I don't know,I have dis friend of mine,she loves her bf so much and she comes from a rich background,she buys the boy stuffs everytime and when they go on a date,the guy will want to pay but she will insist on paying,guys is it normal?

No, it's not right.

Once in a while is OK but every time? nah

If the guys can do it ladies can as well, remember what a man can do a woman can do even better

Which Law states that a guy must always be the one to pay for expenses while on a Date??...ehn??

Hw would a guy offer to pay and the lady still prefers to do so herself...she's definetely terming him a broke nigga.

If u ask me, il say she's overdoing it jare..its high-time she allow d guy take up his responsibilities cos nt every guy wud see it d way she sees it...she's telling him she really loves him but nt in a proper way no matter hw rich she mite be.

If man see snake and woman kill am, sin dey there? Make una dey pity guys once in a while now.

Pampering should come from both sides. It ll be perfect if there's a balance. If one side is not over-pampering the other.



In this kind of situation, this is becoming too much. The guy becomes too relax. He ll start misbehaving cos he is fully aware of the ladies love towards him. He ll become too used to everything. He ll start feeling like the lady is buying his love. He ll want someone he can give things to not someone he ll collect from always.

With my own little understanding about relationship and anything related to it. I believe pampering should be once in while, especially from a lady. Maybe once or twice in a month. Its not always about money.

Mzgracie:
Pampering should come from both sides. It ll be perfect if there's a balance. If one side is not over-pampering the other.
In this kind of situation, this is becoming too much. The guy becomes too relax. He ll start misbehaving cos he is fully aware of the ladies love towards him. He ll become too used to everything. He ll start feeling like the lady is buying his love. He ll want someone he can give things to not someone he ll collect from always.
With my own little understanding about relationship and anything related to it. I believe pampering should be once in while, especially from a lady. Maybe once or twice in a month. Its not always about money.

I quite agree

Kai!








That your friend get younger sister




















Me sef like pampering ooo

NA DAT KIND BABE I DEY FIND O

Segirl18:
Hw would a guy offer to pay and the lady still prefers to do so herself...she's definetely terming him a broke nigga.

If u ask me, il say she's overdoing it jare..its high-time she allow d guy take up his responsibilities cos nt every guy wud see it d way she sees it...she's telling him she really loves him but nt in a proper way no matter hw rich she mite be.

@bolded, see our mentality. which law makes that a man's responsibility?

chukingchuks:
@bolded, see our mentality. which law makes that a man's responsibility?

Dnt get me wrong dear... I dont mean d lady shouldnt contribute but it shouldnt b more than that of d guy's...
It is therefore d duty of d guy to take up more of that responsibility and for the lady to assist.

Segirl18:


Dnt get me wrong dear... I dont mean d lady shouldnt contribute but it shouldnt b more than that of d guy's...
It is therefore d duty of d guy to take up more of that responsibility and for the lady to assist.

whatever, As long as the doer is happy abt it, I wouldn't care less though personally, I don't like people doing things(of finance) for me esp from the opposite sex. but wen she deemed it a responsibility that I must keep, dear, she don dey cut my love and respect for her in percentage ..lol

Yeah really. .hw do ladies do it Be lyk say I gaz learn..btw guys r big babies eh, my guy lyks wen he is been petted eh..heaven knows I cnt fit handle dah

Overcaring culd be repulsive jare..shebi dats d same as pampering.

Segirl18:
Hw would a guy offer to pay and the lady still prefers to do so herself...she's definetely terming him a broke nigga.

If u ask me, il say she's overdoing it jare.. its high-time she allow d guy take up his responsibilities cos nt every guy wud see it d way she sees it...she's telling him she really loves him but nt in a proper way no matter hw rich she mite be.

Naigerian girls and their akprako mentality.

numericalguy:


Naigerian girls and their akprako mentality.

lol.. Taaah! Park well!!!

Segirl18:
Hw would a guy offer to pay and the lady still prefers to do so herself...she's definetely terming him a broke nigga.

If u ask me, il say she's overdoing it jare..its high-time she allow d guy take up his responsibilities cos nt every guy wud see it d way she sees it...she's telling him she really loves him but nt in a proper way no matter hw rich she mite be.

It myt b d guy doesnt av much n she undastnds im wel enuf to wana do dat...... If d guy truli wana pay he cn talk to d gal kos its obvious she is undastndin.. Bt it dpends on hw she does it tho..... Sum myt b polite yl sum r arrogant! Dats d kinda gal i want tho, nt all dese liabilities everywhr lukin 4 who to buy dem komon lip gloss 4 dis harmattan

oshe11:
It myt b d guy doesnt av much n she undastnds im wel enuf to wana do dat...... If d guy truli wana pay he cn talk to d gal kos its obvious she is undastndin.. Bt it dpends on hw she does it tho..... Sum myt b polite yl sum r arrogant! Dats d kinda gal i want tho, nt all dese liabilities everywhr lukin 4 who to buy dem komon lip gloss 4 dis harmattan

My point exactly....- A girl must not b too dependent on a guy and too pampering.,

dazzlingPamela:
I don't know,I have dis friend of mine,she loves her bf so much and she comes from a rich background,she buys the boy stuffs everytime and when they go on a date,the guy will want to pay but she will insist on paying,guys is it normal?

a nigerian girl doing that?
since when?