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Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by F22RAPTOR(m): 10:45am On Dec 29, 2014
this is the reason why rich men treat their wives like commodities, like one of the properties they acquired during a business deal. but hey, who cares?
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by clovislouis(m): 10:47am On Dec 29, 2014
Mrsfaithhh:
Guy:babe u knw I love U.
Babe;I knw honey.
Guy;I knw I can't giv u anytin . But I lov u.
Babe:tomorrw is my brtday
Guy: wow happy brtday in adv babe. U knw I'm broke wuld hav taken u out.
Babe: embarassed
So wat does a babe gain here?
true love. Most lovers who re rich today were at one time in their lives poor
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by klodike(m): 10:51am On Dec 29, 2014
Sexual experience, patience the list is endless.
Mrsfaithhh:
Guy:babe u knw I love U.
Babe;I knw honey.
Guy;I knw I can't giv u anytin . But I lov u.
Babe:tomorrw is my brtday
Guy: wow happy brtday in adv babe. U knw I'm broke wuld hav taken u out.
Babe: embarassed
So wat does a babe gain here?
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by NobleAky(m): 10:54am On Dec 29, 2014
Richiy:
I don't know why girls have so much financial expectations from guys. Nobody is your father. Nobody has any responsibility towards you at all. If you have needs, ask and do not think it is your almighty right to receive.

It is everybody for themselves. Answer your fathers name. You mustnt except some boy, rich or poor to carry your burdens.

If you want to love somebody, love completely, remove unneeded expectations. Love is sweeter and easier that way.
...pls are you married?
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 10:55am On Dec 29, 2014
boma95:


broke man
What are you?
Saying the actual true is very bitter in from some ladies sights
No matter what I will still keep saying my actuality becoz I know the true God sent one will soon find me in due time
God never sleep because his presence reign in me

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Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by ALEXIS0240: 10:57am On Dec 29, 2014
He has nothing materialistic to offer yet,but his Time
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Mrsfaithhh: 10:59am On Dec 29, 2014
Teebashy:

@OP abeg ans d following question
1. must sum1 date a rich guy
2. don't u believe dat d broke guy may be rich in future
3. wat is d probability dat d rich guy will continue to be rich
1.No "sum1" musnt but "you" can date/marry a poor guy.
2.Don't u bliv dat a poor guy mite b forever poor?
3.Wat is d probability dat d poor guy will not continue to b poor?
Hop I answerd smiley
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by honfarouk(m): 11:02am On Dec 29, 2014
StealthyMe:
If he's broke at present,but the hardworking type and you can forsee a bright future ahead...you stand a lot to gain!
You probably don't realise it undecided
Bros they no de see all those ones u dey write ooo na money they de find
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by honfarouk(m): 11:05am On Dec 29, 2014
Mrsfaithhh:

1.No "sum1" musnt but "you" can date/marry a poor guy.
2.Don't u bliv dat a poor guy mite b forever poor?
3.Wat is d probability dat d poor guy will not continue to b poor?
Hop I answerd smiley
Na d answer be dis

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Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by kemika: 11:09am On Dec 29, 2014
Nowadays they claim they are independent, they say what a man can do a woman can do better! And yet they want to depend on guys money! Money is all they think of when they see guys. So what's wrong if guys see them as commodities for the highest bidder and treat them as such? I pity girls with a man - equals- money orientation. cos they may have the money but most become slaves in the house. After all, he who pays the piper dictates the tune.
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by boma95(f): 11:09am On Dec 29, 2014
nacosprof:

What are you?
Saying the actual true is very bitter in from some ladies sights
No matter what I will still keep saying my actuality becoz I know the true God sent one will soon find me in due time
God never sleep because his presence reign in me


lol...plz dnt tke it personal
jus joking
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by ewizard1: 11:10am On Dec 29, 2014
Here they are...

GOLD DIGGERS!!!


You cant work and make your own Money abi?
Women like OP will surely be b1tch if the husband couldnt grant one request.
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 11:16am On Dec 29, 2014
Prexxy1:
they are caring.

