway lol, for long term, you have to be extra careful. You have to be selective with the truth you tell. Some don't know the appropriate time to tell the truth and that always ends up in disaster. Some truths are not meant to be said at all because you fear it might sabotage the relationship. So if it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't the right time to tell the truth.

I somewhat agree

syphillis:

for me ,nope,its not even advisable

Then u are not honest!!!
Would u tell ur husband u have dated more than 15 dudes?? No way.
15 will become 3.

tope2000:

Lol. . . . . . telling him everything?? what has that got to do with honesty
The ones i do tell him happens to be 100% true, i rather not say anything than lie
And about the exes thingy, i don't lie about that rubbish its not a biggie at the of the day if u want my future forget about my past

Even if it's HIV status?? I should forget it and FIRE on??
Tope. . . . . . .Are u taking ur hennessey again this night?

syphillis:

i feel like e-strangling that old woman that locked our thread

Life is too serious for some peeps. Learn not to let people get at you. It is their joy to see you mad over their actions. I have learnt to overlook certain things if it does not flow into the excess with me, I am ok.


That said, it is good to see that you are honest with your emotions. Would you be honest to tell me how you feel about moi?

@ Topic,
Honesty is not a gender related issue IMO.

tope2000:

Lol. . . . . . telling him everything?? what has that got to do with honesty
The ones i do tell him happens to be 100% true, i rather not say anything than lie
And about the exes thingy, i don't lie about that rubbish its not a biggie at the of the day if u want my future forget about my past

*humming* If you want my future forget my past. . . If you wanna get with me better make it fast. . . Now don't go wasting my precious time. . . Get your act together we could be just fine. . . tra la la la  

StephenP:

My rule is for short term relationships, it doesn't matter, you'll break up in a matter of weeks anyway lol, for long term, you have to be extra careful. You have to be selective with the truth you tell. Some don't know the appropriate time to tell the truth and that always ends up in disaster. Some truths are not meant to be said at all because you fear it might sabotage the relationship. So if it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't the right time to tell the truth.

Honesty trumps anything for me so i'm not too comfortable with the above.
You're not my mate if i cant feel free to tell you anything under the sun . . . of course that's assuming you've had a fairly responsible past though.

~Sauron~:

Even if it's HIV status?? I should forget it and FIRE on??
Tope. . . . . . .Are u taking ur hennessey again this night?

I can tell my partner how many dudes have dated cuz they aint plenty anyhoo
You cant lie abt sumthing that can put ur patner's life in jeopardy na
Hannessey ke, babes u know i dont drink

HR.hotness:

*humming* If you want my future forget my past. . . If you want to get with me better make it fast. . . Now don't go wasting my precious time. . . Get your act together we could be just fine. . . tra la la la  

Sing it girl

~Sauron~:

Then u are not honest!!!
Would u tell ur husband u have dated more than 15 dudes?? No way.
15 will become 3.

he wouldnt even bother asking things like that,i know what hes capable of doing,but if he asks no big deal,if ive dated 50 i will talk,its his ears that will get hurt not mine

secret(s) i meant in my previous posts is/are my (extended) family's secret,nope i know what to tell and what not to tell,i have to respect our secrets

Pataki:

Life is too serious for some peeps. Learn not to let people get at you. It is their joy to see you mad over their actions. I have learnt to overlook certain things if it does not flow into the excess with me, I am ok.


That said, it is good to see that you are honest with your emotions. Would you be honest to tell me how you feel about moi?

thank u jare,but smtimes this people can be so stupid anyways want to know how i feel bout u? ask ur midget wife jk jk jk

davidylan:

Honesty trumps anything for me so i'm not too comfortable with the above.
You're not my mate if i can't feel free to tell you anything under the sun . . . of course that's assuming you've had a fairly responsible past though.

Assuming. . . some people's love life would be perfect for horror flicks lol!! I don't want none of that.

Pataki:

@ Topic,
Honesty is not a gender related issue IMO.

No it ain't.

i'd be more afraid of a guy who seems to hav a spotless past oh. . . i expect absolute honesty, i want numbers, names, details, confessions, d whole lot 

the important thing is that d past has been laid to rest. . . everyone has a past so why hide urs?

Pataki:

Life is too serious for some peeps. Learn not to let people get at you. It is their joy to see you mad over their actions. I have learnt to overlook certain things if it does not flow into the excess with me, I am ok.


That said, it is good to see that you are honest with your emotions. Would you be honest to tell me how you feel about moi?

@ Topic,
Honesty is not a gender related issue IMO.

LOL, Word Pastor P( wey yo bin all day)