How did you know this? Are you dating a broke dude?

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Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Odunharry(m): 11:16am On Dec 29, 2014
Richiy:
I don't know why girls have so much financial expectations from guys. Nobody is your father. Nobody has any responsibility towards you at all. If you have needs, ask and do not think it is your almighty right to receive.

It is everybody for themselves. Answer your fathers name. You mustnt except some boy, rich or poor to carry your burdens.

If you want to love somebody, love completely, remove unneeded expectations. Love is sweeter and easier that way.
God bless u
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by nwachukwu7(m): 11:17am On Dec 29, 2014
Question: what does a guy really gain from a girl? Why must the girl always be the one to gain? Why can't ladies think of what they can bring to a guy? This is why guys keep looking at a girl as a property.
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Mrsfaithhh: 11:18am On Dec 29, 2014
tomiobj:
Uninterrupted sex
So rich guys give interrupted sex. Anyone who is willin can go for a poor guy but stop makin it look like goin for a rich guy makes one a badoo ,stop painting it like it always dosnt go well,stop sayin "what if he treats u like trash,he won't treat u well because he wld c u as his property" dats just misleading...well I hav observd most poor guys won't even do u goood cos they ar eida frustrated or insecure..wen u cough they say u want to leav dem cos they ar broke.. U won't even enjoy d rrelationship sef..I v bin there bfor..so y d stress wen u can b happy..my guy is rich and guess wat? He dosnt treat me like his property as u guys always claim rich guys do.
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by charming247(m): 11:20am On Dec 29, 2014
Mrsfaithhh:
Guy:babe u knw I love U.
Babe;I knw honey.
Guy;I knw I can't giv u anytin . But I lov u.
Babe:tomorrw is my brtday
Guy: wow happy brtday in adv babe. U knw I'm broke wuld hav taken u out.
Babe: embarassed
So wat does a babe gain here?
she ill gain sincere love.
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by charming247(m): 11:24am On Dec 29, 2014
ireneony:
Nothing....i can't date a broke niggah
and I can't date a greedy gold digger.
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by embaly: 11:27am On Dec 29, 2014
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Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Rendition(m): 11:29am On Dec 29, 2014
Richiy:
I don't know why girls have so much financial expectations from guys. Nobody is your father. Nobody has any responsibility towards you at all. If you have needs, ask and do not think it is your almighty right to receive.

It is everybody for themselves. Answer your fathers name. You mustnt except some boy, rich or poor to carry your burdens.

If you want to love somebody, love completely, remove unneeded expectations. Love is sweeter and easier that way.
I support ur post 100 nd wud advice anyone just too consider prospects nd be prayerful, simply bcuz anyone can mk it big beyond anyones expections, support him or wif prayers and love not cuz of money or cuz of material gain
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by gnice545(m): 11:31am On Dec 29, 2014
A fine thrust and a lit of indoor pleasure maybe
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Bowaley17(m): 11:31am On Dec 29, 2014
DrGroove:

Make 1 silly demand: I want to have Bleep. At least you never marry her
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by texalux(m): 11:31am On Dec 29, 2014
The girl should endure next year own go better
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by tomiobj(m): 11:32am On Dec 29, 2014
Sorry. Misunderstanding. Dint kno I meant a broke person. Tot u meant poor. Broke and poor don't mean d same
Mrsfaithhh:

So rich guys give interrupted sex. Anyone who is willin can go for a poor guy but stop makin it look like goin for a rich guy makes one a badoo ,stop painting it like it always dosnt go well,stop sayin "what if he treats u like trash,he won't treat u well because he wld c u as his property" dats just misleading...well I hav observd most poor guys won't even do u goood cos they ar eida frustrated or insecure..wen u cough they say u want to leav dem cos they ar broke.. U won't even enjoy d rrelationship sef..I v bin there bfor..so y d stress wen u can b happy..my guy is rich and guess wat? He dosnt treat me like his property as u guys always claim rich guys do.
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Nobody: 11:33am On Dec 29, 2014
Mrsfaithhh:
U guys b screaming LOve Love now!
But how many of u wld date a lady and just love witout looking out for sex! Infact u feel its not a relationship because u ar not "gaining" sex. But then u want her to know dat relationship is all abt love ,companionship bla bla because u ar broke(or poor wareva)
Dat was how one poor guy I even loved left me cos I cudnt offer his poor ass sex.
>: h
My point; a lady dat does not demand money from u,y can't u let her witout sex?

Thought you were married? Or now a divorcee?
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by laykhorn(m): 11:34am On Dec 29, 2014
Richiy:
I don't know why girls have so much financial expectations from guys. Nobody is your father. Nobody has any responsibility towards you at all. If you have needs, ask and do not think it is your almighty right to receive.

It is everybody for themselves. Answer your fathers name. You mustnt except some boy, rich or poor to carry your burdens.

If you want to love somebody, love completely, remove unneeded expectations. Love is sweeter and easier that way.
God! I love this lady.
I read this and felt good but I felt much better seeing that 'f' symbol.
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by dungburu: 11:39am On Dec 29, 2014
Women believe love is sweet, but they prefer it with bread and butter. Moreover , they are like bank account, the more the money, the more the interest.
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Mrsfaithhh: 11:42am On Dec 29, 2014
Edusouls:
african man sex obssesed always wanting to have sex with any girl he set's his eyes on.african woman the pocket hunter,always guaging the weight of the coin in a man's pocket.african man very abusive to their woman.african woman dosen't worth the feelings called love,but only feels for any man's pocket that shows interest.african man very polygamous in nature.african woman very polygamous in demanding..african women a naturaly dishonest species of women since 1700's. Verdict is that african man is equals to african woman.both are horrible since the beginning..
U make serious sense here.Not biased.dem wan take,dem no wan giv.I remained a virgin till I got married but if I tell u wetin all dis broke bottom boyfrends use my eyes see because they must bleep.they ar not offering anytin yet want to hav everytin.If u ar broke Guys den don't bug any lady who dosnt want sex in a relationship just d way she's sacrificin her enjoyment to b poor wit u sacrifice ur enjoyment for bleeping..ifa hearm.they wl bleep som oda chick still

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Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by TrishaP(f): 11:42am On Dec 29, 2014
Richiy:
I don't know why girls have so much financial expectations from guys. Nobody is your father. Nobody has any responsibility towards you at all. If you have needs, ask and do not think it is your almighty right to receive.

It is everybody for themselves. Answer your fathers name. You mustnt except some boy, rich or poor to carry your burdens.

If you want to love somebody, love completely, remove unneeded expectations. Love is sweeter and easier that way.
Thank you .. Your head Dey there. I feel ashamed when I see how must ladies depends on their BF. And later they'll be wondering why the guys treats them like trash.
Wish most ladies can learn from experience, so they can be independent.

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Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by mediachirps(m): 11:43am On Dec 29, 2014
Synonymously, what would a guy gain from a "No sex" relationship.?
Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by Chizzy20(f): 11:45am On Dec 29, 2014
Richiy:
I don't know why girls have so much financial expectations from guys. Nobody is your father. Nobody has any responsibility towards you at all. If you have needs, ask and do not think it is your almighty right to receive.

It is everybody for themselves. Answer your fathers name. You mustnt except some boy, rich or poor to carry your burdens.

If you want to love somebody, love completely, remove unneeded expectations. Love is sweeter and easier that way.
wish many ladies can think d way u do.

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Re: So What Does A Lady Gain From A Broke Guy In A Relationship? by AnonymustME(m): 11:46am On Dec 29, 2014
Its questions like this that make it clear how materialistic girls can be......and the fact that the OP is female......sigh

We just keep recycling this topic on NL
you go into a relationship because you love a person and the person loves you back....any other thing is secondary. When a lady starts looking for gains from a relationship she should ask herself what her man is gaining from her as well . If its just sex and companionship there's a problem expecting more cos she's getting just that back as well. Asking for gains is like asking to be paid for the sex and companionship ...........and that's the same definition for prostitution

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